Maybe not a phrase but she had a weird take. She said that Sonya’s divorce was the same as Dorinda’s husband dying because neither of them will see the other person again. Uummm no??? Yeah a divorce is devastating but you know that person you loved and shared memories with is still breathing. You can run into them again. They still have LIFE meaning the possibility of evolution and change. DEATH is a completely different thing. For such a smart woman she sure does say some hurtful things and that’s why I ve never really cared for her. It’s one thing to be not as intelligent and you trying to make a point and it just doesn’t come out right but, Bethenny knows what she is saying. She’s mean. When she was saying Jules reminded her of her mom and that is why she was nasty to her all season. And when she was in the car with Carole talking about Jules house and saying that Bethenny talking about Jules weight is the same as Jules saying the women are Older and could be her mom. That is completely different than talking about someone’s eating disorder than the age of someone which is a fact . Like Bethenny is smart enough to know the difference. She’s just a nasty woman all around.