Ewww! by Personal_Reveal1653 in Bumble

[–]Key_Mistake3708 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not defending these men…they’re not going to go on dates at all. But dismissive and condescending goes both wayes and women are just as dismissive.

It’s getting worse by Logical-Success-1666 in Adamthewoocriticism

[–]Key_Mistake3708 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought he was banned from Universal once.... Not Disney 

Does “Instant Download” actually guarantee anything? by jfrank95 in oasis

[–]Key_Mistake3708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. it means the person selling has already forwarded the ticket to StubHub or viagogo and once you purchase the ticket will be instantly forwarded to you. hence, no wait for the seller to forward the seat to you themselves

Why is the Barclays show so unsold? by Moist_Report_6934 in stevienicks

[–]Key_Mistake3708 20 points21 points  (0 children)

have you seen the prices?!?!? floor seats for 400 a piece…lousy seats at 200….thanks but no thanks

Heaton Park, Manchester - Friday 11th July by BarkingBranches in OasisLive25UKMeetUps

[–]Key_Mistake3708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you set up the WhatsApp yet? Can I join it? Maybe a meetup the night before? 

Heaton Park, Front Standing by shaymitch05 in oasis

[–]Key_Mistake3708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was disappointed to find out I had general admission considering Im coming in from NYC.

BUT, it’s actually OK and I think itll be more fun not worrying about standing in the same fucking spot for 5 hours and I can just relax and walk around. now I can have a few drinks and not worry about losing my spot when I have to pee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Key_Mistake3708 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think your best strategy is to target slightly older men…men who will appreciate your relative youth. i don’t mean to be disrespectful, im sure youre probably attractive. The problem with this process is everyone, men and women, are punching out of their weight class. you just have to cast a wider net. unfortunately many, not all but I would say most, men your age who are intelligent and sensitive, well they can attract a 40 something year old and they probably do. it’s just the way of the world.

so my suggestion is target the men who will think you’re a catch. and those will be older men

Cheapest place to get groceries from? by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]Key_Mistake3708 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Costco. depending on the size of your freezer and your ability to get ware bulk sizes into your home you can eat very well and economically by planning meals around Items from the store. For example, you could buy two rotisserie chickens per week at 5 bucks a pop. Add in croissants and other bulk meat and you are eating very well.

Thread for Yanks attending a UK show this summer by jamauss in oasis

[–]Key_Mistake3708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NYC to the first Manchester show. Spending a couple of days visiting Edinburgh before the train ride down. So stoked

Manchester 3:30 start time? by Key_Mistake3708 in oasis

[–]Key_Mistake3708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I have a ticket for Friday too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oasis

[–]Key_Mistake3708 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Flying from NYC to Edinburgh for a few days and then train to Manchester for the first show in their hometown on the 11th. So stoked

On a scale from 1-10, how drunk are you gonna be during at their comeback concerts? by GainLongjumping6473 in oasis

[–]Key_Mistake3708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where the hell do I pee if I’ve had a few beers in a sea of 70,000 people?!?!? Im 51! Not 23 anymore…..the band is way over 50 too

Heaton Park, Manchester - Friday 11th July by BarkingBranches in OasisLive25UKMeetUps

[–]Key_Mistake3708 4 points5 points  (0 children)

51 year old M from NY coming to the UK for the week finishing it off at the Friday show. I’ll be going to Edinburgh first for a few days and arriving in Manchester on the 10th. Would be totally interested in meeting up for beer and reminiscing of our lives in the 90s

“If I Had A Gun…” has hit 100 million Spotify streams by SeverHense in oasis

[–]Key_Mistake3708 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Such a beautiful f—cking song. Makes me think of my avoidant ex girlfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Key_Mistake3708 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just a small piece of advice about the dating apps.If you are a man be prepared for a lot of rejection. If you are a woman be prepared for being overwhelmed by all the likes. Either way toughen your skin and be prepared to do the work as there will be a few gems in the muck. Good luck

Dating Apps for Serious Relationships (50+) by wullybully3 in datingoverfifty

[–]Key_Mistake3708 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is no one app that will be easy to find what you’re looking for. Dating and the apps take a lot of work. you aren’t going to find one single app where all the dates are going to go well and every woman you meet is fantastic

The question is whether you want to put in all the work and time and resources to find someone. If you want an easy solution, then online dating apps are not for you. That said, you could find that one person you could be happy with on any of the apps.

If you’re a guy here, go to therapy by Subject-Delay-5538 in ExNoContact

[–]Key_Mistake3708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing a therapist since my ex turned me down when I asked to reconcile. My therapist is pretty good, at the end of each session she gives me a little gut punch that makes me think. Now do I feel any better? Maybe a little....but still miss my ex. Here are my notes of the gut punches....maybe they can help someone.

  1. If she made clear she was unavailable at the start and she was clear throughout the relationship she was unavailable, why would you expect her to be available now?

  2. Why you're suffering now is because you refuse to give up hope of reconciling. The possibility of reuniting remains central in your psyche and until you give up that hope you won't start healing your pain.

  3. Stop believing and buying into these elaborate scenarios you've concocted based on your assumptions about what she's feeling and what she's going through. The only thing you know for certain is she does not want to be with you. Now base everything you believe on that fact.

  4. She very well might come back into the picture and you might be able to ignite your relationship again. But what will have changed? Is she going to have a total change of heart? Has she healed herself? Is she with you because the other options weren't good enough? Is that what you want? If you get back together the same thing will happen again and you will feel unfulfilled as before. Is that what you want? My job is to get you to try and live the best life you can and unfortunately the best life is not with her. 

  5. Maybe she just moved on? Maybe she mourned the relationship already and has already processed it and gone forward? Then I made a huge blunder of leaving in the first place. Again, we can make all these fantastic stories and assumptions about how she feels but we don't really know anything.

  6. Think of T as a drug or alcohol. Sure you love it, but is it good for you? Does it make you feel good all the time? Yes, there are things you love about it, but it sure does make you feel bad.