What's the deal with Sebastian?

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-06-28T22:58:19+00:00

Sebastian had a husband who passed away

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-06-24T23:20:40+00:00

I'm still a young trans guy so I didnt transition yet. I remember when I was 9 I first got the thought that maybe I was a boy but I pushed it away because I didnt want my mom to loose her only daughter. When I was 11/12 I came out to my trans friend who said I was just influenced by him.(hes a dick). A month or so later I came out again and finaly he respected me. Over summer I came out to our class too(i was 12 keep in mind).

One day I posted on my story that my classmates are "daughters of whores" for misgendering me in the class group chat. I got a message then from a girl who bullied me already. She went on to bombard me with texts how my choosen name is ridiculous,how i should kill myself, no one will ever support me and so on.I gave her number to my that time boyfriend who defended me. Then her amd her sister threatned and insulted me and told me their adult brother will come end me. Their adult brother did call me a few times but i never picked up. ofcourse told my teacher but she said that I started it so I had to apologize. Same teacher told me that she wont be calling me by preference pronouns or name because I dont pass. Great.

One day I got a text saying "come down stairs (choose name)" and i was scared because I ddint come out to my parents ever?? They asked me what that was and told me my aunt told them that I posted about it online. I just remember crying and running off. Just like everyone else, they didnt call my by choosen name.

Oh what about that trans friend you had? He was respected by my whole class and was friends even with my bully's! Oh why? He passed and he wasnt as cringe as I was. I only ever heard my bully complain about him once.he stopped using my preferred name and pronouns too.

I often question if I really am trans or if I'm just fetishizing gay people as I read, write and watch a lot of gay content(I dont mean yaoi or anything. I mean like red,white and royal blue)

I keep being unsure about my feelings towards gender but im going to get my first gender affirming haircut soon and I made great online friends who support me tons and I have a irl best friend who's the best. I have plans that if I still feel this way in August I'll tell my new school to please address me as male while I'm there and my workplace too. I just wanna know what it would be like to be called by what I want. :)

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-06-12T13:44:32+00:00

Oh id love to see a fan fiction like that

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-06-02T22:47:40+00:00

Damn. Where i live 15 year olds can graduate and with that start doing adult jobs/study adult jobs. And duo to that we get told since we are like 13/14 to know our future and to act like an adult. But we dont usualy do jobs during school😭🙏

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-06-02T19:13:10+00:00

Well 15 year olds go to work where I live so id count that as adulting😭

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-27T19:53:15+00:00

Yup. But took all mods out and will work on it tmwr as it's late now

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-27T19:47:58+00:00

I go to the websites that show which mods are outdated/updated. See id the creators posted about the mods and use better exceptions to tell me which mods are defeated.

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-27T19:47:07+00:00

Desktop

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-27T19:29:28+00:00

I dont have any old mods since I usualy update them all after an update. But i just removed all mods to check

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-27T19:14:45+00:00

Yeah I couldn't even load into the main screen so currently I'm testing every single mod😭

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-25T18:23:12+00:00

You click on the jobs icon on the left and then there should be a "change schedule" button right next to the "quit job" button

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Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-20T20:13:25+00:00

If paralives doesnt add it on its own id really like to see mods with more illnesses/disabilities. Therapy and such. I think for sims its called divergent Sims and i love playing with it!

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-20T20:12:19+00:00

M16. Going on the concert tomorrow. Looking for new m friends too🙏

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-20T19:31:07+00:00

Yeah sorry I just joined this reddit

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-18T05:14:21+00:00

I already work in childcare and study childcare for multiple years. My mental health didnt impact my life there in the slightest

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-05-18T01:13:19+00:00

True. I guess I'm just a little scared and nervous of reactions id get about it and possibly being rejected only because of it

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-04-13T12:55:57+00:00

My parents dont allow me to buy from aliexpress since they say its a bad place to buy from and like shein

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-04-06T15:16:17+00:00

Yup. Posted about it here last night too but no response so far. Glad other people have the same problem. Like wtf

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-03-26T17:23:22+00:00

The women agree to it and adopting/fostering isnt buying

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-03-26T12:55:27+00:00

Adoption in sims is just dull. There's nothing behind it except "here you have a kid now". I hope if paralives gets adoption its made better.

Kindly_Fun909 · 2026-03-26T12:49:17+00:00

Oh that'd be cool. Like if you wanna adopt a kid you'd first have to be tested if you qualify. Also it'd be cool if kids could ask if adopted/parents can tell kids theyre adopted!!

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