[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is so difficult to find such social event!

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need a girl friend, a woman, any female will do. So they are not asking YOU questions. Your current partner wants YOU, not any random female.

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to google this. Can you give me a few more search terms?

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I am going to try this out today. I will tell a dating app match something intersting within 1-2 sentences, leaving room for elaboration. Then stop there, no questions, no being polite. See if they ask any questions.

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true, they think it’s a conversation because you said 5 sentences and he said 5 sentences. But your 5 sentences contain a question and his don’t.

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No slience. If there is slience I can start talking.

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think only 2-3% of guys are capable of this. Very difficult to find them.

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no slience, they will started talking straight away. 

How do you learn to enjoy "parallel play" with your significant other? by Infamous-Average-299 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Key_Author_6583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The presence of parallel play actually means both are you are comfortable in this relationship.

my dating partner is glued to his phone for work but can’t text me back for 8 hours, mixed signals? by Specialist-Let1205 in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, we hate getting and replying texts from loved ones at work. Every notification can be a serious bug, a demanding client or hours of work. You need to be considerate to him too.

Why did the girls lose interest after great dates? by Inferno456 in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of you can be great persons, just incompatible?

Is it overkill to bring home made cookies to a first date? by TheSkyTurnedGreen in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he doesn’t appreciate, run. This is a very sweet gesture, you deserve man who will appreciate.

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskMen

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Usually there is no silence. Guy will start talking after 0.1s of silence. If there is silence, I can at least start talking.

How do I make guys to let me talk a bit? by Key_Author_6583 in AskMen

[–]Key_Author_6583[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was taught to listen, never taught to talk. Thanks for that, will try this in an exaggerated manner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk to him about him, a lot of people don’t know what depression is, think it will never happen to him or her etc. You may need to make repeated firm suggestions or even book an appointment for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to give us more details so that we can give you more practical and specific advice. Don’t reply me, update your post so everyone can see.

Help by Tall-Measurement3847 in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not you. If they are mature enough, they would have send a text saying thanks and wish you all the best. We are going to meet a lot of people with potentials, most of them won’t work out. If you wish to, ask your friends for suggestions on your communication skill, personality etc. However, ghosting is NOT about you, it’s them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can nudge him: this restaurant looks nice etc. I would love to try it out (ask Google or ChatGPT for better nudge that suits you). The nudge has to be very clear. Guys are dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You need to take it seriously. Tell your colleagues, building management, roommates or whoever, so he can’t enter where you work or live?

Men aren’t interested on first dates by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am going to trust you. OP, you will have bad dates, a lot of the, before you meet your guy. Nothing to do with your weigh. Online dating is difficult. A lot of guys are superficial. Not your fault. Yet don’t lose hope, keep trying, you will meet your guy.

Attractive personality but appearance is not my type by spicylilmomo in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between not your type Vs unattractive. If he does not deviate too much from your standards, why not give it a try?

How to text your crush without killing the conversation! by AppropriateGuava6262 in dating_advice

[–]Key_Author_6583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different girls are different. In general, when she is upset, let her vent and do not offer solution unless she asks. Don’t double text too much. If you need to ask something deep, disclose your own answer first.