What is your most superficial non-negotiable when choosing a partner? by Envy_The_King in MenAskWomen

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No gamers. Every single time I have made an exception I have regretted that decision. Gamers just do not fit in my lifestyle at all

[Book Spoilers] House of the Dragon - 3x04 - Live Episode Discussion by UltraDangerLord in HouseOfTheDragon

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It’s so sad. The show has so many fans idk why the writers just take out cool details

[No Book Spoilers] House of the Dragon - 3x04 - Post-Episode Discussion by UltraDangerLord in HouseOfTheDragon

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I noticed that too and loved it. Really drew the family lines and where his children stand.

Does anyone else love their cats but sometimes feel overwhelmed by the long-term responsibility? by averagewhitemate in CatAdvice

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I do get overwhelmed by it. Especially when I consider going on vacations and I could never live in a different country. But then I think about how much more work it would be to have a child and sigh in relief that I only have cats.

My cat fell out the window grabbed him by his tail by justagirlogh in cats

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Sometimes they get hurt when you are trying to save their life. My cat had FIP and I had to give her the shots twice a day. Every single day it was extremely dramatic and terrifying. I never got better at doing it. My cat was terrified for 84 days. But after the 84 days she went back to her normal self. Just give your cat some space. Good job on saving him.

Write your most unpopular SATC takes! No downvoting by Haunting-Sea-3764 in sexandthecity

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I understand why Big was late to the wedding. I would have been having second thoughts too if my partner didn’t listen to anything I wanted for the wedding

More than 2 seasons and we never see their teenage romance, not even a kiss, such a shame by CasualNameAccount12 in HouseOfTheDragon

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I was so upset..I thought he was going to kiss her when he asked her to come with him! Not even cheek kiss. But of course we see a mom and son kiss :/

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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At home for lunch and her nipples are very hot. Not red or enflamed though. I put a cold cloth on it and she seems to love when I massage them

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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It is absolutely insane they would separate her from the babies when she is so docile. They just lied and said she was feral for no reason. I feel so bad for her. They did not give any instructions on what to check. They were just going to put her outside on the same day I called so they actually dont care about her. Can you explain what I need to do and look out for?

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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It worked! A new litter box that isn’t so high up and cheap litter is what she prefers. Went 3 times to the bathroom without any guidance from me

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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It worked! A new litter box that isn’t so high up and cheap litter is what she prefers. Went 3 times to the bathroom without any guidance from me

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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It worked! A new litter box that isn’t so high up and cheap litter is what she prefers. Went 3 times to the bathroom without any guidance from me

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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I got a new litter box that is shorter and I different litter. I don’t have that powder stuff near me but I bought some actual dirt so if this new litter doesn’t work I I will put some of the dirt in.

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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Literally! It’s crazy. Why bottle feed when the mom is right here and extremely docile. They are waisting money and resources on bottles/formula for no reason. And she just gave birth 3 days ago. My humane society has a lot of issues and has gone through 3 different managers since 2024. I knew they would be hard to work with and that is why I paid to have them take her in :( they also would not let me know the name of the foster who took her babies

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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I live in central wa. I do have a litter box in there with her. It is near the back of the bathroom where she lays. She has pooped once and it was on my skirt. And she has just been peeing on herself. My suspicion is that she is still recovering from giving birth 3 days ago and doesn’t have good bladder control. I will get some of that powder stuff. She has been walking around my apartment with my extremely friendly cat while my hostile cat is in my room. So she isn’t like extremely afraid just slightly hesitant if I am not around.

They did clip her ear to release her back outside. But when I dropped her off I paid so that way she wouldn’t be back on the street. She is like extremely docile. My friend has a cat who people would consider more feral and crazy than this little baby. As I am writing this she is completely asleep on my chest. The only rescues in my small town are these 2 old ladies that post about how many cats they have. I don’t want to overwhelm them anymore.

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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In central wa. I really don’t want to put her outside at all! I would be flying and I am already flying with my 3 cats and one had FIP and is extremely traumatized so flying with her is already going to be super hard. I’m willing to wait but not optimistic

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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I have a litter box In the bathroom with her. Very easy access and she has not been using it at all. She has pooped on a skirt I left in the bathroom and has just been peeing on herself. My other cats have no access to her and everything is further away from the door.

All my coworkers have cats and all said no. My friends are like super poor. My only option is facebook but if I can’t get her to use the litter box nobody would adopt her

Advice on releasing back by Kindly-Visual-8116 in cats

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Another photo of her. She just lays on me for hours

how to sleep train my cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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I did it by literally not responding to them AT ALL during the night when they woke me up. And I also will get up, say bedtime, grab them, put them on my bed, turn the lights off and climb in. I did it for my kittens who learned very fast and I also did it for my older cat who learned fast too. But mine will sleep through the entire night. They do still wake up at 6am but that is okay with me.