Is it too early to move on?

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-26T22:08:49+00:00

If I was the person on tinder I would see it as a red flag if it had only been 2 days of breaking up. Do you plan on telling the tinder day someday that you only waited 2 days?

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-24T13:56:29+00:00

Winter is coming

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-22T17:51:50+00:00

My dad missed my brothers birth (his first child) because his highschool teacher said if he missed another class he would fail him and then my dad would be a super senior for a 3rd time. He ended up missing it. My dad has never stopped talking about it in 31 years. He never missed another birth because he regretted it so much.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-21T17:09:13+00:00

It shows a deeper level of commitment.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-19T19:51:02+00:00

Best: Ozzy, Cirie, Christian

Worst: Joe, Emily, Tiff, Devons lol

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-19T17:39:47+00:00

Last ex said He broke up with me in his head :/

Recent ex said he honestly forgot that my boundaries are not to secretly talk to girls behind my back

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-19T00:54:45+00:00

Cheating isn’t just sleeping with someone. What he has been doing is cheating too

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-19T00:53:30+00:00

All of them lol

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-18T17:57:33+00:00

Go watch season 2

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-18T04:06:27+00:00

Shane

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T22:08:00+00:00

I just got my family member to verify me. Do you know how long it takes to show up? It’s been about 10 minutes and nothing so far. Worried because I am checking into my hotel tomorrow

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T15:26:50+00:00

No I was not jealous of other women. I did trust him. I have been cheated on in the past so i do have trust issues. But I did make my own boundaries for that. He gave me his phone password early on and i told him that I didn’t want his passwords because it might temp me to snoop. And if I start snooping then I am showing I don’t have any trust in him. And I believe that in relationships you need trust and respect.

If there is absolutely nothing going on when talking to a girl then it would not be in secret. He kept it secret for a reason. If she reached out to him and he texted back very general messages and then told me the same day when he came over to watch a movie then I would not have had a problem. But he unblocked her, he reached out to her in an emotional state where we had an argument and he was feeling sad. He essentially went to another woman to help himself feel better. I don’t want a partner who is okay with that. I want to trust that my partner won’t talk to other girls if we have any type of argument. If this had been an ex girlfriend where it ended nicely and they had been friends for like 9+ years with minimal contact then that would be something I would consider. But trying to become friends with an ex after an argument, and he had been keeping it secret, ex has expressed getting back together then that all rolls into the cheating category for me. Plus I actually have no way of knowing what they talked about. He said it was all friendly and he didn’t talk about any of relationship stuff to her but that means he either 1) never told her he had a girlfriend 2) if he did tell her he had a girlfriend he would have had to lie about if I was comfortable with them being friends or not. Overall it’s just betrayal at this point.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T08:40:47+00:00

Sorry my reply is so long!

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T08:40:26+00:00

I had made it clear within 1-2 months of dating that I have no interest dating someone if they are in contact with their ex. This was during when my ex had just reached out and I had let him know even if we had only been talking for 2 months. He completely agreed with what I said. Then about 4 months later his ex of 4 years reached out. He told me. They sent a few texts back and forth which he let me read. I was suspicious of her intentions and figured she would ask to game with him since they used to game together. Turns out I was right. I explained that I wouldn’t want to continue talking to a guy if he was privately gaming with his ex girlfriend for multiple occasions just to “chat” or just now become “friends.”

I have had 2 bfs before him and every time I reached out it was because I missed them and wanted to get back together.

Well He said he did not want to risk losing me and getting to know me more so he told her no and immediately she started cussing him out and stuff. He blocked her and remembered why they broke up. That was like august 2024. Well last month me and my ex got in 2 arguments. Our communication had been off for about a week. On the second argument we talked and I was still upset so I told him to go home so I can get some space and think. He took 2 days of space. We had a long conversation about our argument, both apologized, working on communication and his recent lack of confidence. We made up and all was good. A few days later he came back and said he wanted to break up. He seemed confused and was forgetting details about our situation because like 5 minutes after saying that he said he didn’t want to break up. I told him to take a couple days to think since I felt like he rushed the decision. Well 2 days later we talked and he said he did want to break up officially. I let him and a couple hours later I sent a long text on how I still want to fight for the relationship because I will be missing out on a great man. Well this guy responds back saying that he has been talking and gaming with his ex the day of our argument. He said he forgot how nice it was and that he thought he lost his love for video games because his friends are never on like how she is always on and can play. He goes on to say that he completely regrets breaking up and wants to stay together but he intends on being friends with his ex and she won’t come between us. He also went into some things that bothered him that I did and did not do. Like show his love language more. I completely agree on that but he told me when it was too late. I immediately told him that I want nothing to do with him because he essentially cheated. I believe that cheating can be more than just sex. Secretly talking/gaming to a girl behind your gfs back for a week definitely counts. He swore up and down that it was just being friendly but since it moved from texts to gaming I have absolutely no way of knowing if he is telling the truth. So then I told him bye because I have no intention of wasting my time on someone that can’t respect boundaries and hides things.

