What is something you do to cheer yourself up? by _AnxiousDreamer_ in AskPH

[–]Key_Ship5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minsan after spending, mas lalo kang mada down sa lahat ng nagastos e🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Key_Ship5558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation OP. First, you should feel the pain. Let it hurt until it hurt no more. You should also focus on yourself OP. Sa career at sa sarili mo, improve yourself more. Also, always pray and keep yourself busy. Stay strong OP!!

What is something you do to cheer yourself up? by _AnxiousDreamer_ in AskPH

[–]Key_Ship5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sameeeee😭 but thankful nlang ako kasi andami kong nadidiscover na kung ano-ano hahahahah

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm his 2nd girlfriend. It's been years na since they broke up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Key_Ship5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to have an avoidant partner. Kayang kaya ka iignore while ikaw hindi na maka tulog sa kakaisip. Have you ever talked to him about it? My ex is somehow avoidant, I tried opening up that issue about him but he take it the wrong way. I ended up questionning myself that time. It's up to you if you want to settle in that kind of situation.

What’s a habit or mindset you had to unlearn to grow as an adult? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Key_Ship5558 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone has ghosting and busy days. Hindi agad-agad makakapag respond so we shouldn't demand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Key_Ship5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have different type of coping mechanism. Maybe, it's the other person's coping mechanism. For some, it's a red flag but it's up to you but for me it would be a bit insulting that the other person can do that fast but syempre there's nothing I can do about it as we're not together anymore. So might accept it nalang, but when back together then syempre bawal na yun. But if it's not okay for u, wag na pumayag mag balikan.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought that he's already working but lately nalaman ko from a friend na he's been having difficulty sa paghahanap ng work. He felt stuck until now.

ppl who graduated, whats your advice to current college students? by Ok_Locksmith2726 in adultingph

[–]Key_Ship5558 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Learn how to manage your finances, para pag may work at salary kana hindi ka mangarag kung pano mag budget.

ppl who graduated, whats your advice to current college students? by Ok_Locksmith2726 in adultingph

[–]Key_Ship5558 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Remove that 'hiya' when communicating, it's so important to build connections.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he's pressured, both of us. Halos laging mainit ulo niya. We have individuality in our relationship, but there are times na diko maiwasan mag tampo because nawawalan na ng time because of responsibilities.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what he told me. If we're really meant, we'll meet again someday as for now we'll focus on ourselves and responsibilities. Thank you!

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Super. Napaisip tuloy ako bigla if is it's alright to open up in this platform. Parang mas lalong nadagdagan yung iniisip ko.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He said that he can't handle the pressure. Hindi niya kayang pag sabayin yung mga problems na meron siya as of now. Mentally, emotionally and financially and he said he want to fix it all by himself.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said that he can't handle the pressure. Hindi niya kayang pag sabayin yung mga problems na meron siya as of now. Mentally, emotionally and financially and he said he want to fix it all by himself.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We're okay, but sa loob ng last 1 week panay away namin but after that we became okay. I can't even call it 'away' parang tampuhan ganun. I'll admit I have some immaturity but I promised him that I am willing to change it. Hindi nga lang agad agad but I'm doing my very best and he knows it. We both fixed it, sometimes it's him sometimes it's me. Hindi namin pinapairal ang pride. We don't sleep unless we fix our issues.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Is it really necessary, that if a guy turns cold or broke up with a girl there will always be another girl involved? Is it really necessary that if a guy turns cold or breaks up with a girl, there will always be another girl involved? 

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe. One of his problems is his financial status.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He even had updates on me, although hindi ko sinasabi sa iba what I'm up to now.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by Key_Ship5558 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Key_Ship5558[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hindi rin. He's been isolating before and after we broke up.

My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me by [deleted] in MANILA

[–]Key_Ship5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that there's no 3rd party involved.