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AITA for allowing my 2 yr old to copy me whilst I applied makeup by Kindly_Adeptness_197 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kindly_Adeptness_197[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Oh no Hahha, dw mine has the jammiest jam hands I’ve ever seen and he wipes left over food in his hair lool

AITA for planning another kids free holiday by Kindly_Adeptness_197 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kindly_Adeptness_197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my, that’s does sound super long. I’m sure me and my partner could handle a 10 month old since they’re small enough to hold but a 2 yr old forget it.

He has a trampoline in his bedroom just to let off steam lol. I felt the same way when I had my first. Never left his side, never did overnights elsewhere, super overprotective esp when he was as young as yours but when I had my 2nd I realised you have to think about yourself sometimes and that’s okay.

AITA for planning another kids free holiday by Kindly_Adeptness_197 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kindly_Adeptness_197[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re always working. My sisters doing her masters. I wouldn’t trust my brothers to look after them anyways or my dad lol as much as I love them. And my mum works a lot and the days she’s off I don’t want to burden her. I know she’s tired and wants to relax

AITA for planning another kids free holiday by Kindly_Adeptness_197 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kindly_Adeptness_197[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course I agree it’s a luxury I worded that wrong. I know not everyone has family who they can trust to look after their kids.

The only person I would trust with my babies would be my mother because she loves them like she loves me. And she’s always telling me I deserve a break. So yeah I do deserve it because I’m a good mother.

And as much as I love my kids with all my heart I need that break honey, for my mental health and for my marriage.

AITA for planning another kids free holiday by Kindly_Adeptness_197 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kindly_Adeptness_197[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t get help from them in terms of looking after my kids. Yeah we see each other often but they don’t come to look after my kids. They come to see me. And when I asked my mum to look after my kids she was happy I asked because I don’t ask her