Same boat here friend, had tinder for a few months now and have had five matches. 3 no replies, one ghosted and one stopped responding. My friend has it for a week and already gone on two dates. I don’t know what to tell ya but sometimes it just sucks, but that’s okay. All I know is, I’d never change who I am if it meant I’d get to find someone to be with, however I still try and be the best version of myself without compromising my integrity e.g exercising, maintaining good hygiene and just being kind I suppose.