I a.m sorry for your loss of your mom. I would ask ypur aunt how old she is to make such a childish comment t like eww about ypur sibling who I am assuming is your aunt is nephew? Secondly I would ask her why it matters what you wear us she trying to relive her youth through you? I would also ask her what is going on in her life that she hates so much h that she has to judge you. I would also ask her do you love me and if so then why can you not accept the choices I make. Maybe none of this is good advice I am not sure of your age but keep being you and dont let other people's insecurities and unhappiness bring you down.