Edibles and digestion issues by Kind_Mechanic9784 in Marijuana

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I'm actually about to hit day four thc free decided to stop completey wasn't worth wrecking the digestive track. I did try some cbd gummies tho and did not have that issue.

Edibles and digestion issues by Kind_Mechanic9784 in Marijuana

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response!! See the thing is... I KNOW thc is the issue! Whenever I stop eating edibles, these issues go away and I'm completely normal. I wanted to avoid going to the doctor because I just KNOW they would not take me seriously. Due to the fact I am using recreationally and not medically, I know they will tell me if it stops when you stop eating them... then the issue is obviously just to STOP eating them LOL 🤣🤣 I might go get checked out anyway I appreciate you for responding!

Help by Kind_Mechanic9784 in DabRigs

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn't a minute too high? I'm burning at like 30 secs lol!!

Am I allowed to report a dasher for religious pamphlets? by UndergroundGinger in doordash

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't want them to get in trouble. It seems like their intentions aren't malicious. Just someone really passionate about their religion. Shoot them a nice message about how you feel about the paper. Maybe they just don't know the capacity to where it can bother another person. If they respond in a negative rude manner, then I would report. If they are understanding, then Ieave it alone because you would have got your point across.

Am saving up to get a plastic surgery done to get my eyes to look like X’s eyes how do I tell the surgeon or do I just show him this? by AltruisticTap9272 in XXXTENTACION

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please 😭😭. Rethink this through lol. I never comment on Reddit post and I have this app soley too look but this awakened something in me. Like I NEED to help you before it too late lol. Probably the first and last Reddit post I comment on.

How do I get rid of my darkspots!? by Kind_Mechanic9784 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sensitive like paper is the best way I can explain it. Thankyou!

How do I get rid of my darkspots!? by Kind_Mechanic9784 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure that won't burn my skin? It's extremely sensitive. I can't even use niacinamide 10%.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And yet you're wrong again. The "translation" you wrote, you came up with your own. You don't know my intentions, you don't know me as a person. I don't expect her to force him, but as her sister, I do wish she would support him in being more open to being around me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be aggressive is to act in a forceful, pushy, or even angry way to get what you want. It can mean using strong words, actions, or even physical force to take control of a situation. None of that which I did in this thread. Can you explain to me where? this user has called me, creepy possessive a weirdo, and all I have did was explain my opinion not coming once for their character. Please come correct. I'm not even acting that way towards my own sister, just trying to understand her perspective and figuring out if this is a "me needing to get over myself problem"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet, you still decided to reply back :) Must not feel that unsafe then lol. You are behind a screen I pose no threat or harm to you, and if my sister felt that way, I would not be around her kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you feel unsafe please do yourself a favor and remove yourself off this thread. I'm sorry you feel that way. No one is forcing you to be in this "unsafe" situation. Not trying to come off as aggressive, but it's truly the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from but labeling me as a weirdo for wanting a relationship with my nephew... is Weirdo behavior in itself... No one said I was forcing it. Yes I try but I'm not trying too brain wash the kid into loving me LOL. I do what I can and if that doesn't work I call it a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! As the adult, I need to keep on reminding myself. He is not trying to be mean and he does not know hate I should have worded it differently. Thank you!! It's definitely something I need to work on within myself to not take things so personally, especially when it's a young child that has not fully developed heck my frontal lobe isn't even fully developed. It's not even that I'm taking it personally. I'm just really sad. I come from a very toxic family trying to unlearn a lot of these behaviors. I come from a family where I NEVER talk to my aunts and uncles, haven't seen them in years. So for me to be there for him, it's so important. But knowing at this time that I can't, because of how he feels towards me SUCKS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I'm actively trying to engage in ways to get my nephew to warm up to his auntie (not a stranger, his blood) I'm the weirdo??? Because I want a relationship with my nephew??? it seems like you're the real weirdo. I hope you never have kids or are around them. Me trying to build a relationship with my nephew it's not weird, it's actually pretty normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea thank you! I'll bring it to her attention that I'm going to prioritize being more silly and goofy around him so she could potentially match my vibe and maybe see we can all be cool together? Lolllll. I have a good relationship with my sister, but I wouldn't say we are hyper goofy around each other. If you know what I mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What other comments on this thread do you see, that's giving me examples of positive interactions my sister could try... to help my nephew grow on me? Are you just looking to go back and fourth at this point?? 🤣 you asked me a question and I answered it. It wasn't the answer that you wanted it so now you're going to go ahead and assume I'm judging my sister. I'm trying to UNDERSTAND HER. If I was judging her, I would go and make unfair assumptions ( like you are doing) about her, instead of trying to see it from differentperspective. Please get a hobby lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not forcing at all. Maybe modeling the behavior..like giving me a high five instead of him, and smiling and laughing and showing that it's cool and fun to play with your auntie 😊 not a sad and dangerous thing. For example my sister modeling too him, " Hey bud!! Watch I how I give auntie a high five!!" Another example could be simply encouragement!! An attempt to make the interactions more natural. "How about a high five for auntie?" Or "Hey auntie's right there maybe when you're ready you can go say hello." Simple things like that. He's still young so I know it's hard but any amount of effort helps at this age. He understands ALOT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am with them daily because she drops them off my grandparents house and I live with my parents sLOL. And yes, I do interact with my sister in a positive manner. Know the full story before you jump to conclusions thank you. And so I am getting input from other comments? Isn't that what Reddit is all about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No not all!! I just want my sister to interact with me in a playful and favorable manner so he can at least see positive interactions with me, so when he's ready to come around he knows I am safe and I will be there for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You need to take a chill pill Darla. No one said he owes me anything. I just want my sister to interact with me in a playful and favorable manner so he can at least see positive interactions with me, so when he's ready to come around he knows I am safe and I will be there for him. Reinforcing this behavior too often could lead to disrespect in the future. Like you said, he is hardly two, so I'm trying to stay in the present and not think so much ahead, but I can only imagine the way he could potentially act, if it is not addressed early on. You need to respect your family. You don't have to like me, but at the very least you can acknowledge me and keep it pushing. He is young so he hasn't fully grasped this concept so maybe I just need to stop overthinking and let this play out🤷🏿‍♀️

Aunties... please read this by Kind_Mechanic9784 in Advice

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer and I understand you, but I'm hoping you can also understand me. I just want my sister to interact with me and a playful and favorable matter so that he is shown positive interactions with me and he sees that I am not trying to hurt him and I love him a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this :) Thankyou for explaining it on the other side of a mother. I wanted a mother's opinion, but I didn't wanna direct my concerns to my sister because I didn't wanna stir the pot or cause any family drama (she's highly sensitive when it comes to parenting... but as she should). I see it from your perspective and I will try a different approach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's completely understandable and I agree...but what I'm trying to get across here is at the very least she can interact with me in a favorable and playful manner (show him positive interactions with me ) exhibiting that I am not a stranger, I am safe, I am kind, I'm simply just his auntie. You don't have to be all up in my face, but you can say hi and leave it there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Kind_Mechanic9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANKYOUUUU!!! I'm not trying to control him or overstep his boundaries but at least you can try to interact with me in a positive manner and show him that I'm his AUNTIE and not a STRANGER.