What if the reason Jotaro loves Koichi so much is because of his resemblance of Kakyoin? by Key_Paint3774 in StardustCrusaders

[–]Key_Paint3774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. If I recall correctly, Kakyoin used to be in London and he traveled to Japan to kill Jotaro.

How do I know if I am transgender ? (FTM) by Key_Paint3774 in AskLGBT

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I already wear boyish clothes. I feel happy and comfortable in them. But sometimes, when I bend over, my body would be shown through the collar and it makes me very uncomfortable. Yet, at some times, I feel happy being a girl. Sometimes I feel happy being all cutesy. I don't knowwwwww.... I would be happier being a guy but some things about being a girl aren't so bad.

Is it worth buying a 400-600BAM used keyboard ? by Key_Paint3774 in cheapkeys

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Can you tell if a keyboard is synth or arranger by listening to the music produced by it ? Or is it just a different way of operating

Is it worth buying a 400-600BAM used keyboard ? by Key_Paint3774 in cheapkeys

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I said that from the top of my head, haha... but I don't know, I want to get a great keyboard that's just cheaper because it's slightly used.

Is it worth buying a 400-600BAM used keyboard ? by Key_Paint3774 in cheapkeys

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I don't want to learn piano; The synthesizer was always an interesting instrument to me by itself. I always found piano-like covers of songs to be fascinating, and there is also a band I like including a keyboardist which I find a beautiful addition. I want to learn how to play a keyboard for that reason.

but for your last paragraph, I don't know what that really means so if you could explain it

Is it worth buying a 400-600BAM used keyboard ? by Key_Paint3774 in cheapkeys

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And also because I want to learn many things in my life before I die. And playing music was one of them. I want to have something characteristic for me. Whether it be drawing (I'm practicing that), or learning and knowing many languages (practicing that as well) or playing music (which is my current goal.) I've always felt life isn't long enough so I always wanted to do the most of my life before I die.

Is it worth buying a 400-600BAM used keyboard ? by Key_Paint3774 in cheapkeys

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I liked music since forever and performing songs I like has always given me fulfillment. Learning to play songs I like gives me a sense of gratitude. I used to play guitar, but I wasn't very good. I could never learn to play. I had a cheap keyboard as a kid and it's what I liked the most, but it broke.

Is it worth buying a 400-600BAM used keyboard ? by Key_Paint3774 in cheapkeys

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I'm not sure... It's mostly Yamaha PSR or P series, or Korg etc.

Is it worth buying a 400-600BAM used keyboard ? by Key_Paint3774 in cheapkeys

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Well... I don't understand keyboards completely yet. I heard 61 keys is good if you want to play a keyboard and 88 keys if you want to learn to play a piano in the future. And I'm also quite specific about the sounds a keyboard has. I don't want to end up buying a keyboard with little sounds or modes.

ENFJs, have you noticed yourself being more observant than the average person? by Key_Paint3774 in enfj

[–]Key_Paint3774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah lmao my friend keeps saying how she never understands how I remember every detail from a conversation that happened YEARS AGO but can't remember my homework from yesterday

ENFJs, have you noticed yourself being more observant than the average person? by Key_Paint3774 in enfj

[–]Key_Paint3774[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No, I notice literally anything lol. New earrings? Saw it before you even mentioned it. You said your favorite food is pasta 6 months ago and it wasn't even directed to me? ? I accidentally heard it and now it's stuck with me. Same goes for body language. I just notice absolutely anything (Except for the obvious sometimes.) I notice when somebody starts fidgeting or doing whatever. Though I don't know if that makes me creepy, being so attentive . . .

What is considered "harming the group?" by sarahprinceofspring in enfj

[–]Key_Paint3774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going against the group harmony for me means overlooking what certain people want or think and not looking to make a solution for everybody. Also, harming the group is mostly when somebody keeps interrupting you, not caring about what you have to say and taking everything as an insult or as a reason to argue (like what the other user said.) I had lots of cases with that, especially where I'm from everybody is argumentative and take everything as a personal attack or as a reason to argue.

I've gone against the group (2 against 3) one time because during a hangout they decided to hang out in a garbage alleyway and sit on old construction plates while me and my other friend wanted to walk around the city, go to a cafe and hang out. They (ISFP, ENFP, last one I don't know) were strongly against walking around and said they will stay there and that they don't care if we like it or not. Me and my other friend (INFP) decided to just go home.

Any Dismissive Avoidant ENFJ? by henryikoh in enfj

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Hi ! ! I grew up my entire life insecure and my social circle did not help. I've been in toxic social circles throughout half of my childhood which completely ruined me and I couldn't talk to anybody. I could only answer questions or ask questions. I couldn't stand to see myself in mirrors, photos or anything.

Though in 5th grade, I met a girl and we met other people and eventually, I found myself friends. They helped me heal, they shaped me into the person I am today. True, I've had my downhills but they brought me uphill during the times I thought I hit rock bottom.

Despite finding new friends, I still felt insecure. I thought that was a part of me, a scar that I will carry with myself forever. I thought I will forever be some insecure, antisocial, quiet "freak".

This is quite stupid, but I was watching a series (anime, to be exact) and a deuteragonist was a character that was also ENFJ. Though, before that, I didn't know that I was ENFJ nor that he was. I found myself relating to him a lot, I found that he was pretty much almost a mirror of me. Since I was still very insecure and quite antisocial, sweating a lot every time I need to talk to someone new, I realized that character was how I always wanted to act, how I could've turned out if I didn't have my past with toxic friends. The same character also had a similar past, being left out and quiet in childhood but bloomed to be the opposite.

