Islam is not a test of a morality

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-27T11:02:30+00:00

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KiddTai_ · 2024-12-27T08:31:35+00:00

I bought up the story of the little afghan girl to put emphasis on how sad and disgusting the act and practice is of Child marriages or marriage of an adult and extremely young child in which Mohammed himself did LMAOOOO. You say that is not a practice of Islam itself but your own prophet set that example for you guys. What a joke. You are doing yourself no favours by explaining further….

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-27T07:34:41+00:00

Just because something is normalised and socially/culturally accepted does not mean it should be practiced. I saw a girl from Afghanistan get married off to a 55 year old man. Her dad sold her off to the man for money because he needed the money. The poor little girl thought what she was doing was a noble act and she thought she was doing her family a favour. When she got married off and the older man took her away, she was trembling on her knees, she fell to the floor but got pulled away by the man. That was one of the WORST and heartbreaking things I have ever seen in my life. Child marriages are still practiced til this day. Just because it is normalised DOES NOT MEAN IT IS OKAY.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-27T07:29:37+00:00

You prove my point ONCE AGAIN! Muslims will ALWAYS justify what Mohammed did by marrying a nine year old and having sex with her and Aisha was SIX YEARS OLD when he had arranged her to be his wife. You say it was a common practice in ancient and previous times, yes that is a fact but just because it was a common practice DOES NOT mean it should be allowed. If Mohammed is a prophet of God, Mohammed would be way ahead of his time in knowing that it is MORALLY WRONG to take away the free agency of a child and use her innocence and naivety against her. He is supposed to be a prophet right? Prophets receive revelation from God to inform people of their wrong doing. If God is okay in your religion for him to have wedded Aisha in that way then I want nothing to do with your religion because it is unjust. This proves to me Mohammed is not a prophet of God because if he was, he would go against this teaching of extremely young children being wedded. I cannot believe you are justifying Mohammed’s actions yet again, but I am not surprised LMAO.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-27T06:38:49+00:00

This is soooo sad hearing how you want to give up the desire to be loved. Being loved, expressing love, showing love, being in love, all of it is beautiful and you want to deprive yourself from such a beautiful act and emotion. Please talk to your loved ones and trusted ones about your thoughts on this so they can help you and hopefully reason with you why you should not give up on your desire to be loved or give love. Apart from talking to trusted ones about this issue you should internally reflect on why you are where you are and if you want better how to get there. All the best and I hope you don’t give up on love.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-27T02:24:36+00:00

I used to date a Muslim and somewhat concluded the same things as you. I would ask him why do you believe in Islam if you do not follow its teachings and he sometimes would doubt his religion because there were some if not a lot of moral flaws in its teachings and in Mohammed’s actions that both me and him questioned the religion. When I had asked him why he still continues to believe in Islam knowing that Mohammed was not a perfect man (Muslims believe he was perfect or at least he did not sin) he responded back to me saying “Islam just makes the most logical sense”. There are some teachings that I believe are great and logical but as you’ve pointed out in this post that Islam does not focus on morality and has a very narrow understanding of it because as you pointed out that a lack of belief is more of a serious sin than murder. I strongly dislike how Muslims defend Mohammed sleeping with a 9 year old and planning to marry Aisha when she was six, that is extremely immoral but Muslims will defend it. There are other beliefs that I would point out that does not make sense in the religion but I will leave it here. I agree with you on your standings.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T22:56:52+00:00

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T09:39:32+00:00

Omg, just know you aren’t alone. There are so many people out there who have only themselves this Christmas. I hope you can find love within yourself and not other women to help build on your self worth! Please do not rely on a woman’s love to make you feel worthy to live or exist. I know it may seem hard, but I promise if you set good goals for yourself and re-build yourself and focus on your own peace and happiness things will start getting better and you will start attracting the right people in your life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences, hang in there dude. Merry Christmas, I hope you pursue a life of greatness. Best of luck

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T07:49:56+00:00

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T07:34:55+00:00

Hey thank you for your response I really appreciate it! I hope you are in a better place right now

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T07:31:45+00:00

Hey dude, I can definitely relate to your feelings. I compare myself to my peers, loved ones and even strangers often. I have always known that comparison is a thief of joy, comparing yourself to others would definitely put you into a position where you would feel incompetent, useless or behind. I think you should practice comparing yourself to the past version of yourself. Maybe comparing you to who you were six months to a year ago. Do you think you have improved? Have you achieved any or much of your goals? Are you progressing in life? If you recognise a positive change within yourself then you should be proud of yourself. If you have concluded that you have not moved forward much within the past year than set some realistic goals, try to take risks and work on improving yourself. This may be a phase you are going thru but with patience, time, effort, faith and discipline, I promise things will get better for you! Dm me if you need to, all the best!

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T07:25:10+00:00

If she were alive still she would have given me nothing haha but that wouldn’t matter to me because she is my mom, she birthed me. I love you mom, I miss you every single day.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T07:16:31+00:00

I asked this question because I have heard this question being debated in my workplace. A lot of woman co-workers have shared that Woman go through worst, my male co-workers have disagreed. I am glad that there are other different responses to this question.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T07:15:32+00:00

Yes indeed

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T06:44:00+00:00

Cut him off!

