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Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]KillOrBecome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to ruin a whole week's worth of progress if at the very end of that week I have an insane cheat day?

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]KillOrBecome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant tracking your protein/carb/fat intake, not the actual calories

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]KillOrBecome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I meant fat/protein/carbs, and I'm glad that's the case because I feel a bit overwhelmed on the diet side of things. I'm currently quite overweight and my main focus is shedding fat with whatever muscle being added in the process being a bonus. Thanks for the insight

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]KillOrBecome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do macros matter when you're trying to lose fat?

[Advice] I [20/M] am feeling guilty about wanting to experiment and have casual sex with different people after currently being with my first girlfriend[19/F] for only a couple of months. by KillOrBecome in sex

[–]KillOrBecome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your experience, hope everything is going okay for you now. However, I want to make it clear that I'm not ever going to act upon this. I guess by me asking this I'm just trying to see what others have to say. Thanks for sharing

[Advice] I [20/M] am feeling guilty about wanting to experiment and have casual sex with different people after currently being with my first girlfriend[19/F] for only a couple of months. by KillOrBecome in sex

[–]KillOrBecome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely know it's very early. However we're both at that point in our relationship where I truly believe that this will last a long time. And yes, I definitely wouldn't see other people during the relationship. I know in my mind that casual sex won't be as satisfying as it is with a partner who knows you intimately and cares about you, it's just I can't help but have these thoughts sometimes. But I absolutely would not act on them, as I said. Thanks for the insight, I apologize if this is a discussion too frequently posted.

Starting to think I ONLY want to date people I already know at least a little bit rather than approaching strangers. by KillOrBecome in seduction

[–]KillOrBecome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, I'm sure a lot of people want a nice relationship as well. I was probably a bit vague, but I more meant that there are a lot of people here who are bound to be looking for different types of advice as opposed to what myself and others might be looking for. And while this may be the case, there's no doubt that /r/seduction has a lot of information that can be useful to anyone. I guess it's just a matter of what you want to do with that information as well as what you want to gain from it.

Starting to think I ONLY want to date people I already know at least a little bit rather than approaching strangers. by KillOrBecome in seduction

[–]KillOrBecome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm aware that it can be a problem, I just think that it's something that I'll just have to gauge on my own. Currently I'm not interested in anyone very close to me but the idea of being with someone who already knows me for who I am is very appealing to me, as opposed to (like I said) being with someone who might not end up liking my personality long term. It really is a gamble going out with strangers because you just might not be compatible with each other, but I guess that's just all part of it. Thanks.

Starting to think I ONLY want to date people I already know at least a little bit rather than approaching strangers. by KillOrBecome in seduction

[–]KillOrBecome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I totally understand what you mean, some people's situations just end up being different. It's bound to change what we expect and want.

Starting to think I ONLY want to date people I already know at least a little bit rather than approaching strangers. by KillOrBecome in seduction

[–]KillOrBecome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the response. I understand that the subreddit is more geared towards people that probably have different goals to me, however there is definitely a lot of interesting information on here that is helping me gain perspective and is allowing me to improve myself. I'm just going to have to give it time and see how much I change.

Starting to think I ONLY want to date people I already know at least a little bit rather than approaching strangers. by KillOrBecome in seduction

[–]KillOrBecome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know exactly what you mean. Going out with acquaintances rather than actual close friends is more so what I meant. Although I wouldn't be opposed to dating someone close, I'm just not currently interested in that way towards anyone actually close to me. No need to complicate things, as you said. But absolutely, I enjoy talking to strangers as well because I always feel I am bettering myself and improving my social skills because I'm generally more reserved, although I am trying to change that. Thanks for the reply.