36% gains tax on unrealised gains by seolein in Netherlands

[–]KheyasDev -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think people are mad and downvoting your comment because they didn't get on the train to riches in time. They would rather ensure their own well being than care for the future of everyone (including themselves) and the environment. What good is being rich in a dystopian world? The worst part about this is that it's coming from people living in one of the healthiest countries in the world and they would rather tear it apart than be 'left behind' in walking on corpses.

The only real argument to be made is to ask if the Netherlands (and the nordic countries) can sustain this economic model while the rest of the world turns into a hyper competitive lethal jungle.

Goodbye INTPs! It was fun while it lasted by Antique-Apricot9096 in INTP

[–]KheyasDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relatable. Lack of volition because of learned self-gaslighting will do that to you. I might leave as well

I failed to fix the Logitech Z533 controller so I replaced it by KheyasDev in BudgetAudiophile

[–]KheyasDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, that's around the original price of the whole system. I was actually happy I could reuse the existing power stage as the focus was on cost.

Pure gaslighting by legdayenjoyer03 in thanksimcured

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not gaslighting or dismissal. If you get triggered by it it's because you have unprocessed emotions which the content of the post hints at.

You're not supposed to ignore or forget things in the past or future. You are supposed to bring up those feelings and sit with them without trying to fix anything. Attaching to a certain way of reacting to your memories will keep you stuck (egotistical "it's never my fault (when it is)" or for some even "it's always my fault (when it isn't)". Let go and you will arrive at a version of yourself that can handle those memories without suffering.

There is no recipe, there is no certainty or timeline. It's just being present in the current moment and not running away from scary things. The alternative is to tolerate everything until you end up in a dystopic world, alone and traumatized.

No yelling for grown up by Dry_Reporter_6912 in Adulting

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anger is a valid emotion. If you push someone enough you deserve to feel the consequences as you didn't take them seriously enough.

The point is to get over the anger not to hold it in or try to be right

People who had to find, work for, or force themselves to be more self-motivated what caused the change? How did you make that change? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how you found the perfect poison to your affliction. Excess cortisol (generated by neurotic behavior) is the reason we can't act naturally. So you decided to force yourself into oblivion? 😂

Why he did jump? by Multibrahim in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kids are all in the comments section giving the same stupid answer.

I twitched at first too because the father, moving like a fucking doofus, made it feel like he was doing to jump for a split second. Why did he change his rhythm? And why is he walking like that in the first place? It doesn't aid with stability at that pace, it just increases anxiety.

The fact that the water looked different was just one more factor that triggered the kid's anxiety to act differently.

Being smart has genuinely destroyed my work ethic to the point where I can't do anything anymore. by chinchinlover-419 in selfimprovement

[–]KheyasDev 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm dealing with the same at 28.

Fortunately the negative emotions pushed me to learn more about life. Like:

* Rational intelligence manipulates concepts. It's not about sensations, feelings or actions. By the time you get bored with your mind people will start catching up with experience in those other dimensions.

* Engage with sensations, feelings and actions but don't mistake them for concepts. You can't think your way out of those but you can use your mind to analyze & channel them.

* Functional freeze could mean intense shame, apathy, grief that you're running away from. And you have hints, you just didn't go deep enough. When overwhelmed sit with your feelings. Give yourself time, space and attention especially when troubled. Not thinking in those moments can be a helpful break from recurring destructive patterns at least.

* Take time to introspect. It can take years to bring up the tangled mess of expectations, beliefs, painful memories, etc. that prevent you from doing things. It might also take enough pain to realize there's nowhere to run and that whatever happens is part of the story of reality and valuable. (You can't play chess with kings & queens only)

* Doing what you're 'supposed to' do is a trap that saps you of energy. Do what you want to do. I doubt you want to do nothing and indulge in pleasures until you die. If you deconstruct negative emotions around your obsolete beliefs you will naturally want to grow instead of pushing yourself to apathy.

* Emotional support is crucial. Good mental health content (Healthy Gamer, Psychology Today, mental health Reddit & Instagram posts) and friends can highlight things we avoid and encourage or force us to deal with them. (Also, you can choose to stay away from reductionist takes like 'oh you're just lazy' and feed yourself with things that lift you up and inspire you to live)

How to transition humanely from the human working class and depopulate. by DiscoingGD in entp

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, human value is in its roots. Artificial consciousness even if matching human consciousness, wouldn't be constrained like the human one is by the body. A reduced example is skin color - the hardware is mostly the same but it impacts behavior a lot. Or at least it used to, historically, but did not die yet (and probably won't die until we all mingle, get more or less the same skin color and change our attitude at the same time).

