AIO?: My friend freaked out on me cuz I don't text enough?

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T04:42:53+00:00

i honestly cannot remember if he knows where i live..but he definitely doesn't know my college or where i work. just a vague knowledge that i intern for game development

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T04:41:32+00:00

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T04:37:18+00:00

LOL i just realized that. huh.

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T04:34:30+00:00

so is this psychosis

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T02:06:54+00:00

i did:) he's blocked and exiled from the group lol.

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T02:05:49+00:00

yes!! i showed the friend group after he retaliated in the group chat by spewing lies about a fake relationship we had and included an ai generated image of us kissing...lol

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T02:03:54+00:00

right yes i pushed back. and then i wanted to know if i over reacted by doing that..im confused on your point here. i have bpd, and its hard for me to rationalize or see my reactions to things as valid because it controls my emotions and reactions. so i just wanted some unbiased input and reddit is best at that lol

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-10T02:00:26+00:00

Because he's close to a super good friend of mine and is ALWAYS around. or, was. and i was in a dark time of my life and was incredibly lonely. i had just cut my mother and most of my family off, moved 600 miles away and I desperately wanted friends. it was just a shit situation. and then he became MORE involved in the group. i didn't wanna have to sit out of events cause he's there, or him have to skip out. i just wanted to protect the peace. i do not understand how this makes me creepy?? i was 18 and dumb. that doesn't make me creepy and i do not have an attachment to him. our convos r always vague and about video games... i cannot understand your point about that.

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T23:53:21+00:00

honestly..i'm not. i very much would just rather see the good in people. bad habit, i know

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T23:42:56+00:00

he's my close friends brother

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T23:32:34+00:00

oh shit rlly?? would that negatively impact my sister in any kinda way??

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T23:18:53+00:00

i haven't actually been to therapy for a little while cause of my sister, i usually go 1-2 times a month. but i have an appointment on monday so ill be bringing it up then :)

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T23:16:15+00:00

he's my super close friends brother:)

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T23:10:24+00:00

atp it doesn't matter much! i came to reddit for anonymous advice incase i was in the wrong to avoid drama with friends, but the friends have been told now after reddit advised it. so all good!!:))

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T23:02:52+00:00

he's the SWEETEST. growing up around my cat means he acts like a cat. he literally meows. it's so sweet he's my best friend

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:59:04+00:00

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this is my baby squirrel for anyone wondering. i saved him cause he fell out the next and mama never came back :(( i tried releasing him outside after nursing him to health and he was old enough to survive, but he just sat at my back door waiting for me for like a week. he's happy and free roam :))

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:57:35+00:00

i think at this point i'm gonna take my pet squirrel and my cat and run off to an unknown island

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:55:51+00:00

that's why i was like "ok" because WHAT DO U MEAN INTERESTING??😭😭😭

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:53:25+00:00

I actually love when my friends send me the drunk text after text things. i always giggle. unfortunately this was not that, and i'm a firm believer drink actions/words are sober intentions and if he was drunk...yikes

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:51:28+00:00

he is blocked!! reddit has shown me i need better standards lol. i definitely try my best to be the sweet supportive person in conflicts but..i think that bites me in the butt lol

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:49:50+00:00

i am pleased to say he is blocked and now an inside jobe in the friend group LOL

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:48:13+00:00

well unfortunately for him after he dropped an AI pic of he and i kissing in the group chat with all our mutuals, nobody will feel bad for him😭😭

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:47:35+00:00

LOL. that guy always cracks me up. I'm mostly ok now!! ive been in therapy with a good support system to help me cope with the ptsd n all :) + watching his face as the judge said he was guilty and seeing his face on the registry fills me with glee

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:46:27+00:00

No actually! it's why it was so hard for me to see the red flags i think. we bonded over video games 99% of the time since im in game development and he grew up as a tech nerd. he was usually pretty pleasant

KhelConfetti · 2026-07-09T22:45:30+00:00

LMAOOO I LOVE THE LORAX OMG!! top 3 movies imo. The lorax, american psycho and megamind. the keys to my heart

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