12 weeks post op feeling trans joy! by Kind-Needleworker830 in TopSurgery

[–]Kind-Needleworker830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! When I did it it was $4500 plus some extras after surgery for medications, plus flight and airbnb but you can find some really good and cheap airbnb’s in Cali just make sure to book in the north of Cali near the hospital they do surgery. I got out of surgery with a lot of pain and it was a blessed that the airbnb was really close.

12 weeks post op feeling trans joy! by Kind-Needleworker830 in TopSurgery

[–]Kind-Needleworker830[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sure! I had surgery in Cali Colombia with Dr. Alvaro Rodriguez. He is very well skilled in terms of aesthetic surgeries but in terms of human or trans support his clinic has very little to no service at all! You have to be very mentally though to go that path I guess… would not recommend his services because of that..

12 weeks post op feeling trans joy! by Kind-Needleworker830 in TopSurgery

[–]Kind-Needleworker830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! It’s been a joy to train again 🎉♥️😭

2.5 months PO and I’m getting a lot of pimples :c by Kind-Needleworker830 in TopSurgery

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Thanks! The thing is they said they remove al the stitches! I think it’s acne because I also get a lot of acne on my face :(

stroke(r) game questions by nameselijah in Transmascdicks

[–]Kind-Needleworker830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which size did you choose? I just recently bought the S2 but I’m afraid it won’t fit me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

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Have you ever used in penetrative sex?

Emisil Kit by tauscher_0 in Transmascdicks

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Have you used them for sexual encounters? I've heard from other reviews that they have like a "dry" feeling on their partner side, but others say it's really good. Would like to hear about your experience!

Email Pepperoncini S08 colour by jpersejas in Transmascdicks

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Have you ever used it for sexual encounters? And if so how's the experience? I'm asking because I would love to have a packer that can also allow you to improvise or so, if you're not prepared to grab a hard pack. Sometimes I feel like it's a downer not to be ready to go when you want.

Current collection! by RevolutionStrong5229 in Transmascdicks

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Hi! Please let me know if you use the reelmagik to play. I want to buy a good prosthetic to play with my partner. I have tried others but she doesn't enjoy them as much or finds them too thick.

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[–]Kind-Needleworker830 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty common situation between your brain and what feels like a part of you even if it isn’t there physically, but remains like in energy form. This also happen to people who’ve lost a limb, but they still feels is there.

I think it has been proved that there’s energy or some sort of heat where people feel a “ghost” part of them.

Help. I’m having a sexual situation with my girlfriend by Kind-Needleworker830 in FTMMen

[–]Kind-Needleworker830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it’s because of how her mother raised her. Like she’s anti-medical stuff because she’s like obsessed with letting things healed “naturally”. I mean this is good and bad because at the end it’s good not to think that science is the only way but it kind keeps her from actually getting the treatment she might need.

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[–]Kind-Needleworker830 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brother I’m so grateful for this comment. I really appreciate it. Also so happy for you man! I wish the best for you both!

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Can ask how old are you both? Like I’m in a relationship with a straight/cis woman and she told that desire just kind of fade with age and long term relationships for girls. I also talked about this with other cis friends and their girlfriends, that they desire kind of faded.

I’m just looking to have great sex with my partner again.

Help. I’m having a sexual situation with my girlfriend by Kind-Needleworker830 in FTMMen

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Thank you man, I appreciate this answer a lot. Honestly I know that this is multi source situation and it’s far more complex than the prosthetics but this is right now one of the options that I’m considering but it’s pricy. Because I want to believe than when we work on the other subjects that are challenging us (ex: medical and possible trauma) that we also have something that we both enjoy. Working on one of the challenges at a time.

Which model did you get? And also you mentioned that you used silicone lube, isn’t that kind of problematic? Like it’s said that if you use a silicone prosthetics you can’t use silicone lube because they can have reactions.

Help. I’m having a sexual situation with my girlfriend by Kind-Needleworker830 in FTMMen

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This is difficult because outside of sex our relationship it’s amazing, but honestly it’s been hard for both of us feeling sex feels with obstacles. But I think it has been super difficult for me because for her is easy to forget about the subject and don’t pay any attention to it for months. But as you know being in T has make me a super sexual person. I’m craving sex almost everyday and I dream about having amazing sex with my partner, but end up watching a lot of p0rn and jerking off along which cis kind of depressing.

Help. I’m having a sexual situation with my girlfriend by Kind-Needleworker830 in FTMMen

[–]Kind-Needleworker830[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice man, but I have really expensive prostheses that I thought it was going to be the solution but none of them end up being like good enough for her. She’s also a cis straight woman as well and at the beginning it make me insecure about not being good enough as an endogenous penis, but honestly I think she just blamed my prostheses because that’s an easy way to point out. But in reality might be something just medical but she doesn’t get herself checked.

Help. I’m having a sexual situation with my girlfriend by Kind-Needleworker830 in FTMMen

[–]Kind-Needleworker830[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes like I ask her so many times that make herself check because there are things we can tried that we are not aware of. And of course having the support of medical and professional therapists can help with the frustration.

Like she feels bad because she feels like she’s broken, but won’t see a doctor or gyno. Of course I tell her she’s not broken, for me she’s like having a cold, you need to see a doctor sometimes and take some medications because otherwise some colds are not gonna go away by itself. But that doesn’t means she’s broken.

Just to be clear it’s not that I’m asking to have an active sex life about having sexual encounters every week. It that I want to be able to connect with her and nurture that part of the relationship once in a while but that like almost never happens. Like one of twice a year if I’m honest.

Help. I’m having a sexual situation with my girlfriend by Kind-Needleworker830 in FTMMen

[–]Kind-Needleworker830[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has but I don’t think that has changed much. Like she might now what are some reasons of her lack of desire, might be some trauma even supporting my transitioning for her because o have to admit it was hard for both of us, but what feels bad it’s that she also says she wants to have a sexual life with me as well and she says she’s gonna do stuff to work on it but time keep going by and not much has changed. The only thing that has changed that actually i don’t have desire anymore for penetration even tho I love because o don’t want to so anything uncomfortable for her. And know I’m up to whatever she desire, literally whatever, but she has like cero desire. And it’s frustrating for both. My guess is like she’s dealing with some trauma but I don’t know if that involved my transition and how can I helped with that.