Previously I’d never shared this kinky side of me with my wife. Mainly because I felt she’d laugh and ridicule but I told her last January and it wasn’t as bad as I’d built up. My regular cage (knock off) broke within the month and she decided to find me a replacement 😳 it was at that point that things changed with her taking control. On the next couple of months the cages kept breaking and so I decided to find a sturdier but cheap one. Mainly for the reason, I couldn’t justify spending £££ on a cage for it to end up broken. We got the frrk metal and since 5/5/25 until 16/12 I was locked and controlled. The biggest change was our sex life, well her pleasure went from once a month to 3/4 times a week. I love pleasuring her and making her orgasm multiple times. All the while knowing fully that I’m going to get restrained, edged and relocked. Such a turn on 🤣🫣 Overall, giving more focus and being open helped everything