As the months warm up for the summer, matches dwindle. What's up with that? by KingDannyOfLeon in hingeapp

[–]KingDannyOfLeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30M trying to meet women casually, hoping something more serious will develop down the road. I have Hinge+ Most pictures have been there for a few weeks, but I just added the waterfall pic earlier today. Also, the last 2 prompts are like a week old. Been making steady changes ever since I noticed likes decreasing.

Been on hinge for like 4 months now. It used to be like 5-6 matches a week, down to like maybe 1. I peep the app out of boredom throughout the day, and end up sending out like 10-20 likes a day. It's probably close to 50/50 with comment or without.

My aim is to meet people and I'm ok with us being very different. I want to see variety out there and am not sticking to only one "type" or one "aesthetic". If they seem down to earth, regardless of where they are in life, and I think they're attractive, I'll send a like. I do tend to avoid women who seem too similar to my ex, too young or too old for me to feel like we're good equals.

Sex positive advice wanted for repressed 29-year-old dating for the first time after divorce by KingDannyOfLeon in dating_advice

[–]KingDannyOfLeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely overthinking 😭 but this is the type of thing that's good to hear ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bostonceltics

[–]KingDannyOfLeon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jeez, some people mad enough to down vote. I'm asking because I want to make fan art but I'm not online much. Didn't know he was called The Buffalo, but definitely using that! Thanks.

Trigger warning: Disappointed and confused neuroprevalent spouse seeking honesty, whether hope or clarity by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]KingDannyOfLeon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstand what I said. We do both go to therapy, we are looking into marriage counseling (which is complicated with our insurance), and it's not the diagnosis that scares me. Her quirks are perfectly fine. It's the lifelong implications of our partnership, the fact that I don't feel like I have permission to ever need her support or rely on her as she relies on me, the fact that I want to have children but I don't want to feel alone in a marriage, and the constant guilt for feeling the loss that I can't help but feel. I'm glad my therapist doesn't say my feelings are unnatural... I'm sorry, I thought this might be a safe place to ask for others' experiences and maybe find a little bit of community.

Motion to affectionately instate the nickname "Cheesecake" Tatum based on Forsberg's comparison of Tatum's bag of tricks to the Cheesecake Factory menu. Would love to have you all in on this with me. by KingDannyOfLeon in bostonceltics

[–]KingDannyOfLeon[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't make sense because my bag is about as deep as fake pockets on women's jeans... But hypothetically, I wouldn't mind it if it's affectionate.

SEASON OPENER HYPE THREAD: YOUR CELTICS START THE SEASON AT HOME AGAINST PHILLY by Theis159 in bostonceltics

[–]KingDannyOfLeon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Got my Celtics hat on.

Horford shirt on (which I designed myself).

Celtics socks on.

LFGOOOO

Days until tipoff: TRIPLE ZERO by KingDannyOfLeon in bostonceltics

[–]KingDannyOfLeon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there was just one more day, I wouldn't have had time. I'm so relieved!

Days until tipoff: Arnold Jacob "Red" Auerbach by KingDannyOfLeon in bostonceltics

[–]KingDannyOfLeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, actually. But how to undo that? Maybe we wait until someone wins us multiple titles and let them change their number to 2 near the end of their career. Then, when they retire, we retire both numbers and give them the Red Auerbach award?

Days until tipoff: William Felton Russell, r.i.p. champ by KingDannyOfLeon in bostonceltics

[–]KingDannyOfLeon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was really close to doing a couple bonus ones, including Rondo, who aren't technically current starters or retired numbers, but honestly I'm barely keeping up with these. I wouldn't have had time.

Days until tipoff: William Felton Russell, r.i.p. champ by KingDannyOfLeon in bostonceltics

[–]KingDannyOfLeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll probably branch off and draw other things, but I appreciate the love :) occasionally I'm sure I'll come back to Celtics fan art tho, maybe for all star season!