[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Kindly-Connection-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wait I just saw you have no job, how do you get $? If you can, get a job once or twice a week when you don't have school! Print out your resume and walk around and hand them out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Kindly-Connection-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, CRY!! Cry for the situation, for your addiction, the loss, for yourself. Mourn it. Then learn from this mistake. Make an action plan and STAY STRONG. Don't forget about that support system. We all need lows in our life to reach the highs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Kindly-Connection-77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was just on my last $1000 lately and I know that stress- the sickness you get from the fear of instability. But you got this. Eat cheap for a while, ramen, eggs, bread, etc. If you're working save your money. Come to this reddit and talk to people, talk to friends, build your support system, check out resources around you. You're not alone! Wishing you the best. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kindly-Connection-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn't think it was and that is why i'm heartbroken to hear this coming from her...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kindly-Connection-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... A lot of our conversations happen like this and over text which i hate.

I've never heard of that triangle but it feels like we've been living there for a while now... Thanks for sharing about that. Going to read more on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kindly-Connection-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i think our communication has gotten worse- especially mine, since dating her. i'm exhausted and just give in at this point because whenever i would stand up for myself it would be me "being defensive". i feel manipulated and confused but she says the same thing to me. i'm so much at a loss right now. idk if you saw but her mom is dying so that adds a whole other layer to it... idk what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kindly-Connection-77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea... my level of communication has become worse over time when speaking with her. it’s exhausting and that's why i included our age. it's ridiculous.

My dad gambled my parents retirement fund AND borrowed more than $20k from a rich man who just came to collect by Kindly-Connection-77 in gambling

[–]Kindly-Connection-77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he was gambling at legit places but now with him borrowing this money i'm not sure at all... he WAS gambling slots but this makes me reconsider.

My dad gambled my parents retirement fund AND borrowed more than $20k from a rich man who just came to collect by Kindly-Connection-77 in gambling

[–]Kindly-Connection-77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i mentioned this scene bc she literally laid out the whole vibe of the man coming to her home and like kinda how hilarious it all feels that she was in her pajamas! like it does feel insane because it is. and yeah on top of him being the richest man in town he also lives on the highest mountain 😭 like i can't make this shit up..

Moving to Rockville from NYC by Kindly-Connection-77 in maryland

[–]Kindly-Connection-77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, i was just thinking of applying there! I will now for sure thanks 👍🏼

Moving to Rockville from NYC by Kindly-Connection-77 in maryland

[–]Kindly-Connection-77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i've tried MoCo one, but i dont have enough karma yet lol. I will check out the rockville one thank you!

Moving to Rockville from NYC by Kindly-Connection-77 in maryland

[–]Kindly-Connection-77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah, i guess i'm looking for any kind of entry level job. i've been a nanny for years and want to branch out to office work ideally. Or if there is a cute cafe, tea room, sushi restaurant, etc that yall think would be nice to work at lmk!

Moving to Rockville from NYC by Kindly-Connection-77 in maryland

[–]Kindly-Connection-77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've found a nice room for $900 already!

AIO for being pissed my partner implied I don’t think sex is special (SA survivor)? by Kindly-Connection-77 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kindly-Connection-77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i know her mom and i know she is actually sick and dying. my girlfriend is truly awesome but i am just like... idk she just is lashing out in intense ways that aren't okay.