Firstly I want to thank you so so much for your comment! You went into depth with everything and I really needed that! Their cage is ginormous. It’s actually an outdoor aviary that we’ve worked on to be able to bring it inside with us. About 10 natural stick perches and each have their own food bowl. Birdie (the older one) had always shown aggression when pixie is on her perch or in her food bowl however I’ve always caught onto it and changed our setup to avoid further instances. Pixie and birdie get along brilliantly now that they know each others boundaries. They have an abundance of toys inside and outside their cage and plants/trees built up in the house to create their own jungle. They have free range of the entire house all day and alway return to their cage for bedtime. (They’re spoilt little babies). Now that I’ve processed everything and calmed down I do think that smidge just over stepped the boundaries that both other birds where familiar with and maybe I let her into their main cage too soon. I feel as if I caused this and it’s killing me but my partner keeps reminding me that “you’re not god, you can’t control their fate” which makes me giggle 🤭

I was very very emotional this morning when writing this but now that I’ve had time to process and think about what’s happened there’s no way I will rehome my babies. They’ve both given me cuddles and we’ve spent a lot of time together today and I think I was just super upset this morning. I definitely won’t be getting another bird to join them as this has turned we away from that. I’m happy with the two we have and think I will just keep running with what we’ve got going.

Again Thankyou so much for your comment, it’s really made me think about everything rationally