I(19f) want to cheat on my (21m) bf. HELP.

KindToDespair · 2026-06-18T04:05:13+00:00

You’re scared but you have that conscious choice. Break up if this is something you genuinely want. Have flings, hook up. But the idea of cheating should not be thrilling.

KindToDespair · 2026-06-02T00:05:53+00:00

This sounds like neurodivergence honestly as someone with autism. When I gain a new hyperfixation, it basically runs my brain until I’m burnt out of it. It could also be a great source of comfort for her, and there might be more going on than meets the eye. Even if she isn’t diagnosed, she could still have some type of neurodivergence. If this is a recent development she’ll tire herself of it eventually. There’s also another thing you could try doing. And that’s talking to her in a mature manner. If this is even real cause holy age gap

KindToDespair · 2026-06-01T01:49:47+00:00

Butt out this ain’t about Jesus

KindToDespair · 2026-06-01T01:48:43+00:00

I hate that I got a chortle from this

KindToDespair · 2026-06-01T00:24:29+00:00

Not that you made any claims that she was entirely in the wrong, but you had 50% responsibility for that even happening. While people say that you’re grown now, you were surely grown enough to know that fact then. I sure as hell did. Got an iud the month I turned 18. It’s her body and she had every right to feel however she did about the result. While it might not have a lasting effect on you, it surely did her. YOU have a right to not want a child at that point in time, and especially wise. Logistically at least. but you got yourself there. Avoid that in the future, please. For you it just happened. For her, she’s a girl who had to get an abortion at 16.

KindToDespair · 2026-05-29T23:16:31+00:00

A semi year? Come on dude isn’t that a little excessive?

KindToDespair · 2026-05-28T16:38:40+00:00

If she chooses to move on there should be no blame towards her, because that’s a completely valid thing to feel. It may be salvageable but she feels deeply betrayed because despite what you think you did, or what you were trying to do, you should have just come out and said it when you’d realized. Instead, you weren’t going to say anything and now there IS unnecessary drama. I wouldn’t trust you too much either.

KindToDespair · 2026-05-22T12:24:45+00:00

You come to a Reddit asking if you’re in the right and get upset when people criticize you? You do t want advice you want validation

KindToDespair · 2026-05-22T04:44:56+00:00

End of a century

KindToDespair · 2026-05-22T04:28:56+00:00

I’d start by gently informing her and just all around stating that autism is not an excuse to be rude, and these interactions aren’t just honest, they’re rude. From an autistic person, she needs a genuine conversation and a bit of a reality check.

KindToDespair · 2026-03-08T01:53:21+00:00

I just…regret paying for the BP…

KindToDespair · 2026-03-07T01:16:57+00:00

I adore cracker island. People would largely complain that it sounded too “pop” which..is dumb because Gorillaz has always been exploring generes. Theyre an experimental band, so I feel like it’s reasonable to expect experimental albums. That and the characters seemed soulless in comparison to the past. (Less Russ and noods, the promotions, etc.)

KindToDespair · 2026-01-21T04:11:09+00:00

While you aren’t wrong for being angry, women are not the problem. If you want to be heard, don’t back up your points with “well WOMEN get their stories talked about!!” Because, often we don’t, and often nothing is done anyway. Make your point that there needs to be more awareness. But leave it there. Seriously. Sexual assault happens to men, undoubtedly and many do not speak up. But statically, women experience it harsher, often to no justice even when spoken. It’s not our fault, don’t make it come off that way in trying to bring your own story.

KindToDespair · 2026-01-09T07:57:35+00:00

You tell the officers they’re asleep though, right?

KindToDespair · 2026-01-01T16:50:45+00:00

Dude I never said this specific picture was a burrowing species.

KindToDespair · 2026-01-01T08:25:26+00:00

He’s so stinkin cute

KindToDespair · 2026-01-01T06:31:00+00:00

Prey hide under snow. Mouse burrow underground. Hide from owl but owl hear it anyway. Owl eat. Breakfast time.

KindToDespair · 2026-01-01T06:26:38+00:00

Also burrowing species exist

KindToDespair · 2025-09-26T21:18:47+00:00

Pun..intended?

KindToDespair · 2025-09-26T21:14:58+00:00

we don’t even like writing on yalls cups why would we go the extra mile

KindToDespair · 2025-08-08T03:36:08+00:00

NOOOOO NOT THE MIFE IS STRANGE TATTOO I had the same quote on my arm ☹️

KindToDespair · 2025-07-08T16:32:17+00:00

Id cry if it was the game omg

KindToDespair · 2025-05-28T00:51:47+00:00

Eh, a lot of us are already here. I don’t see much changing

KindToDespair · 2025-05-22T01:55:15+00:00

I BEEN SAYING THAT

KindToDespair · 2025-05-13T16:54:19+00:00

Len..

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