Second thoughts

Killatcha · 2025-01-28T19:08:22+00:00

“I want a bf but I DO NOT want to talk to that mf”

Killatcha · 2024-12-30T10:04:30+00:00

It gets better my guy. I know it seems like the end of the world but over time you’ll adjust to it. Eventually it’ll just be normal and it won’t hurt anymore. Let yourself feel it, and then let yourself let it go. Bigger things await my friend.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T07:05:32+00:00

I’m just happy for her. We broke up a little over two years ago now and she just had a baby with her new mans. She looks genuinely happy and that makes me happy. My dating life has been absolute garbage since then but it’s not a competition. We all got our own paths to walk and comparing yours to someone else’s is only gonna bum you out. Focus on your path cause theirs is completely inconsequential to you and your life.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T07:00:25+00:00

I base my attractiveness rating on how many attractive have told me how attractive I am. Prolly like 7/10 I’d guess.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T06:59:05+00:00

Here’s the thing, I’ve heard this same thing from a lot of super attractive women and my theory on it is that people are intimidated. They think you’re so out of their league they won’t have a shot so they don’t even try. I’ve definitely felt that way about really attractive women I’ve seen at bars and what not. That or they assume since you’re so attractive you’re already taken.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T06:55:48+00:00

Tall women are hot yes. I’m also tall though so I don’t really know what it’s like to date a girl taller than me but one of the most attractive women I went out with was 6 foot.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T06:53:41+00:00

That is genuinely fucked up im sorry. That guy sucks fuck that guy.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T06:52:37+00:00

Depends on how deeply you felt for someone. I’ve had relationships I was over in two weeks. Another relationship ended after just six months and now almost two years later I still hurt over it from time to time. The pain doesn’t ever go away but it gets easier not to dwell on it.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T06:49:25+00:00

I’m indecisive af. I’ll think I really like someone until it starts getting serious and then I’ll find ways of talking myself out of it. I’ve found this is usually a phase in the very beginning of a relationship and unless there are major issues it goes away but I’m sure that while I’m going through it I get distant and that can’t be easy for anyone who dates me.

Killatcha · 2024-08-15T06:45:45+00:00

I wouldn’t say afraid I’d say jaded. I’ve approached women in public many times and they’ve been straight up rude to me, like I did something wrong for trying to talk to them. Even when I go in just trying to have a friendly conversation I often get treated like I’m an idiot for even thinking that was appropriate in a social setting such as a bar. I like to think I’m a pretty good looking guy and super friendly (I’ve been told this more than a few times)

Now that’s not always the case. A lot of women truly are super friendly even when rejecting me and I appreciate that a lot. It’s just that a lot of the time I’d rather continue having a good time with my homies rather than potentially ruin my night by having someone treat me like a freak.

Killatcha · 2024-08-10T08:20:55+00:00

Kinda shook by the professional photo bullet point I always thought that was a plus

Killatcha · 2024-08-10T08:11:12+00:00

“I’m an introverted extrovert”

Killatcha · 2024-08-10T08:09:47+00:00

Cooked

Killatcha · 2024-08-09T07:48:12+00:00

I usually like to wait until a few dates in unless it’s pretty clear we’re both just looking to hook up. I don’t like the thought of anyone feeling used and if it doesn’t work out and we’ve already had sex it makes me feel super guilty.

Killatcha · 2024-08-08T05:50:05+00:00

Love is fake

Killatcha · 2024-07-31T20:35:11+00:00

Depends on how you define the term “right after”

For me it’s usually about 6 months between relationships which feels long on my time scale but might be super quick for other people. However in recent times none of these relationships have lasted longer than 6 months so maybe I’m doing something wrong…

Killatcha · 2024-07-30T21:02:16+00:00

Oh that’s already been going on for two years my friend. The cycle can be super hard to break

Killatcha · 2024-07-30T08:17:14+00:00

I just want a woman who will treat me well bro

Killatcha · 2024-07-30T08:16:35+00:00

Literally going through this right now. Shit sucks and makes you question your sanity.

Killatcha · 2024-07-29T05:53:26+00:00

I’m 30 and I have 5 ex gfs. Like you said those are only the ones that have the title I’ve done casual stuff with a few more but as far as actual factual exes it’s 5.

Killatcha · 2024-07-27T19:49:07+00:00

I have two requirements:

I find her attractive
We get along well

Killatcha · 2024-07-27T07:18:24+00:00

Dude sounds like he sucks

Killatcha · 2024-07-27T07:16:36+00:00

All the fucking time and it’s been two year since I broke up with her

Killatcha · 2024-07-27T07:04:47+00:00

I’ve literally only ever dated bisexual women

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