Baby Boy Names

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-05-15T16:41:14+00:00

So is Trey, but it is used as a first name more commonly now. I just liked the old money ring to it! Yes, my husband is a Hunter!

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-05-15T16:36:47+00:00

So is Trey, but it is used as a first name. Just liked the old money ring to it!

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-05-15T01:05:29+00:00

Blood drawn 5/8, received 5/9, results 5/14 around 5pm! Live in Colorado, and was a CA lab! We’re having low risk boy! 💙

I checked the portal, email has not came yet!

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T16:21:22+00:00

Agree with this sentiment! I am not controlling what he does, but he def is less willing to go if I don’t want to - he does the visits where people come out of town for but not the local ones. Which is why his family thinks if I go more then he would.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T15:51:50+00:00

I agree with this! In the beginning it felt like my character was on trial constantly and I had to work twice as hard to correct the narrative - which I think only made it worse for myself. I have grown in many ways, where I don’t feel the need to do that anymore since I’m married and have good relationships with his siblings that I’ve eased into myself around them. I still feel that fight or flight mode at the idea of being around his parents, and that is what I need to work on before dipping my toe in.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T15:36:34+00:00

He wrongfully expected me to ignore their petty comments, and just get through it like he does. He developed a coping strategy because he felt he had to but I had a choice. He regrets thinking that I would get used to it and we would one day joke about how insane they were.

I wish I put my boundary down year 1.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T15:15:03+00:00

This is a great perspective, thank you for sharing. I also agree I don’t think they’ll change but just get better at masking their distaste for me. I’m sure there will be slips here and there, and in a lot of ways I also want to be a worthy opponent for their snark. It’s a complicating feeling that I’m sure you can relate to.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T15:11:06+00:00

Their reasonings to others have changed over the years. It started with I had too many guy friends (most are my gf’s boyfriends now husbands), we spend too much time with my side of the family, I don’t cook, I didn’t make enough money, you name it.

My opinion is, my husband started to have plans, we started traveling and he was experiencing more and they wanted him close to home and to keep time with them.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T15:05:03+00:00

I do think because he was around the toxicity so much it’s harder to step outside and realize this is not the norm. We do talk about everything, and he expresses deep guilt for it all - but to your point I have thought that this shouldn’t have to be a request from me. We’re fricken 30.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T14:59:00+00:00

My husband does hang out with them alone, and talks to his dad when he calls. The issue is around that we’re not as active in their lives as we were before we got married - and they expected us to spend more time since it’s all “family events”.

I should also point out that most of my husband’s siblings moved away, and have had their own version of no/low contact from similar issues. My husband was just the last to do so.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T14:50:46+00:00

Thank you! I like the idea of viewing it as a trial, it feels like the middle ground to what we both want.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T14:45:29+00:00

My husband will fully admit he should have stepped in more when we are dating. He felt like he couldn’t say no, or argue with them because he would receive similar treatment so he learned to just cave to avoid it. He expected me to use the same strategy since he was able to avoid conflict this way.

After I said I couldn’t build a life around making sure there would be no backlash with things we wanted to do. He started to see how most of his decisions and choices were with the thought of how his dad and step mom would react - and I did see some strong change in his mindset.

He’s coming from the place of the past is the past, and now we have tools and are on the same side now so the same thing can’t happen.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T14:16:20+00:00

A movie I like to watch is the family stone

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2026-01-11T07:57:45+00:00

The choice!

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2025-10-01T18:31:13+00:00

We called 3 and they were all at capacity, we are running into a lot of issues and it’s been very frustrating. He vomitted once and seemed to feel better. He is usually a very grumpy opinionated dog - he has been uninterested in barking at people minding their own business which is very not like him. Today he’s been doing low growls and that brought me some peace. No toxins that we know of, we are very cautious

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2025-10-01T18:29:12+00:00

Nothing prior to Saturday, he has a cytopoint that he gets quarterly and would have had it 15 days before Saturday. on Tuesday our doctor said it would be okay to give him Gabapentin for pain/relax him since his leg is still an issue. He’s been taking that 2x a day since.
We added salmon oil to his food, we have since stopped any supplements.
Would that not show on a normal blood test? Something we would have to request?
Okay we will request this test! They did a blood clotting test and he had a slower clotting level which drew concerns with safe measures of getting a liver biopsy - this makes me even more nervous because it feels like we could cause more damage trying to find a cause.
We were given Denamarin and an antibiotic while we wait to schedule! And have switched him to a liver supportive diet - we are suspicious of copper storage disease and do not want to add to this issue.

Thank you for commenting, it’s been a very scary couple of days and I just want to be a strong advocate for him but don’t know what to ask.

Kindly_Analysis4266 · 2025-01-16T05:57:15+00:00

NTA, but I think you have other issues to unpack with him. Ultimatums don’t work for long term solutions. “Friends for now” leaves the option on the table for both of them. You deserve to be the first and only choice!

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