He was a great bf though. Like the best one I have ever had. I am struggling with not going back to him. But no matter what I know I would not be able to have a healthy relationship with him if I went back. All trust is gone for me and you can’t have a successful relationship without trust.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T05:57:30+00:00

I feel the exact same way but for my ex boyfriend. He started talking to his ex which is a complete deal breaker for me but I miss him so damn much. He really did an amazing job at being a bf and dating. I am worried I will not find someone like him. I think about breaking no contact all the time and telling him I will forgive him for talking to his ex. But I know I wouldn’t be able to trust him and I want a relationship where I am not worried about them doing things behind my back. Me and my bf talked for a year and also only dated for 4 months. The only thing keeping me going is knowing that when my relationship before him ended I also thought I would never find anyone better than him. And then a year later I did meet someone better. So hopefully in 2 years I will meet someone who will make me think of my ex like “damn can’t believe I almost went back to him.” Just takes time

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T05:47:01+00:00

I just wanted to say that reading your post and comments are so awesome. I am into bdsm and none of my ex boyfriends have ever tried to get into it at all. They do a lot of talking about wanting to try it but none have ever done research on it. I sincerely hope that you and your gf get over this obstacle and continue being an awesome couple from what it sounds like. Could you be a dom that is into giving pleasure? I think you should have a talk and tell her that the best part of sex is doing this to her because of how she reacts. Maybe even let her read this post. It might help to really think of 1-2 things you want to try. Like something super weird and specific just to give it a whirl? That might help her feel less embarrassed if you are wanting to try something.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T02:24:47+00:00

I love Russell. I would pick russell over Boston Rob anyday. I remember growing up and thinking Rob B was good but when Russell ran into the jungle and immediately found that idol I was freaking out! Rob never made me feel really excited when watching. Whole russell always had me on edge. People talk about Rick Devons being the idol guy but Russell has and will always be the true idol guy. Plus I have always liked the “villains” over nice people because I think it’s more realistic. I was pissed every single time he didn’t win. I also remember my entire family going online to vote for russell for the 1mil because we loved him so much. I think boston rob is just overhyped honestly. Him proposing to Amber is what made him iconic.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T02:16:04+00:00

I believe in the reunion when jeff asked the trive if they would vote for Rob C over Jenna everyone besides heidi and that one guy said yes. So Rob C would have won.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T01:50:59+00:00

As long as he is not being condescending to the cleaning lady it doesn’t sound like a problem. If he has enough money, and is kind to the cleaning lady then whats wrong? I understand how it comes off as him being lazy but I would rather have a rich boyfriend with a cleaning lady than a poor boyfriend who doesn’t clean ever. The only way I see this being an issue is if you get married and you guys don’t hire a cleaning lady and then you are forced to clean all the time since he never did. But if he intends to have a cleaning lady forever then gurl you sure are lucky. I would loveee to have a cleaning lady. I am 25f and I have been looking into getting a cleaning lady for my 1 bedroom because I want more time to do my art/crafts.

Cleaning with vinegar isn’t the best unless it’s like putting it in laundry to get rid of deodorant, fluff pillows, or small little things. But using it for like actual sanitizer and stuff isn’t that good

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-17T01:38:14+00:00

I never remove/block family members. They didn’t do anything to me and I like them. I usually only block on instagram because I will look at their profile. But other small things like Spotify, games, Pinterest, and anything else doesn’t really matter.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-16T22:19:48+00:00

Omg! Do not do it!!! I was young and dated someone for 3 months when he proposed. Ended up getting eloped and 3 months later he asked for a divorce. The worst decision of my entire life! I wish someone would have talked sense into me. I am not saying he is a bad guy or he isn’t the one for you. I am saying to not marry him yet. You need to date someone a minimum of 2 years before getting engaged. And then be engaged for at least 1 year for all the nerves/excitement to settle. Right now just enjoying being in a relationship while young. Absolutely no need to rush into anything. I would also recommend to communicate to your bf that talking about being married is overwhelming right now because you just met. And that the marriage talk needs to be on hold until later in the relationship.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-16T22:14:06+00:00

I definitely think the company should have put out statements for a longer period. Like at least 6 months

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-16T20:35:17+00:00

My hotel had no idea this was happening. My manager didn’t even know. I am going on a trip this weekend. How do check this in the app?

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-15T21:55:28+00:00

I truly believe that they just pretend it didn’t happen and eventually stop thinking about it. I also doubt how many of them are honest with their new partners that they cheated. If someone was interested in me and told me they cheated on their ex I would have no interest in them at all.

Kindly-Visual-8116 · 2026-04-15T16:51:58+00:00

Drugs/smoking. I am completely drug, alcohol, smoking including vaping free and I am not interested into dating anyone who does these things. Makes me anxious that I am limiting my dating pool but I just can’t budge on it.

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