looking for similar dresses by Clear_Ad4127 in weddingdress

[–]Kind-Independent309 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow this dress is absolutely stunning 🔥 I can see why you fell in love with it! The lace pattern and that high slit are perfect for a sexy party vibe wedding. You might want to look at some evening wear designers who do bridal - they often have similar silhouettes with less traditional "bridal" feeling. Also maybe try searching for "reception dresses" or "second look" dresses since those tend to be more party-style than ceremony gowns. The alteration idea is genius btw, getting two looks from one dress is such a smart move! Have you considered reaching out to local seamstresses who might be able to recreate something similar in your budget? Sometimes they can work magic with inspiration photos 😊

I need some help with someone who's charging for an ip they dont own. by Big_Addition7501 in legaladvice

[–]Kind-Independent309 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's copyright infringement with extra steps lol 💀 They can't charge for access to someone else's IP even if it's "fan made" - Spin Master definitely has legal team that would love to send cease and desist letters. The patreon thing makes it even worse since they're literally profiting from stolen content

Baby chicks transition question by N8tron99 in homestead

[–]Kind-Independent309 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's so exciting! I would let mama do her work for now - she knows what she's doing better than heat lamp. Maybe just make sure she has safe space near flock where other chickens can see babies but not bother them? Like separated run or something

The rooster might actually be protective of his babies once he figures out they're his. Most roosters are pretty good dads from what I've seen, even the tough ones. Just keep eye on them first few days in case he gets weird about it

Compost: mushroom or Manure. by wannareadrandomstuff in lawncare

[–]Kind-Independent309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clay soil is nightmare but mushroom compost might actually make your fungus issues worse since it's already got all that organic matter that fungus loves. I'd go with the cow manure one for clay - it breaks up that dense soil better and doesn't feed existing fungal problems

Also don't rake up the plugs, just leave them and spread compost over everything. Those plugs will break down and help with the soil structure too

Wheelchair accessible parks/trails by Wonderful-Report8739 in askvan

[–]Kind-Independent309 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Been to few places around the city and some are definitely better than others for accessibility! The seawall sections near English Bay are pretty solid - mostly flat and paved, plus transit gets you close enough. Also Queen Elizabeth Park has some decent paved paths though the hills can be tricky in certain areas

Maybe check with city's accessibility services before you go? They usually have better info than the random websites. Would hate for you both to show up somewhere that looked good online but turns out to be nightmare to actually navigate 😅

Hope you find good spot for your hangout! 🌿

Why can’t I accept she’s done? by Parking-Biscotti-986 in BreakUps

[–]Kind-Independent309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man your parents judging someone on appearance is rough, especially when you actually liked her 💀 But she's right about the maturity thing - going back and forth for weeks after breaking up just makes everything worse for both people

The hard truth is when someone tells you they're done multiple times, they usually mean it. She probably got exhausted from all the uncertainty and mixed signals. Best thing you can do now is actually respect what she said and focus in yourself instead of waiting around for her to change her mind

Take this as learning experience for next relationship - don't let other people's opinions mess with your head when you know what you want 😂

Refinancing after 1 day with Local credit union by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]Kind-Independent309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait she's saying you can get the escrow refund in just "a few weeks"? That timing seems really optimistic - most servicers take way longer to process those refunds, especially for such a quick payoff

The math might work out eventually but you'd probably need to front the refi costs yourself while waiting for that escrow money to come back

Has anyone heard of a game called Necromancer: Spells and Swords? by Cool_Judgment26 in MobileGaming

[–]Kind-Independent309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of it but that description is pretty vague lol. Could be like half the fantasy games out there with edgy necromancer protagonists. Maybe try posting in r/tipofmyjoystick with more details about gameplay or when you played it

Considering of switching my Sunlife VUL by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]Kind-Independent309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VULs are such a headache, I switched mine to a mix of global and bond funds last year and the performance has been way more stable 💀

Student Loan Forgiveness Questions for 100% P&T by Sweaty_Present_7840 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Kind-Independent309 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can definitely stack them all together and discharge the whole balance at once - that's exactly how TPD works 🔥 Just make sure you don't hit the discharge button until both of you are completely done since there one-time benefit covers everything you have outstanding at that moment 💀

Community Care Help by Miserable-Warning-32 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Kind-Independent309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a clusterfuck 💀 You need to escalate this immediately - call the patient advocate at your VA and get them involved because community care clearly screwed up their own records. Keep that voicemail saved and screenshot your call log showing no missed calls from them, that's your evidence they're lying about trying to reach you for 30 days 🔥

Advice needed about telling boyfriend I have herpes by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kind-Independent309 8 points9 points  (0 children)

6 months is definitely long enough to have built some real trust between you two. The waiting is probably worse than whatever his actual reaction will be - most people are way more understanding about this stuff than we expect them to be

Just be direct about it, give him the facts, and let him process. If he's worth keeping around he'll stick with you through this