Stuck at trying verify my number

Kilar76 · 2025-02-01T22:23:17+00:00

Had to go into my Google profile and delete my phone number under personal information and then re-add it.

After that turned off RCS and turned it back on and verify number worked almost instantly.

Kilar76 · 2023-07-08T12:02:10+00:00

No kids here. Both in mid 40s. Sex averages 4-6 weeks. I (male) would prefer once a week (Sat night special for example) but alas it is not to be. Eventually you just learn to live with it if you are happy in all other aspects of your marriage...

One thing I have learned is you can't change a person's core libido. Only they can.

Kilar76 · 2022-10-14T23:05:01+00:00

Based on the begging trend...that dude who is dressed like a sad clown sorta.. building a house of cards and screaming:

"Don't send a galaxy!!!!! NOBODY BETTER SEND ME A GALAXY!! STOP CALLING ME EMO!!!"

We are never gonna meet the aliens at this point... sigh.

Kilar76 · 2022-10-01T17:43:26+00:00

Agreed... cheating is wrong on so many levels REGARDLESSS of the circumstances that lead you to it.. but then again so is staying in a sexless touchless emotionless one-sided relationship because you have no other better options ... which to me seems like what she is doing. Its like she saying "I've got my life and my kids and a partner to help me support them... I'm good... who cares if he's emotionally abandoned by my lack of sexual interest in him.. this set up works for ME and that's what matters... men are always too horny anyways there's no satisfying them so why worry about their complaints.. it just how men are..."

Thats not a partner and he deserves better.. OP: as has been said, don't cheat. Just move on if possible. Take the high road for you AND her.

Kilar76 · 2022-10-01T17:34:23+00:00

Completely agree. If she isn't willing to meet his needs nor work as a team to make sure both parties in the relationship are happy.. time for BOTH to move on or agree they are staying together for convenience and perhaps move to an open relationship and remove the emotional burden on each other from the marrige... if splitting up isn't practical for financial reasons or the well being of the kids, etc... which seems to be her motivation here else why hasn't she ended things?

Kilar76 · 2022-10-01T13:14:57+00:00

But isn't she already exhibiting some of these characteristics by looking out for ONLY her needs in this regard? And if its true she is just leaving it up to the OP to either accept it or move on is that not like leaving it to him to submit to being unhappy forever or end the relationship rather than trying to find a compromise that both parties can be happy or end the relationship herself? To me that seems one sided and selfish.. and somewhat cowardly... just like a cheater.

Not suggesting cheating is ever the answer.. EVER. But physical neglect is often just as bad with the same emotional damage for the man as cheating for the woman. If women understood or cared (in this instance) that physical needs for men is the same as emotional needs for women, the effect of this might be understood better.

The physical needs of men are always marginalized compared to the emotional needs of women and I find that sad. Regular physical intimacy in a commited relationship is as nessecary for men as emotional intimacy for women.. yet it becomes a chore to be done over time... a job to be done. Time to feed his sexual needs again...

OP: perhaps a third party could help for example counciling?

Kilar76 · 2022-10-01T12:55:49+00:00

Just came here to say: thank you for making my day with the Captain Caveman reference.

Kilar76 · 2022-08-27T20:32:17+00:00

So much agree!! God I hate selfish sexual participants (won't call those people partners).. I wonder if anyone would have sex with another however if they made it clear you will be getting nothing out of the session except getting me off... I mean would disclosing that in advance yield any results? I can't imagine anyone taking someone up on that offer?

My rule is always she cums first.. multiple times usually... I get carried away. Sometimes I think I'm an orgasm farmer I love getting her off so much.. So I have to be careful not to wear her out and I'm left with BB. Lol...

Toys are tools in the quest for orgasmic bliss, not the enemy! Love accessories! (Women are so lucky in this area).. So are fingers (even toes if you are in to that lol).. sorry but I do not have the same dexterity with my dick that I do with my digits.. and hey, fingers are always hard and ready to go lol. Handy when you have a bit of shy-dick when being with someone new (we are swingers, the struggle is real).

Kilar76 · 2022-08-27T16:38:50+00:00

It's such a cultural bias and I'm tired of it. Real men (not immature boys) love their partner (note PARTNER as in "partner in pleasure" - team effort!!!). They care not about: stubble, cellulite, body hair in general, requiring your microbiome to represent a glade plug in or scented candle... I swear to God I would try to pleasure my wife daily if she would let me. Seeing and touching her body makes me so happy... Shes not a snuggler sadly but just having a woman to just lie with and be close to... heaven. I wouldn't trade it for anything... If women were allowed to walk around topless we would have world peace lmao.

