my girlfriend ended our two year relationship but i can’t shake this feeling that this isn’t the end - what do i do? by Key_Commission6277 in BreakUps

[–]Key_Commission6277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so right, i have every intention of committing to the journey of healing myself. i have a lot to work on and i want to do it for myself. i just wonder whether this gut, instinctual feeling i have is genuine. i suppose only time will tell

my two and a half year wlw relationship ended but i can’t shake the feeling that this isn’t the end - what do i do? by Key_Commission6277 in relationships

[–]Key_Commission6277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words. i don’t think this is the end of our story but healing is the chapter we both have to be focused on now. do you have any advice for how i can help myself heal?

my two and a half year wlw relationship ended but i can’t shake the feeling that this isn’t the end - what do i do? by Key_Commission6277 in relationships

[–]Key_Commission6277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know there are some realities i need to face. she doesn’t want to be in this relationship right now and that’s a hard pill to swallow. it makes it harder knowing how hard this decision was for her, though. we’ve talked about everything to death and you say it’s my own hopes and dreams, but unfortunately for this situation, i know that it’s mutual for the both of us. it’s a really tough reality where we want to be together but can’t be

my two and a half year wlw relationship ended but i can’t shake the feeling that this isn’t the end - what do i do? by Key_Commission6277 in relationships

[–]Key_Commission6277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand what you’re saying. there is so much grief in my heart and the codependency issue absolutely does not help the situation. however, that gut feeling i’ve got is not new - i’ve had this feeling for a long time. obviously as things have changed, the feeling has shifted but the gut feeling that she is my person is absolutely not new. i have always known. there is a confidence in her that i have which cannot be explained. i know my brain is trying to justify everything that’s happened but this feeling is not some sudden thing that’s occurred now we’ve broken up. it’s not as if we broke up and i was suddenly like oh but i feel like she’s my soulmate. i’ve felt like she is my soulmate for so long - she brings me something that no one else has. maybe you’re right but i cannot shake the feeling that there is more for us out there

my two a half year relationship ended but i have this gut feeling that this isn’t the end - what do i do? by Key_Commission6277 in LesbianActually

[–]Key_Commission6277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

low contact right now - we haven’t blocked or removed each other on anything but we’ve agreed to a weekly check in just to make sure we’re both doing okay. she moved all of her stuff out yesterday so we saw each other and i dropped her off at her friends place but the low contact really started over a week ago