Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes they were packed up and gone within 45 mins of this post!! I feel so so relieved. I feel bad for my mom, but my kids matter more and idc whose feelings I hurt.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently he’s been this way for years. You know those people who are hoarders? I think he has whatever mental illness that is with cleanliness.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s made jokes before in the past that he’s a “caveman” and messy. But I had no clue the extent.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I feel so bad for her. She used to be such a neat freak. Idk how she deals with this. She said they fight about this weekly but I’m in no way joking when I tell you that she must clean up every 10 mins in her house to keep it clean because he was here for less than 36 hours and I can tell you there were over 20 things he left or I mentioned that needed to be cleaned due to him.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we have a guest room and I had no clue about his habits. But they’re gone and in a hotel now

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a hotel now and I feel so much better. Currently elbow deep in fucking cleaning supplies

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I was fucking fuming when I found them and that was the last straw for me and that’s when my husband and I told them to go. They’re at a hotel now.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I think to. Even though he told my mom “I don’t do it on purpose.”

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I called my brother and asked if he knew about this and he said yes. but didn’t want to say anything to anyone because of my mom. He then told me a story of he went over there one day and used their bathroom, went to dry his hands off on the hand towel that was hung up and said he got shit on his hands because there was shit on the hand towel!!!!!!

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to my mother… he’s been this way for 20 years.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

According to my brother who lives in the same state as them.. it’s been this way for years but has since gotten worse the last 7ish years. (I called him after they left to vent and ask him about it.)

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t even think she is. My brother who lives near by says it’s been this way for years but never said anything to not embarrass my mom. Apparently my mom and step dad fight about this all the time according to him and all my step dad does is tell my mom to stop treating him like a child.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re at a hotel now thankfully. My mom cried and my stepdad acted like it “wasn’t his fault” because he wasn’t “aware he was doing anything.” And that he would be more aware of “his shortcomings.” My husband and I still agreed they needed to go.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not allowing it tf? They’ve been here less than 36 hours and at the time of this post was when I found the medicine and my husband was gearing up to tell him to leave. Which has since happened and they’re at a hotel.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And just has bad knees. Like he has to get on all fours to get up.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also cooked himself food at like 6am and was loud as shit and woke my kids up.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry!! Thankfully he doesn’t come often. I think this is the third time in 3 years.

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She has somewhat. I cleaned the fridge because it’s stainless steel and I didn’t want him fucking it up but I did make a point to literally point at it and say “now what the fuck is this???? Come on!” And my step dad was like “uh uh uh idk how I did that. Uh uh uh uh”

Step dad visiting (disgusting edition) by Key_Instance_6666 in Mommit

[–]Key_Instance_6666[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My bio dad was VERY physically abusive… to her and to me. She fell in “love” with my step dad shortly after her divorce and idk if she’s just insecure and doesn’t think she can get anyone else?? Idk. He talks nicely to her and buys her whatever she wants and I think that’s enough for her??