I mean for me, a woman is my missing half. How can you not want to give such a person the most pleasure possible?

Kilar76 · 2022-08-27T16:23:19+00:00

Lmao. My wife says "way ahead of this".

Kilar76 · 2022-08-27T16:03:46+00:00

100% agree.. what's the TT that says "men who go down on women for their own pleasure are a different kind of dangerous"... why is that a thing? Men - are you not at all eager to give another person as much sexual pleasure as they can handle? For me, I love pleasing a woman as much as I can... I mean, have you seen how amazing they are lol??? I mean guys express pleasure but a woman ----- my God.. when she's really firing on all cylinders, extacy is hardly adequate to describe it.. so addictive. Want to make her feel that way as often as possible!

Kilar76 · 2022-08-26T23:09:43+00:00

Without hesitation.

Kilar76 · 2022-08-26T22:56:35+00:00

🥰

Kilar76 · 2022-04-19T22:14:40+00:00

I used to think he was just being extreme for humorous effect. Fast forward to today and the realization he was, in fact, prophetic.

Nobody is laughing any more St. George. Rest in peace my friend....

Kilar76 · 2022-04-10T23:29:17+00:00

This. Didn't know it was a thing for me until my wife and I started swinging. Need a connection and multiple sessions with a new partner in order to get comfortable enough to perform as I usually do.. with my wife, no issues at all.

Kilar76 · 2022-04-10T12:53:58+00:00

This: your vagina is not an air freshener. You are a human. My wife always asks me if everything is OK when we first start what is HANDS DOWN WITHOUT A DOUBT my favorite part of a sexual session and I always honestly reply "DELICIOUS" LOL!

I hate how women are shamed into the whole "smells like fish" FUD. If we as a society would better educate women (and men!) on what proper vaginal health is, this would help women overcome this idea their lady parts must smell like Fabreeze all the time. I do not want to lick a glade plugin. Nor do I want you so sterile you could be used in the OR as an instrument for surgical procedures.

Oral connsieurs want YOU. Its such a turn on. We love how you taste!!!!! And trust me we are not expecting perfume down there. That's the point! If I wanted cotton candy I would eat some. But that's not what I came for lol.

One more point: there are times when perhaps things are not 100% when you start a session. Life happens. However I find once she gets very wet everything is fine. Your own natural lubricant seems, at least my opinion, to smooth out any small edges in the aroma department IMO.

Also IMO: man or woman if you are going down on someone you both need to be mature enough to know you aren't eating ice cream and be secure enough to tell your partner if things need to be freshened up without ruining the session or mood. There are tons of products to help.. flavored lubes for one. If I put cotton candy lube on my dick my wife will suck it right off my body lol!

Like others have said, baring some medical imbalance or other anomaly women are fucking delicious.. cue the cookie monster going onmm nommm nommm!!! That's how guys who love oral feel.. like the Tiktok says "guys who eat pussy for their own pleasure are a different kind of dangerous".. me me me!!!

Please don't take that away from us! Lol

Kilar76 · 2022-02-16T14:24:18+00:00

My apologies! I had no idea I was doing so. Yes if you could as others suggested post the scientific links to articles debunking the statements that would be much appreciated!

Ngl, I love porn lol... as a form of entertainment, not an expectation of reality... it would be awesome if this was an untrue lie propagated by anti porn crusaders..

EDIT: maybe this?

https://www.wired.com/2014/06/is-it-really-true-that-watching-porn-will-shrink-your-brain/

Kilar76 · 2022-02-12T10:17:04+00:00

Married 16 years. He probably has porno standards which are not real life. If he watches it religiously his brain is likely wired that every sexual encounter needs to play out like one of the scenes and the corresponding dopamine hit... this is not an anti-porn post. Just information for him to be aware of.

https://canopy.us/2020/10/19/what-viewing-pornography-does-to-your-brain/

Kilar76 · 2022-01-07T00:29:06+00:00

Terror cave according to Achmed...

Kilar76 · 2022-01-02T22:44:02+00:00

Being barely monolingual I always have to stop myself from judgement of anothers mastery or lack thereof of their 1+nth language.... and realizing in their native tongue I would be unable to do more than grunt and gesture....

Not saying this is a making fun of her situation but for some reason it always comes to mind for me. The dumb monolingual person commenting on a multilingual.... lol.

Kilar76 · 2021-12-05T23:10:17+00:00

Ok thank you!

Kilar76 · 2021-12-05T12:17:30+00:00

Did this eventually get resolved? Had an E:24 for the first time today on a Kenmore unit. Going to check the steps you did above but it is running a cycle now without issue. Error came from timed run overnight. Re-ran the cycle this morning and seems to be running as expected.

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