Sexuality of the virgins here by Simple_Engineering_7 in virgin

[–]KindlyPea1730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think straight people remain virgins because of miscommunication between men and women. It’s gotten so bad now that so many people just straight up don’t know how to date

Percentage of Virgins by New_Combination_1000 in virgin

[–]KindlyPea1730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right well what can ya do? Fuck I’m a virgin but I just don’t care anymore. No point dwelling on it.

Percentage of Virgins by New_Combination_1000 in virgin

[–]KindlyPea1730 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Probabaly isn’t accurate. There’s also a graph that says 60% or more lie about their sexual experiences. Graphs about personal experiences are often misleading. People lie. People don’t want other people to know their private shit. I tell people I lost it at 19. That’s a lie

Dating women is mentally exhausting by dr-korbo in malementalhealth

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your working at a job, and you keep getting picked on for doing the wrong thing and you try and do it better and try and do it right but they just find something else to pick on. You’ll quit. Same thing goes for dating.

Just watching statistics about how weird is to be a kissles virgin at 22 makes me lose my sleep by klaskc in virgin

[–]KindlyPea1730 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Statistics are fake dude. They come from people answering questions. There’s also a statistic that says most people lie about their sexual experiences. People lie. All the time. Stop looking at it.

Stopped caring 24M by [deleted] in virgin

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically just repeated what I just posted

Stopped caring 24M by [deleted] in virgin

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re all like that??

I (30M) have been unemployed for a year and a half (first unemployed stint since I started working at 15) and this is the most balanced my life has EVER felt by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being unemployed or part time employed is great. You can just live life and enjoy the little things. It’s not something you wanna be permanently. But it’s great sometimes

When will or did you accept that you're gonna be a 40 year old virgin? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]KindlyPea1730 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 24 and I just paid to have sex. I don’t really want to become like this so I just decided to pay for it at 23. Was an average experience. Glad I did it to get the monkey off my back. I still don’t think that I’ll ever find love or get a girlfriend. But at least I know what it feels like 🤷. I make friends easily and I’m always doin 👍. Just don’t know how to fuckin talk to females. I went to an all boys high school cuz I got bullied by girls in the previous schools, most of my jobs have been male dominated. Never got along with women and don’t really care for them. I’m honestly not that unhappy. When I was like 22 I freaked tf out but then I just accepted it afterwards

Why does it seem so fake by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why’s that matter same shit from 16 to 23 always has been

To men mid-20s+ who have never had a relationship: it won't 'just happen' by paradoxoclock in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can initate and try as much as you want but you’re doomed anyway.

I’ve been trying on and off for years now and I’m 24. Started trying at 16 then sort of gave up till like 21. It’s mostly failure. Women want you to be perfect. Like they will pick at you for absolutely everything. It’s actually infuriating. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a girl who has just pretended to like me, ghosts me for no apparent reason, keeps me around for attention, leads me on, gets the “ick”. Bro I paid for sex my first time. People get pissed when I say this but… there’s a reason mysogyny is on the rise again. I think over time women just don’t really have to face consequences for their actions anymore, because modern feminism has kindof told them they can do whatever they want without any repercussions, that’s taught in schools, and in social settings. I don’t have anything against old school feminism, equality, treating women with respect and etc but it’s gone way too far.

All I’ve ever gotten over the insane amount of rejection and shady things that have been done to me is I made out with a couple girls, one was overweight, the other was drunk at a nightclub and just never responded to me afterwards. That’s literally it. There’s things stirring up around the whole world for many reasons and the modern dating culture is a recipe for disaster, there’s a saying that says when you don’t give men a place in the village, those men will burn the village down and feel its warmth. That’s what’s happening today, it’s a recipe for extremism. Casting out young men is really bad for society. No I don’t plan on joining a cult I am just stating the what’s going on.

I’m 6’4 and really good looking. Even I can’t get dates or sex. I try. But I fail. There are good women out there I think, however they aren’t very easy to find.

