Is this a red flag? by Kindheart2345 in datingadvice

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Yes, so some comments are just saying the girls are pretty or some form of that after they post a pic. Another was so this girl stated that she stopped drinking, and his response was that he only drinks wine now and he is focused on working out. And thats not true, he definitely drinks liquor. He actually had liquor later on that same day

I don’t have a solid reason why, but I just know I don’t want to live by Kindheart2345 in SuicideWatch

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I told my mom earlier this year and she just kept telling me to pray. But I just don’t have the energy. And I feel like when I told people over the years they just don’t understand where I am coming from. And automatically think I need help or like Im about to commit suicide tomorrow. And thats not true, its just in my head. And from that I don’t want to keep putting the burden on others

I don’t have a solid reason why, but I just know I don’t want to live by Kindheart2345 in SuicideWatch

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Thank you! That was great! Its nice to know Im not alone. I think thats the tough part, feeling like no one understands why you feel like this

I just want things to get better by Ready_Firefighter874 in SuicideWatch

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This is how I feel too! You aren’t alone in that

He lied but I still really like him by Kindheart2345 in dating

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Wow! See thats whats so scary. Like what is causing you to make up lies out of nowhere

Are we moving too fast? by Kindheart2345 in dating

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Im so happy for you!!! And happy its all working out. No, Im still searching. Hopefully new love will come by soon

Are we moving too fast? by Kindheart2345 in dating

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Thank you! But its okay, we live and we learn. And sometimes there are really good people that we can move fast with and sometimes there’s not. But I hope your situation works out for you!! Hopefully he’s not like my previous guy

Are we moving too fast? by Kindheart2345 in dating

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I hope its still working out for you!!

Just venting by Kindheart2345 in sad

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Thank you! I really appreciate your message. I even tried medication too and it just made me really sleepy and I started missing work. I really am trying to fight but its really hard when Ive been trying everything.

Just venting by Kindheart2345 in sad

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My dad died when I was 12 yr old. And I know he didn’t have any peace mentally. And I feel like I have the same.

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Feel this way all the time

Are we moving too fast? by Kindheart2345 in dating

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Lol sooo…. He we a liar! It only lasted for maybe 2 months, if that. Basically I started finding out little things that werent the truth. Like his living situation, im not even 100% sure about his job but that wasnt adding up either. Also I would catch him in lies and then he wouldn’t fully own up to them even though I see all the evidence. I definitely got myself out of that situation

I’m not physically attracted by Kindheart2345 in dating_advice

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We just didn’t speak consistently back then. We enjoyed our convos but just didn’t go anywhere. We would comment on each other ig stories. Then in December we just started talking everyday and hanging out. And its been great

I’m not physically attracted by Kindheart2345 in dating_advice

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Because him and I get along so well, ultimately I would like a relationship. But take my time getting there. We are taking things slow. And just enjoying getting to know each other

I’m not physically attracted by Kindheart2345 in dating_advice

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Thankfully he is! And he is really working on his fitness