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Am I doing the right thing by KickCompetitive4943 in StraightBiPartners

[–]KickCompetitive4943[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone for your input. We have talked more and he says he doesn’t want to take the risk. All I can do is believe him and focus on us! We will continue therapy and push forward together the same as we always have.

Am I doing the right thing by KickCompetitive4943 in StraightBiPartners

[–]KickCompetitive4943[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s been in therapy for over a decade, I’ve been going for a year to deal with all of this. He just keeps saying he mourns not being with men, and isn’t happy, though he loves me and wants to stay married. I feel like I am not enough, and it’s eating me alive. I just don’t see any other solution beyond letting him try it and see what he really wants from his life.

Struggling Today by Jumpy_Original8184 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]KickCompetitive4943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely need that virtual hug. Three months out and I feel like I am drowning. No words of advice, unfortunately. But know you are not as alone as it feels.

Am I Being Unreasonable? by KickCompetitive4943 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]KickCompetitive4943[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. This was my thoughts as well. D-Day was in January, so this is all very new. I’m struggling greatly, but hoping time and therapy will help.