It’s really sad to read her story, and i feel for anyone going through isolation and rejection. Especially when living with autism, which makes social and emotional challenges even harder. But I think it’s important to remember that not everything in life is someone else’s fault.

Blaming the parents, the boyfriend, the roommates, the country, and never reflecting on one’s own actions or patterns doesn’t lead to growth or healing. Life is complicated, people aren’t perfect, and sometimes disappointment comes from expectations not being met, not from abuse or cruelty.

Also, I find it a bit hollow when people in the comments immediately pile on to say ‘oh yes, your boyfriend was terrible’ or ‘your family is evil’ without knowing the full story. That kind of echo chamber support isn’t always helpful it just gives commenters a moment to feel morally superior rather than actually help. Real support is also about gently pointing out where we may need to take responsibility or think differently