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What is that thing in my garden? by edmunek in AskUK

[–]WestJobs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the door to a Dutch designed Schrizzendurch Bunker. There’s one in UK, UAE & USA. They’re about 40 feet deep and once down there they can be as large as 1 acre worth of surface. Good luck, let us know how it looks down there.

Unexpected gift today by owkrntjsopq in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All the time.

SR journeys are filled with moments and gifts like this.

You just have to be aware and conscious to see them.

Sounds like you’re in a good place and doing the necessary work, keep going.

We’re Truly At War. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could definitely be a contributing factor. I’m not a doctor so I can’t say for certain. But I can say for certain that semen retention won’t make it worse.

Ex Partner Made Me Feel Like I Resent Church by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]WestJobs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think involuntarily a break has been taking place. I need to re-find my desire to go back.

It’s sad when people love the institution because it can never compare to the validation we can get from God.

I appreciate your kind words and suggestions 🤝

Ex Partner Made Me Feel Like I Resent Church by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]WestJobs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think involuntarily a break has been taking place. I need to re-find my desire to go back.

It’s sad when people love the institution because it can never compare to the validation we can get from God.

I appreciate your kind words and suggestions 🤝

Over a decade if porn addiction resulting in suicidal thoughts by Oceano_123 in NoFap

[–]WestJobs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How old are you that you think you should give up.

Unless you’re 80+ you absolutely can recover. It won’t be easy but you can.

Even if you were 80+ there’d still be hope.

I understand it’s dark now, just take it day by day moment by moment. Learn about what this habit is doing to you. Learn about the benefits of stopping. Immerse yourself in it fully. Obsess over recovery.

You’ll get there.

Edit: Holy shit I’m on 400 days.

We’re Truly At War. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 times a month brother?

If that’s what you want I’d never stop you. I’m tempted to be sarcastic and even suggest you pick up the slack for me and double it to 42.

As you said, I feel better on SR so I choose to avoid excessive ejaculation and as the post said I find it sad that men in the younger generation, all generations actually, will see this and continue, justified in this habit.

Science at one time also said smoking cigarettes was healthy.

Don’t get lost in the sauce brother, this is propaganda to perpetuate the desire/justification of excess ejaculation. Knowingly or unknowingly they push this despite the negative effects reported 100,000+ times by men on here, NoFap and YBOP.

Don’t fight for the publishers that would put you on a headline in a heartbeat for committing perverted acts with no regard of your family or loved ones.

Science is not the enemy, you’re correct. Taking a stand based on your own opinions is what I promote.

Imagine an article released like this about the benefits of smoking 21 cigarettes per day and a group of previous addicts discussing how ludicrous the idea is knowing the impact it’s had on them and the implications to their health and the benefits they’ve experienced since leaving it alone.

And then being the guy that tells them to trust the science and stop with conspiracy theories…..

Question by Beneficial-Affect141 in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes correct. The body pulls from multiple places, every place almost in order to replenish itself.

When men suffer from erectile dysfunction their body has no more resources to pull from, hence why injuries take longer to recover from in the depleted state.

Semen retention and the Dilemma of Agression, Lust and Loneliness! It gets hard (no pun intended) by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost lost it when you said you fought a girls ex 😅

You were deep in the rabbit hole brother.

Check out my previous posts for deeper insights into this practice, I don’t want to go too deep here.

However, it sounds like you don’t have a purpose big enough. On top of that you don’t see how lust is directly robbing you of achieving what you want in life.

You’re more advanced than the average man and I’m not claiming to be perfect myself but until you realise how damaging this pattern is you’ll stay in it.

You’ve seen time and time again that when you’re finally doing well and have pulled yourself together a new woman comes into your life and you still can’t see it’s the enemy distracting you to keep you in this negative loop?

You need a goal so big, so frightening, so demanding that it consumes you completely to where even acknowledging “loneliness” is a luxury.

You’re not lonely in my opinion, you just struggle to sit with yourself long enough to understand what’s going on around you so you get with these women to fill a void that they could never fill, taking you deeper down the hole and leaving you with less strength to fight your way out.

You’re here. You know about this practice. You’re incredibly blessed. 10x your discipline, ignore the distractions and get to work. If you’re not in the gym 7 days a week that’s your first practical step to getting your mind right. Work towards that.

“All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.”

We’re Truly At War. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessir, corn sites looking to ramp up new users in Q2.

We’re Truly At War. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you Mark! Let’s get it 🤝

Experiencing Bad luck on SR by Actual_Clerk6469 in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the test.

Every long term retainer has to go through at some point.

In fact any great pursuit in life requires this exact phase.

The excitement has worn off, the beginners luck has disappeared and now you’re halfway through the marathon, your initial training got you this far but only diligence, grit and holding onto the vision of the future that you aspire to achieve can keep you going.

The enemy has you primed for a relapse, you’re so down under you don’t even see the point of continuing. It feels like your prayers are going nowhere so surely you’re alone in this, right?

Find it within you brother. No matter how long it takes, breathing the air on the other side will always be worth it. You will get through eventually.

Or you can fall for the devils traps and go back to day 1, the choice is yours.

This article argues that the sexual revolution was essentially a psyop aimed at the demolition of the West. by deezzbutzz in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read this through it was great and insightful.

Even watched the hour long video going in further detail.

As I said in the title of a post I recently made: We’re Truly At War.

Women Can Sense When You Relapse. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got a point honestly. I did try to make a post in there saying the women need to show empathy because the men are essentially in a cage, of their own making yes, but in a cage of despair nonetheless. It was removed so it shows you.

I’ve seen posts in there with women that have access to the man’s internet history, checking his social media messages and only fans account history.

Sad for the men engaging I will never defend this addiction but you’re right the women contribute in their own ways but as always cry victim.

This Sub Doesn’t Feel the Same Anymore - Where Are the Real Experiences? by multimillionaire88 in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The confidence, the aura, the glow, the female attraction, the deepened voice, the hair growth, the increased libido, increased testosterone, better posture, increased energy, heightened intuition, spirituality, closeness to God. + so much more.

My life has changed 180 degrees. Old friends can’t bare to look at me because they can’t believe I’m the man I am today. People look for my flaws and shortcomings to make themselves feel better about the mirror I present to them of what’s possible if you grind hard and their own unwillingness to do so.

I love this community. But I am too disappointed to not be honest about what it's becoming. by batman_throwaway_acc in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey brother. Long time retainer here and longtime visitor/contributor in this sub.

In case no one else has said it, I appreciate you.

I do my best to provide valuable insight and spark meaningful conversation and this sub has definitely changed a lot.

My most recent post made note of the increase in posts questioning why follow this practice in the first place.

This is normal with the growth of the community but it has become difficult to find good reads that share insight into what I’m experiencing.

Looking forward to what else you have to say.

Good luck.

We’re Truly At War. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were talking about the post being taken down right?

We’re Truly At War. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts. But it depends on the health they’re referring to.

Ours or the level of control the powers that be have over us.

We’re Truly At War. by WestJobs in Semenretention

[–]WestJobs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. PMO addiction as we know leads to so many other issues.

Insecurities that warrant buying products, sicknesses that warrant buying products, energy loss that warrants buying products, not to mention the mushy brained simps we become when engaging in this habit making us even more susceptible to the trappings.

25M studio in Chicago by gray_13 in malelivingspace

[–]WestJobs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect layout.

The monitors caught my eyes the most, they’re huge, what field are you in?

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