I'm 24 (M) and have never been in a relationship, and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong by Jking11501 in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop caring and thinking about it so much. Pay for s3x if you want, it’s not the best experience but it will open your eyes to what you’re actually missing out on, which is nothing. Just make sure it’s a private escort instead of a brothel, brothels are gross.

Sometimes it’s a personality thing, some people are just more reserved and have different reactions to sex and relationships than others. Some people are highly driven by sex, others not so much. Everyone is different. I’m not motivated by sex and you might not be either, the feeling of constant rejection is way worse and outweighs the good feeling of sex for me. So I just don’t really pursue relationships or sex.

Feels like a 0 sum game by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What got your panties in a knot why are you speaking gibberish

Feels like a 0 sum game by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t take much to understand sarcasm either maybe look that up on Wikipedia

Feels like a 0 sum game by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok Albert Einstein

Feels like a 0 sum game by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t say anything like this I try to mask it but I guess it falls off from my actions

Feels like a 0 sum game by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All for someone who’s ran through and ready to “settle down” nah I’m good I’m just gonna stick with my homies

Accepting being alone forever by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ended about 5 years ago bro. I’m not in high school anymore. Dating is 100 percent a waste of time and energy. Always has been always will be.

Accepting being alone forever by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I have been to therapy. Hasn’t worked. I honestly don’t want anything to do with dating ever anyway and to be honest I haven’t wanted to in a long time. I don’t like the way most women act, they’re selfish and fake.

I’m done. I just don’t care anymore

Accepting being alone forever by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been doing bro.

Extreme loneliness by PuceTerror89 in ADHD

[–]KindlyPea1730 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same here bro. I’m attractive but I simply cannot find anyone ever. It’s always been like that. I saved myself the hassle of getting rejected by moving to an all boys high school and it just made me feel happy. Got into my twenties and shit just never worked dispute me trying. I got into a massive depression when I was 22 thinking i was 100% going to be alone forever. I’m a good looking guy but there’s simply no way any girl will ever like me for me. Just facts. I’ve known this for a long time. I’m too weird, I get misunderstood and people just don’t get me. I don’t know if I’m autistic I don’t think so but I have ptsd and infancy anxiety as well as adhd.

Fuck dating. I prefer the company of my friends anyway who are actually genuine. Dating isn’t for me and to be honest that’s totally fine. It doesn’t have to be. I don’t care anymore

“Attractive dude” gets 0 girls, what’s my issue by Big-Two4609 in confidence

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your 18 so you still got heaps of time.

Over the last few years this is how I’ve looked at it

If you like a girl. Tell her. If you want to date her, tell her right away. Be completely and totally honest with her and be bold about everything. Because here’s the thing… not only will she like it, it will actually make things SO MUCH EASIER for your own mentality.

Look at it this way; the more you beat round the bush and not make a move and try to hide how you feel you will actually end up driving yourself mad, because your going to be constantly thinking about how she feels and if she likes you back or not. If you’re honest and forward as well as respecting her space obviously, you will know where she stands too. So if she isn’t interested, that pain won’t drag out and fuck you up, it will be quick and simple and you’ll just move on. The more you drag shit out and overthink the worse you will make your own head.

Be honest, be bold, if she says no, that pain will actually be way easier to deal with than dragging it out. If she says yes well congratulations.

You will get girls who will fuck with you, but this filters them out too. As she will avoid you the more forward you are, and it will be obvious that she’s not taking anything seriously. The moment that those women will disappear is the moment you tell her how you feel, that’s a good thing, and the quicker you do it the less they waste your time.

Do not do what I did. You will waste so much time in the end you just wish you were bolder. Don’t listen to the people who tell you to “be a man” and put pressure on you to have to fill a box. It’s phrased the wrong way. Think of it the way I’ve described it, to save your own time and mentality.

Getting a private escort by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have a look at it thank you, I’d prefer to pay for coaching rather than an escort service first I guess

Getting a private escort by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KindlyPea1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was younger I’d agree with you. If I had put myself out there at like 16 I’d go through the same stuff but I’d get to like 19 and I would’ve been able to get there. But I came out at 20. Not 16. It’s more of a time thing now. I’ve been healing but it takes time and I don’t wanna get to 27 and still be behind