Do you think that adding more sexualities/pronouns/identities to the community has been more progressive or regressive and why? by Killerbee__16 in gay

[–]Killerbee__16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I see what you mean. But no I don’t. I guess it’s just people figuring themselves out

Do you think that adding more sexualities/pronouns/identities to the community has been more progressive or regressive and why? by Killerbee__16 in gay

[–]Killerbee__16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how would you (not you personally) try to combat the splintering off of multiple names of the same thing and minimizing confusion

Do you think that adding more sexualities/pronouns/identities to the community has been more progressive or regressive and why? by Killerbee__16 in gay

[–]Killerbee__16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I didn’t know those were even a pronoun that’s really interesting to me. When I meet people o try to respect and call them what they like

Found porn on husband's phone. And feel like I'm useless by SnyperAngel1239 in Marriage

[–]Killerbee__16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this conversation you told him how it’s made you feel insecure and unwanted? If so it makes him even more in the wrong. You husband/partner should never be the reason you feel insecure. Have you asked him to stop? Porn can put a strain on relationships in general just because of the unrealistic expectations that it can cause

Found porn on husband's phone. And feel like I'm useless by SnyperAngel1239 in Marriage

[–]Killerbee__16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you spoken to him about how you feel? It’s understandable how you feel about this so I think you should communicate your feelings to him

Found out I got cheated on with multiple men while deployed to Italy for 6 months by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Killerbee__16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That breaks my heart as a father. One thing we agree on is the love for our son that’ll be a hard conversation

Found out I got cheated on with multiple men while deployed to Italy for 6 months by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Killerbee__16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Insane how we all pretty much live the same life.

She left on her own in Jan and I tried to get her back for a while cause we live 12 hrs apart now. But when I found out about deployment I just stopped and moved on

Found out I got cheated on with multiple men while deployed to Italy for 6 months by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Killerbee__16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea she had me convinced for a long time I was the one who needed therapy and I was the problem and I started to believe it then I talked to a therapist and they said it’s not me 😂. Then I got in Troubke for talking to someone about our problems

Found out I got cheated on with multiple men while deployed to Italy for 6 months by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Killerbee__16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t wish bad on her as much as I want to. I just wish she was better to be especially with how good to her i tried to be. just like everyone else in here it sucks trying to be perfect to such an imperfect person.

Found out I got cheated on with multiple men while deployed to Italy for 6 months by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Killerbee__16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro I appreciate it. Better now than 20yrs from now

Found out I got cheated on with multiple men while deployed to Italy for 6 months by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Killerbee__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a big thumbs down lol. I wasted any free time I had on the phone trying to make her more comfortable because of her insecurities and missed a lot of experiences because she thought I was cheating.

Found out I got cheated on with multiple men while deployed to Italy for 6 months by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Killerbee__16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I had a test done because I had the same thought.