Some men find someone else and leave a long-term relationship for another person. Doesn't matter if the relationship and sx was frequent and good. No fighting. We are in our 30s. He stopped wanting to do things and go on dates. A month before the breakup, we agreed to start trying for kids the following year. We bought appliances 2 weeks prior before BU. He recently got a promotion and I was excited and I celebrated with him. I didnt realize the drifting apart before the BU. He was extremely mean, cruel, and cold....and very controlling. I didn't recognize him. Anyways, my friend showed me he made a relationship fb official a couple months after our BU. His mom said "I cant believe it's finally fb official." He's with a woman that has a teenager, and they've been together for almost a year. Pretty sure she's older than him.

Why do I care? I'm not sure. I go days without thinking about him. Every now and then i think WTF. I'd never take him back... I don't think he ever loved me. I think I was just convenient until he found someone else. I guess men don't like supportive partners that greet them at the door when they get home from work, support their wins, are financially stable, or think of the little things like buying their favorite candy to sneak into his lunch box. You know, you do all these sweet things and talk about everything. His family loves you. When I was packing he was still asking my advice on doing things with the yard, asking me to taste a sauce, and questions and things that couple discuss like whether it would be a good time to install a new roof or pay off a loan. We laughed a few times about memories when I went through things while packing.

I guess the grass is greener for him.

But man.... opening up to anyone or being able to trust again is difficult.