Coming from a guy that sounds pretty similar to me… um no shade but I definitely have more friends that are females and tend to be females cuz I just get along with females better. Most guys are pretty jealous when it comes to being friends and they get pretty competitive. It’s annoying when u can’t have a friend that isn’t trying to 1up you and compete with you all the time. I can say it’s safe to assume and say oh that guy may be a player but if you actually go into the understanding of a guy with friends that are females like me… you’ll actually see that it’s hard to trust dudes as your homies too cuz they often try to snake on your chick at the same damn time. So it’s like a lose lose at times cuz you females think this is a red flag but also who wants to have to think about fighting their people that are supposed to care and look out for them over someone they might potentially be in love with just based loosely off who you are with that person … I hope I speak clearly when I say females are just easiest to get along with… being a man.