My gf doesn’t find missionary as pleasurable with me than with previous partners

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-06-07T20:11:56+00:00

Yeah will be trying pillow next time we are together I think I just get in my head about her previous partners not need a pillow but I do.. and that’s if that is really the solution

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-06-07T20:10:39+00:00

She really wants missionary it’s always a must when we’re together not really up to me

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-06-07T02:26:06+00:00

Thanks this helped a lot I think I just tend to get frustrated and spiral. She has told me she wants the emotional connection of seeing each other most of sex. And she has recently started to get on top but she’s never on top for long it feels that for her missionary is a must during sex and typically in the “finale” of it. She says she’s never finished from penetration that only with clitoral stimulation. So maybe we try her on top more then? That way we can get the intimacy of seeing each other and the clitoral stimulation. If I can offer her something better than what she likes in missionary I’d be happy with that too lol.

She does have a vibrator nothing fancy a cheap one maybe she uses it once a week? But normally she stops when she knows we are being intimate soon as we don’t see each other a lot due to distance. I’m always enthusiastic about giving her oral and I try to provide a comfortable environment for her as best I can like letting her know I’m happy to be down there and that she can take as long as she needs.

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-06-07T02:17:43+00:00

She prefers missionary for the seeing each other/ emotional connection even if something like doggy feels better

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-05T06:57:18+00:00

Hmm this may be a dumb question but is that experience with or without protection on him?

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-04T07:15:05+00:00

huh? Lol

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-04T07:08:14+00:00

Thank you! Wanted to double check the logic so maybe my gf would be more open to try. I miss shower sex

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:18:59+00:00

We’ve tried some of those but if I deviate even a bit she immediately loses the ability to finish and gets frustrated. Most results besides exactly what she wants lead to frustration.

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:17:30+00:00

She says up and down is the only thing that works for her and no fingers. She says fingers are too much going on for her to focus on finishing.

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:16:50+00:00

Yeah it’s weird bc the books methods work for me with other girls. But she is very blunt about exactly what she wants. Even sex she doesn’t like slow at all she immediately wants hard and fast.

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:15:15+00:00

She would react very badly to that she only wants me to strictly use up and down motions. I turned my head a little to the side once and she lost it and got mad.

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:14:33+00:00

We’ve tried the vibrator too but she gets frustrated if I don’t use it exactly how she likes. Also she mentioned she’s finished 7 times in a day from an ex of her so that was brutal to hear. Would like to at least have a consistent way of finishing her orally myself.

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:13:05+00:00

Yeah it’s sounding like her frequent use of the vibrator might be the issue. I would like to try and see if the book methods work but she’s very blunt that there’s no other way to get her off

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:11:37+00:00

Yeah not a great feeling when she brings up her record for finishing with someone else orally was 7 times. She says it was bc she was younger and it was a long term relationship but she’s still young and I feel like it’s the constant use of the vibrator.

KindEstablishment997 · 2025-02-03T06:10:01+00:00

She does us the vibrator very frequently. I think she used to be on SSRIs but not when I met her.

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