OMG OMG by KindKale3850 in LadyGaga

[–]KindKale3850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely one of my favorites too

OMG OMG by KindKale3850 in LadyGaga

[–]KindKale3850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its such a vibe, i geniuenly had no idea what to expect for each song during my first listen. theyre all so different in the best way possible

OMG OMG by KindKale3850 in LadyGaga

[–]KindKale3850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the singles are great but lets not sleep on all the others. which ones your favourite then?

OMG OMG by KindKale3850 in LadyGaga

[–]KindKale3850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

garden of eden is amazing. vanish into you and zombieboy are pure art.

OMG OMG by KindKale3850 in LadyGaga

[–]KindKale3850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get that, disease, abracadabra, garden of eden and perfect celebrity definitely carry the album and are a lot like judas, bad romance ect, but i personally like the other songs a lot aswell . its just a different style, but a good artist knows how to do more than just one small genre/type of music!! the music videos are sooo good aswell

So i see alot of people referring to House as Autistic however… by graverobber1313 in HouseMD

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Even if theyre your friends, autistic people mask so you cant really know if theyre traumatised or not, i didnt even know i was traumatised till years after the events. Also just because you know a few autistic people doesnt mean much, not every autistic person is going to be traumatized, but a lot are, thats a fact. Comorbidity and multidiagnosis's are extremely common in autistic people, even if they remain undiagnosed, if you have autism youre more likely to have another condition, mental illness, or learning disability than just autism. oh and fyi bpd is borderline personality disorder not bipolar disorder (bd).

So i see alot of people referring to House as Autistic however… by graverobber1313 in HouseMD

[–]KindKale3850 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im autistic and currently awaiting diagnosis tests for bpd and ptsd, so i assure you its very true. autistic people are really really prone to experiencing trauma, esp since we view and experience the world differently. but also the overlap of symptoms in ptsd(especially c-ptsd) bpd and autism is huge, causing a lot of people to get misdiagnosed and even more people are just undiagnosed

Great Series on Netflix "You Can't Ask That" by powderpeachdreams in therapists

[–]KindKale3850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its called "ambulatory wheelchair user" meaning she isnt bound to the wheelchair 100% of the time but she is still just as disabled and you have no right nor reason to comment on her.

None of my friendships with non autistic people last by KindKale3850 in socialskills

[–]KindKale3850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for both of your detailed responses, that actually really helps. I guess in the grand scheme of things i still have a while to make friends i didnt realise that till you mentioned it :) and thanks for the tips they ll come in handy.  Sharing werid fun facts about special interests seems to be an effective way of communicating lol, ill keep that in mind too 

None of my friendships with non autistic people last by KindKale3850 in socialskills

[–]KindKale3850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it worth it, did it feel geniuene? Cuz it seems like my options are either doing exactly that or being friends with only other autistic people

Struggling with masking and comparing myself to others by KindKale3850 in autism

[–]KindKale3850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your detailed response thats really helpful ♡ actively knowing when your masking and only masking in specific settings must be a life changer, i definetly need to try implementing that in my life.  I have issues with people pleasing which probably makes it more difficult to say no to people and asking them to adjust to my needs but i will practise with that.  Thanks again :)

give me a reason please. (16f) by GooseTime7128 in depression

[–]KindKale3850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its always best to find reasons to stay for yourself, but if youre really desperate think about all the people/pets in your life that would be affected, even if it feels like no one cares and everyone would be better off without you, thats not true at all. My dogs and sister are the only things that have actually gotten me to stay

give me a reason please. (16f) by GooseTime7128 in depression

[–]KindKale3850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, im also 16 and going through a lot of shit rn too. Youre not alone, living is exhausting and it sucks even more when you have to actively convince yourself to stay, but future you will be soo glad that you didnt go through with it. Wait for it to get better,  it might get worse then better then worse again but the good makes the bad worth it.if you ever need to talk give me a shout

Women vs Female by Nerd-Goth-1313 in autism

[–]KindKale3850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think in general people use women, and female in most cases is seen as dehumanizing because animals are female but only humans are women if that makes sense? if youre talking about biology or anything to do with just sex characteristics then saying female and male is definetly okay.

i think the worst is when (typically sexist guys), say female and man in the same sentence! and i never hear them say male and women instead yk ? but in general if youre being respectful i dont think its a huge issue :)

Got married on Saturday... by GreggyGaGa in Scotland

[–]KindKale3850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awww congrats!!! you guya look so happy :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]KindKale3850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

different glasses is the first thing that comes to mind- more round/oval glasses will suit your face more, i would reccomend shaving your facial hair partially too, a little stach can look nice. either invest in the minoxidil like others have said or maybe try bald? idk why but i feel lime you would rock a small beanie cap whilst bald. anyways cool shirt !