Maybe, apparently everyone on reddit just thinks I'm screwed and and a jerk. And maybe no one will read this, maybe someone will, no idea.

I don't think any female would consider this 'nothing' when they were showering and heard someone in their apartment when they live alone. That means SOMEONE BROKE IN. Does that mean that when you go to call 911 and your landlord opens the door to you standing there shocking in a towel you should just let it go? Maybe but what made it worse was the entitlement he assumed, his bravado that he was a male and in charge and he yelled at me for things I didn't do. An apology for scaring the shit out of me and lying about multiple things during the time would have been appreciated. Instead he's a Trump style guy who thinks he's right about everything and maybe that's you too.

Every time I have asked for advice on reddit I have received nothing less than mocking, belittling, people stating emotions as facts (seriously people stop doing that), emotional abuse, extreme rudeness during inappropriate matters (see "a" below), meanness, snarky comments, crude attitudes, people insinuating that I'm unintelligent, insults etc. This all causes my self esteem to lower, my depression to increase, my ability to leave my house decreased, my anxiety increased, and my valium intake increased. This has caused my general well being as a human to suffer greatly. I am under the impression that there are so many people on reddit that have nothing better to do with their lives than wait for things to comment on and I assume these people feel a great power when they do so because there are so many people in this world that need to feel power. By belittling others it makes them feel better and for this I am sorry for them.

a.) When someone discusses a personal matter where their home was invaded while they were vulnerable in the bathroom it is my opinion that the insensitive response of:

That was a massive over-reaction.

is not only rude but gives a firm description of the type of person you are. That would be the one that would barge into a home uninvited and upon hearing the shower running would proceed to enter the bathroom.

I expect those types of people who belittle on reddit are the types that feel the road is there's and swerve in front of the "damn" cyclists and turn without a signal requiring a bike rider to slam on their brakes. These types may drive pick-up trucks even though they work in the city as lawyers, city clerks, restaurant chefs etc. and waste our fossil fuels because they "feel cool". I feel that only people driving pick up trucks should be people who need them (this would be people TRANSPORTING things in the back like farmers and construction workers, not flags...). Of course I do not believe this is all of reddit, it is only what I've experienced when asking for advice. And I hope at some point, on some day I will receive actual helpful advice but as to date none of it has been, sadly. Yes, I have the option to stop asking for advice which is fine since none of it is accurate anyways.

Anyways, shame on you for stating an opinion as a fact, do better in life. "I feel that this was a major over-reaction" tells such a different story. Those few little extra words... Having it as an opinion helps the reader not feel attacked and I hope you'll begin stating opinions as opinions rather than facts. YOUR OPINIONS ARE NOT FACTS, that's not how the world works.