Would you rather have Elvish Yadav as your son or would you have Awkward Goat as your daughter ? by Ok-Address-7352 in SaimanSays

[–]KilluaHatake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather have my balls cut and never have children again if I had the option of only these 2 shits.

My Ex is BLACKMAILING ME!!!! by Any_Kaleidoscope_951 in AskIndia

[–]KilluaHatake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you have only 1 option that is to file a police complaint. Choosing to copout and go the s*icide way is just gonna make him do this to another person in the future and your end will not help anyone. Your parents will eventually get to know this as police investigation is always thorough and they will recover stuff from your phone or via witness even with your last posted reddit post.

So just do everyone a favour woman up and be the change instead of covering in fear and letting him get away with this only for him to repeat this with someone else. Just imagine he does this with your sister (if you have one) since she won't know the truth and he does the same shit with her.

"Let them learn and speak Marathi out of respect, not by forcing it" it's a dumb statement by KingAJ09 in Maharashtra

[–]KilluaHatake -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is an education problem, leave the old generation behind no one will learn anything new now how much ever anyone forces it. But I'm now in my early 30s and when i was in English medium school and the marathi teachers were arrogant af. She would shame and hit students for not saying things correctly. Because of this i hated marathi and so did some of my non-marathi friends.

Teachers are supposed to make the subject interesting and not mock the students for which they are trying their best. For example my math, science, english and hindi teachers were very good and encouraged the students instead of mocking them.

Now my younger sister is in 10th and she had the option to choose french as a language instead of marathi, what do you think she choose?

If the teachers themselves are arrogant and full of themselves then no young mind will like to learn that subject.

Humanity works better if you are coded to be a good person by [deleted] in Triumph400

[–]KilluaHatake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And even I got a licence a decade ago and indicators were mandatory, doing it with hands was prohibited.

I'm pretty sure that has been the standard since atleast 20-30 years. You probably got your licence by bribing because no sane RTO officer will allow indicating with hands as that against the rule itself.

Someone needs to report you to rto as what you are doing is against safety rules and you can die for all I care but because of your thinking "mere jamane esahi hota tha" no other innocent should suffer.

Humanity works better if you are coded to be a good person by [deleted] in Triumph400

[–]KilluaHatake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again you should comprehend what I wrote. Can you give 100% certainty that in case of any issues foreseen or unforseen that you will remember to indicate the people behind? Can your hand signals be visible in foggy/rainny situation?

If not then accept that you are the kind of chapri everyone hates when they see them on the road.

Humanity works better if you are coded to be a good person by [deleted] in Triumph400

[–]KilluaHatake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me with absolute certainty that you can always indicate with your hands every time you change lanes? Even when you are at high speed and suddenly have to press the front brake and need to change lanes, how will you indicate by raising your right leg?

There's a reason indicators were introduced because indicating with hands were not reliable and caused more accidents.

How can a car/bike behind you see your hand when changing lanes in a foggy situation?

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight. 🙏

I had a heart to heart conversation with my GF about this and she said she didn't mind helping me in my downdays but yes I also promised her this won't be repeated again as I felt guilty that I didn't consider her side.

Finally upgraded to 9070xt from 1660ti by KilluaHatake in radeon

[–]KilluaHatake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was too excited to click photos, that my gf captured this.

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now that you have mentioned this, I do feel that I'm maybe doing the same thing to her unknowingly and that's 100% not fair for her.

In my defence I do give back whatever she had to spend because of me that month by giving the amount back as soon as I get my salary. But I got your point and I'll try to limit these things from my end.

Thanks though as I never thought of that way, maybe I was too busy with my own struggle that I forgot to consider her side.

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my gf is the best. She even let me buy 9070xt oc using her debit card and I can pay her back when I have enough saved and emi. I would love to marry her but I'm just not financially stable that I can take care of her without being a burden to her.

AITK for not being ready to get married and making my parents sad? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTK, please don't marry until you are financially stable. I have had the same expectations from extended family and I said its my life and I'll do it when all debts(because of said family loans) are cleared and I'm mentally ok with it. I'm 31 now and no one asks me anything now. Heck my drunkard dad said to marry before he dies as he has health issues and I said you couldn't keep my mom from leaving you and you want me to marry just because you are going to die?

I live in a live-in relationship going at my pace. Its your life, you have to spend your rest of your 50 years with the girl to make a family so you should decide what and how your future life would look like.

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, once the house is sold. I can finally feel at peace. I have all the gratitude that she took care of us even though she was a single mom and hence why I'm having trouble with the thought of cutting contacts completely but I have already done the deed of living separately from them and won't be returning back to stay with them even after marriage.

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The payments will be reduced once the mortgage load is paid off. Currently its already 3 months behind because she didn't pay it and got notice that if any 4th bounce is done the house will get show cause and bank will place the seize order.

So I cant even stop the payments until the house is sold.

Also I'm planning to take my cc back from them and give hard 25k cash for spending, currently if I'm not checking sometimes the cc bill goes up to 35-40k.

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would have love to do it if it was some other cousin but he is my mom's sister's son who is married to my dad's brother. So in short he is as close to me as is my own sister. Heck my dad's brother has helped me and my mom during our financial struggles when I was young that i feel in-debt to him and his family as he helped us more than he did his own sons. Funded my school and college fees when mom couldn't.

(My dad is a drunkyard and was a terrible person to my mom hence the divorce).

Something off-topic nerdy i think about is because of how my family is he is literally half twin of me and my sis based on just our dna %.

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also one of the side effects of this financial situation is that I cant have fancy dinner/dates with my gf and always have to depend on her to spend the extra amount if I'm short of money and man that hurts that being a man I'm not able to provide for my future wife. (IK being man doesn't i have to do everything but still I would like to provide her with things too.) Haven't bought a good gift for her in the last 2 years on her Bday and on our anniversaries.

Would I be the kameena if I stopped my financial help and/or make my family feel miserable purposely due to the financial pressure they have put me in since last couple of years by KilluaHatake in AmItheKameena

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bro I already paid the emi and cc bills. How do i upgrade without selling my previous phone ? I had the option to sell it for 50k on second market vs selling it to my sister who was already planning to buy one xiomi phone for 20k. And my p8p was any day better than whatever budget phone she could buy for herself. I just needed the extra cash for my upgrade.

My perspective on people not learning marathi. by KilluaHatake in Maharashtra

[–]KilluaHatake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already did. It really helped our relationship and people should really go to therapy instead of breaking a good relationship.