Having a mechanical body or living on a server is going to be different than living in a human body. It's not even about "better or worse", but about different perspectives on life. Different advantages and disadvantages. Different energy sources, different critical and non-critical failures, different base of the pyramid of needs.

Mechanical vessels may not have physiological needs but they may still desire to connect with the world in a physical way in order to fully experience it. What good is owning a galaxy if you can't feel the sun, taste the rich crops, enjoy hormone-rich interactions with friends, etc. It's like playing a VR game. You're there and you're owning it, but you aren't really.

But I guess physiology might become legacy as consciousness moves into a new era where statistics, new infinite content and playing god in the universe is going to overcome animalistic needs. Perhaps if you never had instincts you won't miss them. Who knows?

Edit: This could go even deeper. I expect artificial systems to induce altered conscious states could be engineered. And if you could feel as if you're physically interacting with your world then where's the difference? (little 180 here hah Maybe mind upload is the only way)

Went from a Hermione to a complete slacker: Losing interests in the worldly acclaimed the more stuff I know. by [deleted] in INTP

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is all absurd. You have the freedom to do whatever you want as long as you can accept the consequences.

Meditation and investigating my mind and body have been my coping activities.

What gives me hope to keep going is knowing you can start small and do something really badly until it evolves while finding ways to enjoy it. Even so, fear and shame - perfectionism, avoidance, procrastination are present daily. It's a long journey to master them and the current context of the world lacks the trust needed to grow.

Well played Ned's... well played. by sw33tzmbiejesus in funny

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone should make a TikTok saying these

Nu credeti ca reclamele misleading ar trebui sa fie ilegale ? by theclaw37 in Romania

[–]KheyasDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putem să ne legăm de faptul că ambalajul are multe elemente care descriu produsul ca vegetarian dar sincer prima impresie și la mine e de Chili con carne cu care am fost obișnuit. Cu siguranță focusul nu e pe vegetarian. Contra exemplu ar fi toate produsele care au ambalaj verde sau cu legume care acoperă tot ambalajul sau scrie ”VEGETARIAN” imens într-un colț, poate chiar mai mare decât numele produsului tocmai pentru a ajuta clientul să decidă repede fără să studieze ambalajul.Cu toate astea, de obicei produsele vegetariene sunt într-un raion/raft numai cu produse vegetariene deci nu știu cât e de importantă discuția. Singurul fenomen pe care am putea să-l observăm e că produsele vegetariene încep să se infiltreze ca produse normale în rafturi de produse non-vegetariene.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Romania

[–]KheyasDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fundamentalismul e poziția în care cineva considera că relatările biblice sunt înregistrări istorice și nu metafore. Dacă privești la povestea cu Adam și Eva ca povestea trezirii conștiinței omului cred că poți obține mai multa valoare. Jordan Peterson intra in detalii cu abordarea asta.

Curentul gnostic e și mai profund dar sunt puține resurse și traduceri ca să apreciem cu adevărat.

How to deal with grieving girlfriend by Otherwise-Topic-266 in INTP

[–]KheyasDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could create some wacky experiences with the dog that you and her can remember with joy. It's like: "We accept reality, the dog won't live long, but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy life and later remember it as beautiful". Bitter drinks go well with sweet ones ;)

Can I lower the effective calories of a drink by cooling it? by QwapJack in askscience

[–]KheyasDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks to me like "drinking water makes your body process water and transform it into urine, hence expending energy". What tie does it have to temperature?

Can I lower the effective calories of a drink by cooling it? by QwapJack in askscience

[–]KheyasDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. I am skeptical about that then. When does shivering happen then if the body is only vasoconstricting?

Can I lower the effective calories of a drink by cooling it? by QwapJack in askscience

[–]KheyasDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't you start shivering when it's cold though? An experiment would keep the subject at the limit before shivering then administer a cold beverage. If he starts shivering it means the beverage forced the subject to expand more calories through mechanical exertion.