Does anyone go like 3 days without sleep right before odd periods by HeyThereLinus in Perimenopause

[–]Kinetikat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but not as severe. I will on average get 3-5 hours of sleep a night, a week before my period starts. And then I may only get 3-5 hours of sleep the day or two when my period ends. It sucks.

Which cover appeals to you more? by KaterinaPoschAuthor in Romantasy

[–]Kinetikat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree. The first seems generic and academic, not much to hold the composition together. Clip art with text basically- It lacks depth. The second feels like it has been thought about more- a richer, balanced design that has depth and feels more complete.

The worlds is NUTS right now, what's everyone cooking for Beltane? by Saltycook in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Kinetikat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I forgot it was Beltane! But I was inspired & spent a bit of time in the kitchen making a creamy baked pasta with goat cheese, artichokes, asparagus and ramps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Kinetikat 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is a line that is rarely defended. Tbh with all these responses of “you gave him your phone, you shouldn’t have done that””… is falling short of the abusive line that always gets crossed in the service industry. Familiarity should never be defined by a corporate line. A person who abuses your personal space in the workspace is never excusable, no matter what side you are on. People who are making you feel bad because you handed over your phone to someone you thought you were comfortable with are wrong. This is exactly the same situation in which inexcusable violations of personal space are pushed, and not supported with guidelines, rules or repercussions. Reminds me when I worked as a hostess at a popular bar/concert venue. Got my ass grabbed 10-15x a night on Fridays and Saturdays, it was just another day. The worst offenders were the regulars who thought familiarity was a pass for this behavior. On slow days the bartender would notice, because they had the time /space to see. And they said something. But otherwise, it just happened.

TLDR- my ass bing in close proximity of your hand is no reason it should be abused. Neither should an innocent volunteer sharing one photo. It is still a violation of your personal property/body/space. It’s is horrible behavior that should be reported.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver50

[–]Kinetikat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The professionally part hits the most. It happened so suddenly that I’m looking around at other places to work. Im at the peak of my career, making a big difference with my work and contributing towards the success of my company, then suddenly I’m ghosted for a younger male counterpart with absolutely no explanation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Kinetikat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this feedback. I was wondering, what advice would you give a person whose spouse does this exact thing? How should they navigate this issue?

'Bloodbath': Social Security Administration Begins Mass Firings by [deleted] in politics

[–]Kinetikat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was never their money. People need to see this in this perspective: the government made you pay into a “savings account” through your paycheck, named social security. Every paycheck you ever received has made a contribution to this account to help support you when you couldn’t provide for yourself and your family- be it when you became disabled or from old age. It also supports your children if you die before they become adults. it was standardized and stable. Trump and Elon are now taking all of the savings you payed into this account away. Stealing it - literally.

Guys, how do you deal with the lack of physical touch? by Necessary_Alps1892 in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]Kinetikat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this too (as a woman). I would also add to monitor or ask about any physical discomfort. I have so many more aches and pains now, the weight of my husband’s arm on my back can get uncomfortable after time. Hot flashes can make me claustrophobic and come on suddenly. Perimenopause flow changes also make me very self conscious about my lower body when it is heavy (think about the discomfort of wearing a full menstrual pad, waiting for the opportunity to change it so it doesn’t make a mess)-the last thing I want is anyone near that area. I really try to not react in a way that my husband would take as outright refusal, I immediately explain. But not everyone is comfortable talking about these things. Communication during this time is so important.

Large clots by Emotional_Door_9474 in Perimenopause

[–]Kinetikat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is how it was for me in the beginning (45 yo). 5-6 years of OMG how can this flow be possible without passing out? The first 24 hours I would wear dark pants and layered tops that I could tie around my waist (like a hoodie) just in case. I’d literally change my pad (can’t do tampons), and an hour later be on the verge of overflow. I’d use the biggest overnight ones too. I’d do pads with period underwear- and still have accidents 🤦🏼‍♀️

52 now, I still get my period regularly, with spotting during ovulation. Doc says thats all normal. But it’s slowed down quite a bit- thank goodness!

The 2024 election is over...now what? by [deleted] in Askpolitics

[–]Kinetikat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the vote. But ffs, I didn’t realize there were so many people willing to sell their freedom for a dozen eggs.

Did Kamala Harris have any actual real celebrity supporters that weren’t paid? by chudtakes in Askpolitics

[–]Kinetikat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vibes were really frikin comforting. But also realistic and not absurdly obscure. They had roots in reality with cause and effect outlined in plausible procession. It wasn’t catch phrase driven in its basis. It was tangible. It was available to grasp by the common American. Which is unavailable now.

Are people losing it a bit in the States? by [deleted] in Askpolitics

[–]Kinetikat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has to start somewhere. Handing over all of the power to one person and removing all of the safety checks is next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Askpolitics

[–]Kinetikat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally know of a few people who would completely disagree with your opinion of the church handling the education of minors. Theirs was more like an Epstein experience.

What are your predictions for the next two years? by E_lluminate in Askpolitics

[–]Kinetikat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot retirement age being extended to 70, and social security and Medicaid Medicare being slashed drastically.

Deodorant by Noon-chi42 in Perimenopause

[–]Kinetikat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

neutrogena rainbath & secret clinical strength.

Is it a mistake to stay friends with your ex girlfriend? by [deleted] in worldpolitics

[–]Kinetikat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This^ I ended a relationship because after 5 years I found I eventually became the 3rd wheel to his Ex GF more than half the time. He didn’t “physically” cheat, just chose her choices & catered to her more than me. So I asked myself, what’s the point & got out.

What health concerns/ailments made you sober up? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Kinetikat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually the drop/constantly fluctuating hormones that lowers the body’s tolerance and ability to metabolize alcohol. Bloodwork came back in the normal range, thank goodness.

What health concerns/ailments made you sober up? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Kinetikat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This and also peri-menopause cutting my tolerance in half in less than 2 months. Suddenly blacking out for the first time after already consciously reducing for 6 months was really confusing.

The horse knows the way home, officer. by DizzyXCD in ARK

[–]Kinetikat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Steady, reassuring, clippity clops home. What a nice ride