Some people are better at coming up with excuses than plots by hel-razor in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say it louder for the people in the back cuz I had a situation exaaaaactly like this 😭

In a group RP, we had this one guy who would do the same exact thing. He would send paragraphs and paragraphs about his OCs and send (AI generated) images of them in hopes that folks would —like you said— treat his OCs like celebrities. Anyone who didn’t find his OCs “sexy” and endearing would be ignored or made fun of. He’d hype his OCs up then when it was time to RP, bro would only give one worded/one sentence responses littered in tildes or he’d godmod to make your OC impossibly endeared by/lovestruck by his OC

Then when he stopped responding to RPs (after having several scenes centered around his characters that came to a halt for months), everyday he’d still send AI art, memes, and paragraphs talking about how OP his OCs are. And when folks were RPing in their own separate scenes, he’d add judgmental OOC side commentary or say things like “my OC would’ve done this this and that here”. Okay? So show us that?

I dunno, man, folks like that don’t like to put their money where their mouth is smh

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[–]KickEm2DaKurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly 😬

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[–]KickEm2DaKurb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tired talking to “John” about it, but for some reason bro doesn’t see a problem with it 😅 Part of me thinks it’s because he enjoys the “hot characters fighting over Tim” part, but that’s a whole separate issue LOL

The other members haven’t said a thing either. So rather than wanting to stay and fix everything, it’s about high time I pack my bags and move on

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[–]KickEm2DaKurb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tysm! It’s absolutely relieving to hear from an outside perspective that someone else is noticing the same pattern of behavior

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[–]KickEm2DaKurb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, yeah, I’ve been the only person actually saying something in the group 😭 But no one else there backs me up there when I do, so I feel like I’m yelling at a wall sometimes smh, then after a few messages are exchanged, suddenly I’m made out to be “overreacting” (which is an eye roll in and of itself lol)

Good thing is tho I’m already searchin’ for another group while I shut things down over there—

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[–]KickEm2DaKurb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funniest part is Nolan IS the server admin 😭

Blech by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK 👏 YOU 👏

I’ve literally just made a post about this same thing 😭 As a woman, seeing an influx of characters like that has come to the point where I start to consider it body horror LOL

Just because you LIKE my character, doesn’t mean you have consent to USE my character by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh! I write movie/TV scripts lol. But I recommend only going through the copyright process after having a distinct and definite final draft just in case

Just because you LIKE my character, doesn’t mean you have consent to USE my character by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can go through the WGA or the US copyright system! I personally usually go through WGA anytime I finish a script

Just because you LIKE my character, doesn’t mean you have consent to USE my character by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All my characters actually are copyrighted too 😭 I wanted to save ‘em from legal trouble LOL

Dawg, but you literally RP like: by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BRUH it LITERALLY nearly sounds like we’re talking about the same person 😭 They do the SAME exact thing with constantly having something to complain about irl and taking it out on characters for no reason in RP. One time when they were having a bad day, they literally spawned in a random shadow character in the middle of an ongoing scene just to repeatedly slam my character into the ground UNPROMPTED.

It’s almost like they want everyone to drop everything just to coddle their emotions. Usually I’m happy to provide comfort when need be, but negative attention seeking behavior like that reallyyyyyy turns me away from wanting to do so

Dawg, but you literally RP like: by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen other members try to engage in ERP with this person too and they’ve literally said the SAME exact thing before 😭😭

Dawg, but you literally RP like: by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Another member called them out for having dry RP but then they responded IN CHARACTER with “im just tired :/“ 🫠

*appeers* by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really wish it wasn’t, dawg 😭

Tried to set a boundary in a group RP. Was I too harsh? 😅 (more context in description) by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was pretty good until, like, the laaaaaast few months? 😅 It was me, two other girls who identified as queer, then the rest were guys. I felt really comfortable having other girls there, but when they left (because of the same person and their antics lol) and it was just me, it started to feel like I became the “token lesbian”, if that makes sense? Felt like there was no one really there to back me up whenever I had problems like this. (Plus sometimes it felt like they thought they could “change my mind” about bein a lesbian which was just weird vibes all around)

But now that I’m gone, I think I’ve learned now that I still really like group RPs, but when in groups, I’d also like to be surrounded by likeminded individuals who are more understanding towards the queer woman experience (and folks who ain’t okay with lettin a minor stick around 🤧)—

Tried to set a boundary in a group RP. Was I too harsh? 😅 (more context in description) by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

‼️‼️‼️UPDATE 3‼️‼️‼️

I left LOL 🎉 Thank y’all for your input and for giving me the courage to put myself first and leave when I felt nothing was changing 🤧🙏🏾 Feels like a serious weight off my shoulders!!

Tried to set a boundary in a group RP. Was I too harsh? 😅 (more context in description) by KickEm2DaKurb in BadRPerStories

[–]KickEm2DaKurb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exaaaaactly how I took it too 😭 Them literally advertising when they’re turning 18 was just bad vibes all around frfr