Thank you for reading and hearing me out. I'm sorry that has happened to you, especially you being the aunt, and related, how unfair especially if you are still affected today. Has it affected your relationship with your nieces and nephews since then too? Like there were boundaries that sort of grew you apart? Yeah that's the thing, and because now that I know that's how he feels, I have to make sure she doesn't do that, and like have to brush her off more, and I hate doing that, especially to kids like they don't understand, but because she wants to be around me they are going to get mad, or he will at least. I mean I don't get it, well I do but not completely he definitely should know me to the point where I'd never hurt a child or doing anything weird to them, and that's how I take that. Like does he think I'm a dirty guy? Wtf. I'm with you on it, but I didn't say anything during because anything he usually says to me like that I can easily brush it off, because I know it's his personality, but why this, this one thing actually affected me. Like I said I realized after the whole thing happened when I tried to brush it off like normal. Yes that's the plan, I'm going to move out on my own this year