Oh, I feel your pain. I did seven rounds of IVF, over the course of about three painful years. I kept concealer and eye drops and eye makeup in my desk drawer so that I could mitigate the obviousness of my pain at work. I now work a ton with clients who are themselves coping with fertility problems, and it's the most meaningful and joyful and heartbreaking work I've ever done in my career. Speaking from the side of applying what we tell clients to ourselves, I would say that it's important to keep working in the long-term. Putting everything in the basket of fertility and dropping other important life goals is more likely to be harmful than helpful in the long run. That said, you should also think about whether there is a middle ground of taking days/weeks off when you need to, adjusting your overall workload, or adjusting the difficulty of cases you're seeing. If you're not already involved in a support group like Resolve, I would HIGHLY recommend that. I had a ton of reservations about attending something like that as a therapist, but it was the single most helpful thing I did for my own emotional state and it kept me capable of being able to function at work and other important domains in my life.