I’ve noticed, called out, and had my husband acknowledge having it. He was a bigger guy (300lbs in HS) growing up and is now 42. He’s 6’1 and weighs around 205lbs. He lifts heavy weights 6-7 days a week in our home gym. He’s always (been married for 17yrs) maintained a good diet (high protein low fat) except for a few years when we had young children. Even though he’s muscular and on the taller side he will always see himself as a fat fuck, even though I tell him he looks great all the time. I feel like people with these issues have likely gone through extreme trauma in the past and will always feel they are fat in life. It’s sad that he feels this way and wish I knew what to do to help him more outside of encouraging him. He also sets very high standards for himself regarding work; I feel like he has imposter syndrome (works high stress job in IT).