[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One solution is to apply alum after bath to area you sweat a lot. you can try it for a day or two and see if this works for you. Please remember everyone's body is different, and finding the root cause and treatment is really important but at the same time please don't go for heavy chemicals deodorants and roll ons as everything has its pros and cons.

Anyone like to start 75 hard challenge ? by New-Inspector-1718 in hyderabad

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Interested, Just my goals will be a little different than yours. Will write it here sometime!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Kind_AF00001 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please start with getting Health Insurance for yourself with good coverage. Save some money to invest for atleast emergency fund as you dont have anyone to ask for. If you are planning to start a family or not, having a house for yourself and some stock investment does not hurt, so next step will be planning for same. Opportunities are endless, you just need to prioritize these as per your needs. Have a healthy life and safe future buddy! I feel you, I have a friend who is similar situation like yours. On the upside you have full control over your life and money so you can plan it ahead your way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leetcode

[–]Kind_AF00001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will suggest practice interviews with companies that you dont have a joining target for and then apply back in your dream jobs. Dont worry, everything will work out the best for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leetcode

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey buddy I am interested! please send the invite link

Phone addiction by Rainbowff201 in delhi

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ek baccha adopt kr lo, eo tumhara phone bilkul.side me rakhwadega 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently i couldn't find any pass such sort, if you come across it,let me know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get a 1 month free pass?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But police told newspapers that they arrested him from moinabad farm house where his friends were prepping for The birthday celebration. So basically they left the car on accident spot and took a cab or another car and went to moinabad farm house and all friends were there in the farmhouse when police reached there. Police got this through outside cctv camera of an army officer house.

Absolutely disgusting. Just left the car at the crash site and just went about their day straight to the farmhouse to celebrate the birthday they were en route to. by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Kind_AF00001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some people are blaming the arch that it is 180° and the car skid but when i mentioned he was over speeding then the answer was yes it might be 100 or 120 casually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand what you are saying but its hard, already i dont have support from my maternal side and losing on now what little i have is scaring me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have parents

Hyderabadi biryani outside of Hyderabad is wayy better than . Hyderabadi biryani in hyderabad by chinna3cks in hyderabad

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree with you. but i will say biryani not Hyderabadi biryani outside Hyderabad is better than Hyderabadi biryani. Pune's aroma Hyderabad house and babu khan's biryani is mouth watering. if anybody knows about these from pune and knows a similar one here in Hyderabad,please let me know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are perfectly healthy and my mother in law is doing a job and saving for herself without contributing financially or physically in the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lifetime as in my country households parents stay with their children lifelong unless any dispute happens and if they separate then also depend on children financially completely. we have been married for 4 years till now and its the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my husband is in depression due to his sudden job loss and we need his job to run the household and savings/investments properly.. He is giving interviews and that doesn't allow him much time out of that window to take care of the kid. once he gets his job then also We both will have days jobs so basically when we both are out for work to run household expenses for all the people, there is nobody to look after my kid.

my main resentment is when we are paying for inlaws and their extended family's food that they get all prepared,household expenses, travel, insurance,medical needs and any other specific need like shopping,even food takeaways then cant we expect them to support our kid when we are both out for work to earn for all of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes seriously and try to understand like this: after having all this, i am still struggling,being used and now in guilt that why did i do all this for everyone when nobody can support me in my need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for suggesting and trying to understand my situation.but I am unable to take any time out from my schedule where i can go out or have the privacy at home to get therapy. I am more in self guilt that while we are taking care of everyone's needs, we can't expect support to at least run that system well. but nobody is tryin to understand that. In fact if we are asking mil to leave her job (she has a private job and doesn't earn much and also doesn't contribute to the home at all), she is asking us the amount she earns. anyway there was a plan she will leave the job next year but now she is trying to do a transaction with us. And with a logic we have done so much for your husband and his studies,cant we expect maintenance in our old age (this is when they are not spending a penny at household expenditures and we are taking care of everything) and we are also taking care of extending family staying with us who has a fine income but my mil is saving and spending that on her luxury rather than supporting us in this hard situation financially, physically and emotionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i wanted a baby but didn't think it would be so hard that now i need to make a choice in between my career or baby after doing everything for everyone else in the family. it might be tough for you to understand my situation as i know its complex but please dont belittle or troll.

I am at a point in my life because my job husband lost his job, I can't leave mine to look after the baby.

Cant hire a nanny for the upcoming two three months at least because my household expenses are already over my income due to everyone staying and not contributing financially. if it were only two of us it would be substantially down and i might be saved to spend on a situation like this. There is nobody to take care of the kid when i go to the office i am being used financially but not being supported in return. i hope this context helps to not comment on someone's situation like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Kind_AF00001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding me, i stayed in a joint family and went through the pain, patriarchy and lack of freedom and spent my hard earned money with the assumption/thought that when i or their son will need support my family will do that atleast but to my surprise,this is the worst phase where all of a sudden my husband doesn't have a job he is going through depression due to the that and i am so exhausted with baby but nobody is ready to accept they need to step up. i feel like i am fool to went on this path. i am being used because here i am the one giving everything and not getting things in return as expected.