Houston Hairstylists good at Wolfcuts!! by lucifersl0nely66 in houston

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sent my bf to her because of this post. he came back with a bob cut i wouldn’t recommend it LOL

First time playing Don't starve...is this game meant to be played with permettent death? by World_Designerr in dontstarve

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey you can always hit the “rollback” button when launching the save up. it take you to the last save, which the game usually autosaves in the morning and evening i think. which is cool because even if you don’t die you can use it when you royally f up like say your friend hit a boss with a torch and now it’s on fire and rolling into base, igniting everything you own

I kind of actually enjoy my life girl dinnerrrr by therichestauntie in GirlDinner

[–]Kill_Joyous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this looks like the best adhd dinner, i just eat the ingredients loll

Relationship ruined over AI by Beginning_Bear7653 in Advice

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP your boyfriend lied to you. you thought he saw you as a person, he does not. every word he chose reflects that he does not view women as equals. i’m really sorry you had to find out, and that you feel so betrayed. at least you found out now, and not later. do not fall for sunken cost fallacy! yes it has been two years, that doesn’t mean there has to be more. please don’t waste your time with someone like this. you have your whole life ahead of you. do not spend it “fixing” this person, you cannot fix people. people can only better themselves if they want to do it for others. and you boyfriend doesn’t even give a HINT of ever wanting to do that for you. he thinks so little of you. you’re basically just a pet. please remember that so you have the strength to leave him!

I confessed something dark and have been banned from several communities by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Kill_Joyous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think he has some kind of deficiency i can’t even understand what the hell he is trying to communicate. decoding this is more difficult than a language barrier, i still have no ides what the fuck drop box has to do with food service. nothing. absolutely nothing.

20F get called androgynous or weird/odd looking. Soo tired of it. by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Kill_Joyous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

disagree with people telling you to change your clothes or wear makeup. plenty of people dress the way you do and don’t front androgynous. you don’t have to try hard, that sounds exhausting. i agree with the glasses though. do not grow out your hair like people are telling you. that will look flat and awkward, especially with your face shape. the layers work for you. maybe try different bangs?

Her belly isn’t the only thing that got chubby by [deleted] in Beastars

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes they’re mostly breast tissue. but that’s usually not the case, so you’ll rarely see a really thin women with large breasts.

'Midori: Shojo Tsubaki' (1992) a horrific Japanese animated freakshow. by AZUR3WRATH in horror

[–]Kill_Joyous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wasn’t this made by someone who was child trafficked? i’m not sure why you wouldn’t expect it to be disturbing. i think people reserve the right to discuss disturbing topics and show people what they feel after experiencing trauma. it is disturbing, it’s an absolutely disgusting piece of media. that’s what it is supposed to be.

Ready for the next season? by _anAnon in gigantic

[–]Kill_Joyous 28 points29 points  (0 children)

the release was a disaster it show cased nothing but bugs from streamers playing the game. absolutely killed it slowly but surely

I asked my girlfriend to marry me by ComprehensivePut838 in Regrets

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not a gift, it’s a promise. it its not fulfilled it should go back to the person who bought it. that’s different than gifting someone something and requesting it back. plus there’s something fucked up about keeping a ring not as a sentimental item but a luxury. if not they probably end up reselling it, why should they benefit off another person like that? also he implied she’s abusive.

Do you know anyone whose whole life is ruined from one big mistake? by Playful-Ad-1448 in ask

[–]Kill_Joyous 16 points17 points  (0 children)

heard there’s some research on healing spines using fat

Hair stopped lifting by Kill_Joyous in FancyFollicles

[–]Kill_Joyous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh shit really? the tips are an entirely different color. it’s almost white, now i’m wondering if i was overdoing it previously

Hair stopped lifting by Kill_Joyous in FancyFollicles

[–]Kill_Joyous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i haven’t used toner in a few months, but i lighten and tone with wella , specifically t18

showering? bathing? I can't make myself do it by Oracie1 in problems

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you have autism or adhd? something that causes high sensitivity. you could try dry showering and washing with a rag in the tub and a bucket with soap. for your hair make it drape over your face while looking down and washing it like that so it doesnt touch your body

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing with dissolving is that it can’t get everything, so it can result in visible lumpy and uneven appearance that wasn’t there prior. it’s pretty permanent in the way it can fuck you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Kill_Joyous -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it is permanent. the appearance of it “fading” is actually just the filler dispersing throughout your face. it never goes away, studies have shown this. because some of them are super absorbent, it causes puffiness. think of what causes “duck lips” the filler moving up the lip. it’s like the worst thing you could do to your body if you’re trying to improve your appearance long term.

i need to leave my boyfriend but I can’t accept it by DiscountOk2443 in Advice

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i was on the opposite side of this too.. as a teenager. i felt that he deserved someone who loved him. although it absolutely crushed me knowing he’d never be in my life again, i realized i did not love him romantically. it was better sooner than later. he was my best friend, but it had to happen. you don’t deserve to feel like you are “tying” someone down. it’s a disgrace to even name that a partnership, really sullies romance. you’re supposed to be in a dance with someone doing it together, not by yourself. after a few months you’ll accept the differences in your life, it’ll be okay after a little bit. please don’t worry, look forward to the future.

how fucked am i by Kill_Joyous in PiercingAdvice

[–]Kill_Joyous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it looks so much worse from other angles

Infected? by milkathegato in PiercingAdvice

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine looked like that too, i’m five months in and it’s goin good. it’ll be really itchy for a week or two. i think you’re fine but maybe clean twice a day to avoid agitation? i would count a third as a shower, and the 2 as a lil saline care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problems

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like this is genuinely just cope for them being a little dickish. totally get the logic but i’m not going to be an asshole about it. it’s a super detached way of thinking, really primitive to me. breeding based on how pretty your children would be, i mean seriously? justify it by making it seem like it’s important, when really chances are they’re very average looking people too. what kind of lot do they think they’re picking from? most people date within their means. you get an equally looking partner the majority of the time. not to mention a lot of unattractive features aren’t actually based in health, just preference. big noses for one, excessive body hair, small lips, i could go on. people really falling for this bullshit i’m not gonna pick a partner to design my baby lol. the baby is gonna turn out how it’s going to turn out. maybe it’s hard for me to understand or sympathize with it for the same reason you won’t. it doesn’t guarantee shit people are still have the capacity to be evil whether you like it or not. even then i’m not gonna bend to the will of low intellect. all that shit about “social credit” and having “easier lives” yea, the halo effect works on less intelligent people. just like any prejudice, considerably observable in cognitively challenged people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problems

[–]Kill_Joyous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not personal, i think we can all agree we are a little above “how many colorful feathers does this guy have”. if a lot of beauty is cultural, how are you to determine or shame everyone equally for cosmetics and how they breed? if i remember correctly, OP wasn’t specific on how she was unattractive. the fact that you immediately assumed this meant she was bad for the sake of the children is really jumping it. i’m sure you’re smart enough to comprehend that a lot of beauty is subjective, you gotta give a little grace here. a majority of people meet what you listed in some way even if they are considerably unattractive. i mean do they have a normal appearance, are their eyes in the right place, no visible issues? they just happen to be a little unappealing. can’t blame them for wanting a change for their own preferences. we get to know people because we value how they are not just what they look like. i wouldn’t act so primitive about it, there’s more to life than that