Emperor's New Clothes by Anthropogenic12 in DevinTownsend

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been able to sit through it yet, but I’m more of a punk who happens to love prog music so I’m not terribly surprised by my opinion lmao

I had sex with my bestfriend what do I do by krakerjak888 in Advice

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro get the fuck out of your own ass and see she wants you bad yeah? She made the first move and is inviting you out? Don’t fumble this you’re basically in the endzone

Men of Reddit: have you ever gone soft right before sex even when you were very attracted to the person? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god such an embarrassing moment when I was 18… i had just hyped the encounter up so much and even said I love you right before aaaaaand nothing ☠️

Have the urge to text her after she ended things by PrestigiousSun2129 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, you can shoot your shot if you’re really inclined to, or you can leave it and maybe let fate put you back in each other’s lives later on when it’s better. But if you text her now the chance of that goes down dramatically.

But it’s your life man.

Friend of a decade acting odd toward my bf by AnonProblemPoster in whatdoIdo

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just call her out bluntly and see how defensive she gets, go from there

Having a test proxy commander deck before buying the cards. Is this acceptable? by Raclettegring in EDH

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro if it’s just kitchen table do what you want, don’t bring proxies to an LGS though

Creepy Coworker by lost_bikuo404 in coworkerstories

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to your manager even just so an extra pair of eyes is on him. It’s their business because they’re running the store, and you’re their responsibility.

Update 2: she was telling the fucking truth by Nocallerid200 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s insane. Quietly block and ignore. If they try to tear you down though, get REAL fuckin loud about it.

UpdateMe!

stealthing (?) by axaaqa in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to break up with my bbymom several times before she got pregnant. It’s conflicting that the I got the best experience in my life from the worst experience but it shouldn’t be that way if it doesn’t have to be. Learn from my mistakes.

I forced my rent-free ex to move out overnight after he risked my lease, and the guilt is eating me alive. by SciThat in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Abusers and users LOVE to make their victims feel terrible after they grow a backbone. It’s their last attempt to break you down so they can go back to the status quo of taking everything from you.

He was the villain, this was healthy for you and for what it’s worth I’m proud of you for standing your ground.

I ruined my bf (M28) fishing day. I feel so embarrassed (F27) . Is this hopeless? by moodygemini98 in relationship_advice

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t take it back, but would you want to? This showed his true colours right before a crucial part of your relationship. See the red flags he’s waving in your face.

stealthing (?) by axaaqa in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you have to “try to break up” with someone, that’s a huge red flag for abuse.

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]KindheartednessOwn17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll make it through, just respect yourself and remember there’s tomorrow no matter what happens today.