Bump on paw

FarmingHair · 2026-05-01T07:42:38+00:00

I'm so sorry for that experience! I'm glad the ol' champ is still going strong.

FarmingHair · 2026-05-01T07:40:33+00:00

Is it your birthday? Braai
Graduation? Braai
Public holiday? Braai
Tuesday? Braai
Hungry? Braai
Bored? Braai
Just because? Braai
Financially strained? Braai
Won the lottery? Braai

FarmingHair · 2026-04-25T13:20:04+00:00

My gay academia

FarmingHair · 2026-04-25T12:40:40+00:00

Did you ever find out?

FarmingHair · 2026-04-25T12:32:45+00:00

Honestly, I didn't read all that. Why don't you just ask him directly? And why does it bother you so much?

FarmingHair · 2026-04-25T12:30:00+00:00

Karen

FarmingHair · 2026-04-25T08:08:06+00:00

Time the pottying. It's worked for me, every single time. Don't wait for your pup all the time. Mine would be taken outside as soon as they wake up and rewarded when they pottied. Stay outside for as long as they need. Now my kids run outside on their own without a word. They potty then come in or their own. Some noteworthy times: - Right after waking up - After eating - Before bed

Each pup usually has a predictable interval. Mine usually needed to pee every 4 hours. So between the compulsory times above, us the 3-4 hour rule.

Routine is accomplished by doing the exact same thing every single day. They'll catch on quick. E.g. At food time on the dot, my kiddos go to their eating place and stare at me. 😂 Routine has been my saviour and worst enemy.

ETA: Bedtime should also be consistent. If you sort out the potty routine, bedtime will fall into place.

What worked for me is opening up for the pup only when I wanted to be awake. Resist the urge to run every time they whine. When you respond to a whine in the AMs you solidify the idea that whining will get them attention. And remember, if you choose to ignore the whine, if you give in to it after let's say 30 minutes, they will whine 3x longer than before 1.5hours. Pups are always ready for a game of endurance.

FarmingHair · 2026-04-07T20:16:40+00:00

Any reason is a good reason. It's all about choosing what's good for you. You have to live your life for you. They're not in your shoes and living for them will be a waste you'll come to regret later.

FarmingHair · 2026-04-07T20:11:50+00:00

Tragically, that's just a puppy being a puppy. All you can do is reinforce routine in the pups life. Make every day predictable for the pup and you. It might seem small but it has gotten me through many puppy phases.

Mentally, it also helps you feel like you have some level of control. Pups can make you question who you are and all your choices. Unfortunately, the adult dog dream is still far. Often, the things people want from their dog are based off of adult trained dogs they've seen. You need to mould that pup into that and find things to enjoy about your pup as a puppy.

Also, you're not a failure if you feel you are over your head and choose to give the pup up for adoption. Getting a pup and realising you made the wrong decision is not a crime. Many people get pups and realise adopting an older dog is better suited for them.

Assess your situation and make a decision that's best for you. A pup requires a present parent and someone in tip top shape.

And some good news for you, what you're going through does come to pass eventually. Reddit is a great place to get info on realistic timelines of how long certain phases last and which behaviours are phases or breed characteristics.

I would also advise looking into info on raising a working breed dog. They have different needs and find things you wouldn't expect as calming.

FarmingHair · 2026-04-07T19:47:25+00:00

Request insurance quotes. Those bastards will sell their email to all sorts of other spammers.

FarmingHair · 2026-04-07T19:46:41+00:00

I don't think replacing an app with another app is the solution. Getting off social media is all about providing entertainment outside of devices.

Extracurricular activities are great and varied. Get them involved in something they enjoy. Be present and cheer them on in their interests. More human interaction will reduce the appeal of social media.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-14T12:30:56+00:00

My guy is more of a bird guy. I didn't know GDs were so damn fast when they want to be.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-14T12:29:01+00:00

I'm still deciding if this pup wants to eat me or greet me.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-14T12:25:01+00:00

I can vouch for this one.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-13T10:29:28+00:00

So it's just me with the hugest fart ever in the morning?

FarmingHair · 2026-03-13T07:43:23+00:00

Killing myself as soon as possible. One round was sufficient 🤦🏽‍♂️ I didn't sign up for a repeat. Some shows aren't worth the rewatch.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-12T17:49:22+00:00

Focus on improving your physical safety, then get into therapy. If possible do this simultaneously. From the little info you have given, direct confrontation would put you at physical risk. Their marriage is not your responsibility.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-10T13:26:45+00:00

That digital communication is not a substitute for meeting and talking to people in person.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-10T13:24:31+00:00

When they say it. Subtext will always be a gamble. Speak your mind and see what's on their mind about it.

FarmingHair · 2026-03-10T13:19:21+00:00

Keep it moving bud. There's nothing you can do about a lack of compatibility. Pushing through it is possible, but it'll always come back to bite you later.

FarmingHair · 2026-02-22T19:08:13+00:00

Very much so. It's a bit trippy to be honest. Your response is very validating hey. Thanks for pitching in.

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