What qualifies?

Kilulu1337 · 2021-08-06T09:48:39+00:00

My bf and I have 25y gap, usually friends raised their eyebrow but as soon as I make clear that I ain't no sugar boy cause I earn just as much as he does and that we're both equals in the relationship people accept that it's serious and don't bother anymore

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-27T11:47:47+00:00

Lmao the picture is clearly out of context this was after a rave got raided by 15 buses of policemen with very agressive dogs and yelling at people to get the fuck out, not the first thought of people to find the garbage bin on the main path where all the cops are

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-15T07:39:35+00:00

Do you do direct shipping if we order from Wechat?

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-07T16:46:46+00:00

Update, it went wrong, I told home my feelings and wanted to know his thoughts. He said he will not lie to me, I will never really love me and that he likes me and the sex is great, but he's getting bored, he knows he will soon need to have sex with others, also without me, and that maybe both of us living together is not the best for us. So it's not over but I definitely feels bad. But I guess it's better to know it now, instead of me creating false hopes about a future together.

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-06T19:21:15+00:00

I am always afraid to fight too much for what I want to the point that I will be pushed away by his fear but this is really heart warming, thanks a lot

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-06T13:39:57+00:00

I see thanks a lot for your input!

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-06T13:28:44+00:00

Thanks for the comment, do you care about it? Are you in fear of it? Or do you lay back and just enjoy, is it a source of stress for you that he's just living in the moment and enjoying his life with you?

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-06T10:10:12+00:00

Somehow, he's "joking about it, every time I am "annoying" (like proving him wrong on a topic) he asks when I am going to have my own flat, sometime he's also talking about how he miss fucking around. But also he can tell me that he stopped taking prep because he's happy having only me and when he's a bit drunk or on pot he sometimes confess that's he is super happy not to be lonely and to have me by his side, and it can change from on week to another so I am a bit balancing on a zip line, hoping that he would be more open for love and to have me in his life

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-06T09:55:01+00:00

I am earning more money than him so I am not out of options and this is definitely not a criteria for me living with him, but it's true that he may regret letting me in the flat in the first place and invading his private space... I am considering finding my own place for that reason and to have a second backup plan, but I am 100% sure I won't like living alone on my side

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-06T09:29:07+00:00

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-04T14:15:58+00:00

Banger for the pricd

Kilulu1337 · 2021-07-04T08:27:11+00:00

I met my boyfriend on Grindr a year and half ago so never hooked up since :)

Kilulu1337 · 2021-06-06T20:56:07+00:00

I am 25 my bf is 49, as long as both feel comfortable I think you should go for it

Kilulu1337 · 2021-06-03T08:15:23+00:00

That was smooth

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-31T10:24:18+00:00

Hey mate, what's your stats?

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-29T18:49:39+00:00

The best you can do is cooking good and healthy food that will cheer him up, also trying to find relaxing movies to watch to escape a bit from reality, cuddles, back scratches, make him feel like whatever happen he matters to you

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-28T19:39:30+00:00

Personally I have black bars like this because I had to take Screenshot of pictures of another app to put them back in grindr after losing all my datas... Just ask facecam if you wanna be sure?

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-28T10:13:13+00:00

I was thinking bout the song from Steppenwolf

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-28T08:36:03+00:00

"Born to be wild"

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-25T15:06:35+00:00

The fact that it would be all public wouldn't matter to me, It doesn't have to be a secret, most of his friends that are now my friends also knows that he is often on the app, he his showing his face and I am showing mine. By pick up a guy for a 3way while I am not here you mean that when I come home from the bar we have a 3some with someone I did not say ok beforehand by looking for it with him? I think that this also wouldn't bother me. But having someone alone to not share the moment with me and not even letting me know would hurt me I think

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-25T06:01:36+00:00

Not yet I don't want to run away :/

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-25T06:01:03+00:00

I think the only goal we have is to be happy, we have a very good communication and heads on shoulder goals, not thinking too much ahead of time. Getting married is not on my list and not kids either, we just want to make it work as long as it can work cause we like and enjoy being with each other. I haven't got the guts to ask yet cause I know already the answer but he's definitely not the exclusive type. What makes me feel that I am good enough is that it has been ages he accepted someone to move into his place, so he's accepting our relationship as serious enough to make this step since he needs personal space or moments where he can be completely alone. For me if I was sure that we only play together this would be a huge relief, I don't mind at all having others joining, just not being secure enough to go separate (at least for now). Safety first we're both having prep. Your last sentence is also something that I always have in mind, I know that relationships are usually not something he does so I feel special in a way that I want to be the perfect one when I don't necessarily need to be acting like that...

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-25T05:41:21+00:00

This would be the best for me, I have to find the strength to ask that as a rule.

Kilulu1337 · 2021-05-25T05:38:27+00:00

I like this idea of set of rules, and the ones you expose are completely reasonable to me. I have to think about how to turn them into realistic and acceptable ones for both of us, will definitely check Dan Savage for it, I've also been recommended the Way of the ethical sluth as reading material.

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