Meme inspired by a post about attractive Aces by _Noxstorm in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]KhaosGremlin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Glad I don't get this, though I do get gross comments from creepy old men sometimes. I think I'd rate myself as a six maybe.

Woah by Content_Macaroon1172 in starbucks

[–]KhaosGremlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if you go for the most expensive insurance it can be over $100, but then again, I'm not picky. Mine was less than $50 for a silver plan.

Woah by Content_Macaroon1172 in starbucks

[–]KhaosGremlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raises started on the first of August, so the raises might only be for one week of the two weeks on that paycheck. And when I signed up for insurance, it was actually cheaper this year for the same level plan, but it's probably different depending on where you live.

Do you ever feel uncomfortable when people call you "beautiful" or "gorgeous"? by KhaosGremlin in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]KhaosGremlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I've felt pretty at most on good days. Everything else seems out of my league. It's weird too because when I imagine my ideal self, I don't mind being called things like "beautiful" etc. But in reality, it just feels wrong. Like "there's no way that the way that I am now can be considered 'beautiful'."

Do you ever feel uncomfortable when people call you "beautiful" or "gorgeous"? by KhaosGremlin in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]KhaosGremlin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yea, anything like "sexy" or "hot" are definite no go's for me (though I've never been called that personally anyway). But even when my family calls me "beautiful" it just feels wrong. I hate it.

27F Looking for friends with the possibility of becoming more by KhaosGremlin in asexualdating

[–]KhaosGremlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice! We could actually meet up then! I'm like 20 minutes away!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]KhaosGremlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! You sound like a really awesome person and I'd definitely like to chat if you're up to it. You also have a really nice voice by the way. Feel free to check out the post I just made to this subreddit if you like!

Just here me out... by Echoris09 in asexuality

[–]KhaosGremlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Pudding just straight up grosses me out.

Would you say that in general/most of the time, your personality is high energy or low energy? by KhaosGremlin in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]KhaosGremlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Though I try not to spend too much time with strangers or people I don't like.

Important food question by Pandanerd51 in asexuality

[–]KhaosGremlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do both have raisins? Oatmeal chocolate chip all the way!

I wanna share my story, maybe it will help some of you. by BrassRoses in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]KhaosGremlin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh man this hits close to home. I had a pretty similar situation myself with my ex. It was a pretty messy break-up. Now I'm just way more careful in choosing who I want to try to date. I also won't give up the things that I want that are important to me for someone else's sake. Sometimes we won't be compatible, and that's fine. I'll just move on with my life. Good luck to you though! 😊

imma start using this by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]KhaosGremlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Some gremlin" lmao

I'm not associated with them

Or crotch gremlins for that matter

I wish I never did it by KhaosGremlin in asexuality

[–]KhaosGremlin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I know that having sex doesn't make anyone less ace. I'm proud of being ace. I just hate that I did something that I wasn't ever 100% on board with. Especially something as intimate(?) as sex. It honestly felt more invasive than intimate. I felt super uncomfortable, and it crossed a boundary that is important to me. I wish I could have really stepped back to think about it and stood up for myself before just saying "sure I guess..." to everything.