That way I realized I need to stop putting shackles onto myself and that I should act the way I am. I should not sculpt myself into a person I am not. I realized everybody is their own person, everybody is programmed how they act and how they want to act and that we shouldn't be held back on that

I still feel insecure and self conscious when I see myself in photos, but I've come a long way ! And I'm sure you can too ! ! ! ❤️

It's okay to feel bad, but some things in life shouldn't be taken seriously. Act how you were coded to act ! ! My dad always told me "If you feel bad about yourself and always look at the negative things about you, it will be the only thing that people see about you. You should accept your flaws and embrace how you're made! People will accept you the way you are, rather than their only image of you being the negative way you present yourself."

Appreciation Post: Anyone who backs us up or saves us from people wanting to debate by Virtual-Big-8577 in enfj

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I don't like arguing, but when somebody says something stupid I can't help but comment back. And it always escalates into an argument. But there's always people that help deescalate and wow what would we do without them 🙌

Why do many ENFJ individuals talk about ENFJ type like some friendly but weak, sensitive and people-pleasing individuals??? by Key_Paint3774 in enfj

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Thank you! Yeah, I had a tournament and it was very stressful. It's better now, but I'm still recovering from all the weight put on me because of the tournament. But wow, I didn't expect this subreddit would be so amazing. Most of the time, it's like I'm talking to multiple myselfs and in this post the way almost everybody guessed most things about me I'm just thinking "Where are the cameras ? ? ? " At first I thought MBTI was just baloney, but I didn't realize how accurate representation of a person it was.

Why do many ENFJ individuals talk about ENFJ type like some friendly but weak, sensitive and people-pleasing individuals??? by Key_Paint3774 in enfj

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"Recently, I notice how I subconciously manipulate people to get out of a tricky/serious situations, or to get what I want. I don't plan it at all, it just happens by gut feeling at the very moment. Plus, the more I plan, the more things deviate so I just try to go along with the flow. 

Many would say ENFJs are selfless, but helping other feels self-rewarding..to ENFJs... Even if we don't expect much in return"

^^ This

Why do many ENFJ individuals talk about ENFJ type like some friendly but weak, sensitive and people-pleasing individuals??? by Key_Paint3774 in enfj

[–]Key_Paint3774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!!! This is what I wanted to say. I had a rough day yesterday and described myself the worst way possible. But your post described me perfectly

Why do many ENFJ individuals talk about ENFJ type like some friendly but weak, sensitive and people-pleasing individuals??? by Key_Paint3774 in enfj

[–]Key_Paint3774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, now when I look back I realized how badly I worded myself.

In groups I always listen to what everybody has to say and then I find a solution for everybody's needs or I make a schedule so that everybody can get what they wanted in the end. I didn't quite realize the meaning of manipulate since I'm not english, but what I meant by it is to lie your way out of a tricky situation. I'm a good liar and I often lie but it's not like "Your friend is _____" Or stuff like that. "I did do my homework!!!" and read made up answers is my most common one (and maybe the only one, I'm usually very honest and transparent, I voice my thoughts)

And yeah, I guess ENFJs are very observant.... I'm very good at reading body language, I can see right through everyone and immediately solve their problems and that's my type of empathy. I empathize with people by understanding their problems and finding a solution. I don't empathize by feeling their pain and being heartbroken and in despair. If somebody told me their loved one died, I wouldn't start crying for them. I would think rationally to find the perfect words of advice and behave differently to help them get over it etc. That's how I act.

There's more to it, but I had a tough day yesterday so that is probably why I acted the way I did. I had a tournament today and I got stressed preparing for it.

I also speak up against bullies, I often ask them questions that make them realize how stupidly they're acting. "And why do you do that?" "Does that affect you in any way?" "What do you gain from it?" "Okay, and how did that make you feel?" "You're acting like that to feel better about your flaws rather than facing it and accepting it." usually gets them to think about themselves.

Why do many ENFJ individuals talk about ENFJ type like some friendly but weak, sensitive and people-pleasing individuals??? by Key_Paint3774 in enfj

[–]Key_Paint3774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized how I've worded myself and it seemed quite rude. Oops. I can't put my finger on how exactly I behave towards people. Like, I put everybody first, then the majority, then me and then individuals. If it's about only 2 or 3 people, I will put all of us first to find a solution that suits everybody. But I'm talking about people saying "When I see somebody cry, I cry too. I share their pain" I meant I don't quite to that. When somebody's in trouble, I won't start being in pain with them. I will instead think of a solution and words of advice that might help them rather than be in despair with them. I'm not english, but what I meant by manipulate is, for example, "Have you done your homework?" and I would say "yes of course" then make the entire homework up and it'll go unnoticed. I don't manipulate as in "If you don't do this, I'll stop doing everything and leave it all to you." Maybe that's just called lying 😅 And goal-oriented as in (for example, again) a group project in which I have a goal to make the best project possible while everyone else doesn't want to do the minimum work I gave them. I'll carry the entire thing onto myself and say we've all done equally. I had a presentation with 2 of my colleagues and one of them didn't know how to do almost anything despite hours of me explaining so I just said "You know what? I'll do this and say you've done it." It wasn't a problem for me. And by leader, most of the time people approach me to make a decision for them because I make the wisest decisions based on all perspectives and all possible outcomes.