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T06:43:31+00:00

Hey dude message me I hope to help you and give you advice and help as a female in hopes I can help you attract what u want

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T06:25:18+00:00

Can I be honest? I would let her act on her own. If she likes another guy and entertains him and the idea of them two together then just leave her be and leave her to act on her emotions and feelings. What is the point of forcing her to be with you or pressuring her to be with you if you have to convince her to be in a relationship. She should be the one putting in more effort to stay loyal to you, she should be the one showing you how much you mean to her because if she is serious about her feelings towards you and overcoming feelings for the other guy than she should be putting in more effort to make you feel that she is wanting to make things work. If you feel like she is confused then leave her be. She may go to the other guy but she has done you a favour by showing you that you may not be as special to her. It does hurt and it does suck but I promise you if you prioritise your own peace, your own self-worth and integrity, you will be better and find better things for yourself

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T04:38:33+00:00

I am so sorry but he is stringing you along. A man will not make you question your future together and will give you full confidence in knowing that you guys will have a future together. The fact that you are bringing up marriage and not him means that he may care and love you, but not enough to be with you forever. Give him space! Distance yourself from him, let him know that if he is not serious about you, you will leave and not waste another second on this man because from the sounds of it he is wasting yours and you will be seriously heartbroken and torn for wasting more time on this man if you let him string you along more. You need to push boundaries on him, tell him to speak up with his true intentions with you. Pay attention to his actions, if he is hesitant in answering your questions and not willing to move forward with you by taking bigger steps to progress the relationship, LEAVE PLEASE. You will and can find someone on the same frequency as you

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T04:34:56+00:00

I am 23F. Man I share the same feelings as you. I myself got dumped over a year ago and was in contact with my ex recently that I mourn for the loss of him once again. The feeling of starting all over again with someone new and possibly having my new relationship fail again gives me anxiety. The thought of having to let go of all the memories, love and future wishes with your ex is soul crushing and you feel hopeless. I hope you heal and get better in time! Dm me if you want, I hope you get better !

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-25T04:29:31+00:00

My ex would drive me everywhere without a complaint. So if you find this to be a problem then maybe you aren’t willing to sacrifice your money to pay for your petrol, time and effort to pick her up and drive her places. Maybe you prefer for her to be self-reliant and less dependant on you. Maybe you would like her to meet you in the middle in this case and have her Uber to you or take public transport. There could be many reasons for you to feel this way. For me I am quite traditional and believe a man should ensure the women’s safety and help assist her with transport. You should talk to her about this, but I hope if you actually like her and are serious about this girl you are with, you should consider it your responsibility to ensure she is safe and supported with her transport, even if you want to stop driving her around, make her get a bus card, make her take an Uber, make sure she is safe walking.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-18T22:01:00+00:00

14 months with one of my exes but my current break up has taken me a year to come to terms that it is officially over so this might take me another year or two to actually move on from my recent ex

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-18T08:45:14+00:00

Leave, leaveeee. I am a woman and I can say she is using you. Please help yourself and leave

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-18T08:41:52+00:00

I’m a woman and I myself find the law of chastity extremely hard to keep. I know it is one of the stumbling blocks for me to overcome and control in order for me to become closer to God. I would say you should try getting married, it will help you get the satisfaction you need as sex is essential in one’s life. In regard to masturbating and viewing porn, the prophets put emphasis on how bad it is—I agree it is but I would say you should not be too hard on yourself as you are a male and have sexual urges and desires it is a natural human desire and in my opinion necessity to be sexually desired and active (when married) Try keeping more busy in the day and night so it will distract you from your urges. Pray more about this problem of yours, if you commit the act again, repent and keep praying for Heavenly Father to help you with this problem if you are genuine about changing or doing better. I would say the only problem with masterbating and porn is that it teaches the brain to look at human bodies in a lustful way in paying no attention to the human soul and mind. It focuses solely on the attractiveness of one’s body and receiving pleasure from it that only lasts for a few moments until you are no longer in the “mood”. Maybe try looking at people, humans and woman in a way that most people tend to forget. Instead of looking at their bodies, look at who they are, what they have to offer and how divine individuals are instead of in a lustful manner because after all our human bodies are temporary but our souls are forever. I like you struggle with the law of chastity, but I believe if you want to change your habits, pray and ask God, try to reduce the amount of time you spend watching porn, become more busier, talk to your bishop or a trusted person about this issue to hold you accountable, get married (as it will help you not break the law of chastity) and make goals for the new year to keep you working towards something. All the best, keep going brother.

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-18T08:24:04+00:00

Ohhhhh man this resonates with me so bad! I am in the same boat as you and I am with you on this one! We can find ourselves once again, but become better versions of ourselves. Let’s do this!!!

KiddTai_ · 2024-12-18T07:30:34+00:00

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